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What happens when the very institutions sworn to protect us become the breeding ground for unchecked violence? In this searing episode, we step outside Hawaii—to confront the brutal murder of Tashianna Blake, a mother of two, whose life was stolen by her military husband in a calculated act of cruelty. Her story, set against the backdrop of Fort Carson’s bloody legacy, exposes a chilling pattern: men with no combat history, no PTSD, but a dangerous thirst for control.

From narcissistic manipulation to stolen valor, we examine how military systems fail to screen for sociopathy—and how women pay the price. 

Stay tuned for updates on the sentencing of Ruby Tenorio’s killer, and the upcoming trial of Dana Alotaibi’s estranged ex-husband, who stands accused in the gruesome deaths of Dana and her unborn son.

🔍 Verified Sources for the Case of Tashianna Blake

• Dermot Blake’s conviction and sentencing:
• A former Fort Carson soldier, Dermot Blake, was found guilty of first-degree murder for shooting his wife, Tashianna Blake, in front of their two daughters. He received a mandatory life sentence without parole.
•  Court documents revealed that Blake forced Tashianna to apologize before delivering the final shots, and that both daughters witnessed the murder

If you’re experiencing DV—please explore the resources below using a device that your abuser cannot monitor. 

U.S. Resources

• National Domestic Violence Hotline
  24/7 confidential support via phone (800-799-7233), text (“START” to 88788), and online chat. Offers safety planning, emotional support, and referrals.
• DomesticShelters.org
  Searchable database of over 3,000 shelters and programs across the U.S. and Canada. 
• National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV)
  Offers training, technical assistance, and policy advocacy. 
• Office on Violence Against Women (OVW)
  U.S. Department of Justice site with links to state coalitions, tribal programs, and national hotlines.
• State-by-State Resource Directory
  From the Office on Women’s Health—clickable map of DV coalitions and services in every U.S. state and territory.

Global Resources

• NO MORE Global Directory
  A comprehensive international directory of DV & sexual violence helplines and services in nearly every UN-recognized country.
• Hot Peach Pages
  Offers DV information & hotline listings in over 110 languages. 
• Global Network of Women’s Shelters
  Connects shelters worldwide for advocates/survivors globally.
• Pathways to Safety International
  Tailored support for Americans experiencing abuse while abroad

If you’re a service member struggling with mental health:
  • Call 988, t