What if your acts of generosity are driven by fear rather than joy? Join me, Jenna Marie Zint, on the Habit Lab Podcast as we uncover the complexities of over-responsibility in relationships. In this episode, we unravel the fine line between acts of love and the unhealthy patterns of overextending ourselves. Through a lens of curiosity and compassion, we explore how seemingly selfless actions can stem from fear and obligation, rather than genuine care, and how this affects our well-being and relationships.

We dive into the art of setting boundaries and recognizing our limits in offering support to others. We talk about the exhaustion and resentment that arises from giving more than we can afford—emotionally, physically, or spiritually. Using relatable metaphors, like the seesaw of balance, and personal anecdotes, we address the need for self-reflection and honest assessment. We'll delve into the tendency to slip into the savior role, especially within Christian contexts, and discuss the importance of understanding and respecting our true capacity.

Redefine your approach to love with us as we trace the threads of loneliness that often accompany over-responsibility. By confronting fears of unmet expectations and failure, we can embrace a more balanced dynamic where both partners contribute equally. This episode encourages you to question the roots of your actions, distinguishing between love and fear-based responses, and to release the need for control. Let’s embark on this journey together, where we turn up the volume on our thought habits and move towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Click here to Book a coaching with Jenna 

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------