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There's a version of shame that will destroy you…

And there's a version of shame that will birth you and the world you desire to create.

In this episode of Eros Money Power, I take you into the underworld of shame—not to stay there, but to learn how to eroticize it, transmute it, and use it as fuel for your leadership, your art, your wealth, and your life.

This isn't a surface-level conversation about mindset, staying high vibe, or faking confidence.

It's about how women in power—visionaries, leaders, artists, creators, women on the leading edge of influence and innovation—can stop letting shame erode their influence, and instead, turn it into the very world-shaping force that amplifies it.

You'll hear me share raw personal stories, deeper-level teachings, and provocative rituals for transforming the most taboo parts of yourself into sources of leadership, magnetism, influence, and power.

Inside this episode you'll hear:

• The origin story of this transmission—recorded during a melancholic fall day, inspired by my own shame and musings on life, death, and rebirth.
• The truth about shame as one of your greatest erotic teachers, and how it either destroys or creates, depending on how you relate to it.
• The link between patriarchal conditioning, money shame, and why women hold themselves to impossible standards in business and leadership (while men do not).
• Personal stories of "failed" launches, income dips, and leadership mistakes—and how each became a portal into deeper erotic leadership and power.
• The taboo process of "eroticizing your shame"—turning pain and contraction into freedom, influence, and creative life-force.

Ready to enter my world & unlock your power to rearrange rooms & the world in your favor?

If this conversation stirred something alive in you…if you can feel the places where shame has kinked your power and you're ready to release it…this is your invitation.

LEAD FROM YOUR EROTIC EDGE is a FREE 5-day experience for provocative, visionary women ready to lead, create, and build movements from their world-shaping erotic power and most taboo edge.

Inside, you'll learn how to wield your erotic energy as your greatest source of influence, leadership, and power, how to move with what once felt forbidden, and how to become the woman who can hold the full spectrum—pleasure, power, shame, and success—with devotion.

We begin November 24–28 inside a private Telegram space.

Come step into your next level of leadership, wealth, and legacy—from your erotic edge.

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Because when a woman is connected to her erotic power, she becomes ungovernable.

She no longer obeys systems of control or follows the patriarchal rules...she creates her own.

In this episode of Eros Money Power, I explore why erotic energy is the most revolutionary force on the planet.

This isn't only about sex—it's about your life force, your leadership, and the way your turn-on becomes an act of defiance against oppression and the key to the liberation and empowerment of others.

We're talking about what happens when women reclaim the very energy designed to be shamed, suppressed, and silenced…and how it becomes the fire that burns down corrupt systems and births a new world through us.

Inside this episode, you'll hear about:

• Eros is revolutionary: The erotic is life force itself. It dismantles systems of oppression and rebirths what's left into something regenerative, powerful, and humanity-centered.
• Embodied erotic leadership is political: Your nervous system, your eroticism, and your leadership are all intertwined. A regulated, erotically alive woman cannot be controlled.
• Pleasure as protest: When you source your leadership from eros instead of fear, you model a new paradigm of power—one rooted in aliveness, connection, and freedom NOT dominance.
• Erotic women are ungovernable: When you're resourced in your erotic power, you become formidable—a woman whose influence, wealth, and movement ripple far beyond herself.
• Legacy through eros: The more you embody this power, the more your work becomes a living act of liberation—for you, your lineage, and humanity itself. A legacy that outlasts you.

If you're a woman leader who lives on the fringe of society, who refuses to be silenced, shamed, or oppressed, who's ready to lead, create, and move from her deepest erotic aliveness...you belong inside LEAD FROM YOUR EROTIC EDGE.

This free 5-day experience inside Telegram is your initiation into the new paradigm of leadership where eros meets embodiment and power meets peace.

You'll learn how to command your influence, seduce your next level into reality, and lead movements that actually change the world.

We begin November 10–14.

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Come claim your seat in the limited-time, exclusive inner circle and feel what it's like to lead from your most powerful, erotic edge.🗝️

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There comes a moment in every woman's leadership evolution when she realizes her work has outgrown the box she built it in.

In this episode of Eros Money Power, I'm seductively pulling back the red velvet curtain on the next era of my work, a chapter defined by reverence, refined standards, and respect for the erotic.

And the secret work that's ready to be revealed...to the right women, in the right rooms.

After 11 years of teaching women how to awaken, reclaim, and embody their erotic power, I'm no longer interested in making this work palatable for the masses.

This episode is an invitation to understand why my business, leadership, and movement are becoming more selective, secretive, and deeply sacred, and how that shift mirrors what's ready to evolve within you, too.

Inside this episode, you'll hear about:

• The responsibility of the erotic: not everyone is ready to hold the power, energy, or responsibility that comes with erotic leadership.

• From made for the masses to mastery: how trying to make your work "for everyone" dilutes its potency, and why refinement and exclusivity actually serve your highest clients.
• Evolution over nostalgia: letting go of old offers, boring ass conversations, and energies that no longer represent your current mastery, secret genius, or turn on.
• Respect as reclamation: why protecting the sanctity of your art, your teachings, and your frequency is an act of self-respect and preserves your deeper legacy.

• Invitation into the next era: the birth of my new business model—The Secret Society, The Sanctum, and private mentorship (the name will be revealed soon) for women who are ready to lead from eros, power, and their secret genius.

Ready for more?

If you're a visionary woman who's outgrown the watered-down versions of vanilla leadership, and you're ready to own your erotic edge, unlock your secret genius, and move from pleasing the masses to powerful mastery—this is your invitation.

LEAD FROM YOUR EROTIC EDGE is a FREE 5-day experience inside a private Telegram space for women leaders who are ready to command the room, seduce their next level into reality, and lead movements infused with eros, influence, and impact.

We begin November 3–7.

Come claim your seat in the limited-time, exclusive inner circle and feel what it's like to lead from your most powerful, erotic edge.🗝️

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There's a power you carry within that speaks for you, before you ever open your mouth.

A frequency that shifts the atmosphere, pulls attention and rearranges a room in your favor.

In this episode of Eros Money Power, I'm pulling back the red velvet curtain to show you how to embody, and lead, from that frequency—your erotic power—so you can move through the world, your business and your legacy with ease, magnetism and full command.

Inside this episode, you'll hear about:

• How to cultivate the kind of presence that bends the room toward you effortlessly
• Why erotic power is your hidden source of influence, leadership and legacy.
• The difference between performative power vs. embodied erotic power.
• Using this frequency to shape not just rooms, but industries, movements and culture.
• How to ground into your body so your leadership exudes without force.

Your next step?

Come find me on Instagram and share your insight from today's episode with me.​

Intrigued by the exclusive offers, which I mentioned are coming soon, where I'll be leading and teaching my deepest, most secretive work?🗝️

Details will be dripping out, very slowly, soon...make sure to subscribe to Eros Money Power podcast, and follow me on Instagram.

This week on Eros Money Power, I'm sharing the raw truth about the seismic shifts and changes happening in my life, my leadership, my offer suite and my legacy.

It's the end of an erotic era, and I'm burning down everything that no longer turns me on so I can step fully into my million-dollar movement.

From retiring nearly all of my offerings for the past decade to raising my standards to penthouse suite heights, this is the behind-the-scenes of letting go of "good girl" business and claiming my erotic genius.

In this episode I dive into:

• The deeply personal decision to retire most of my programs and seal them in The Erotic Vault.

• Why clinging to what's familiar was costing me money, pleasure and power.

• The role of erotic genius in creating a movement and legacy that seduces the right women into my world.

• How the House of the Courtesan launch became an unexpected catalyst and initiation into sharper boundaries, higher pricing and more exclusive offerings.

• Letting go of "accessible to everyone" business models and stepping into a more private, in-house, high-caliber way of leading.

Your next step?

For a short time you can enter the Erotic Vault.​🗝️

​A private collection of courses, erotic transmissions, powerful teachings and wealth codes from past eras of my movement.

Click here to peruse the Erotic Vault collection. https://www.theamberrenee.com/erotic-vault

Ready to go exclusive with me?

Send me a DM on Instagram and we can discuss if you're a fit for my 6-month 1:1 bespoke offer, Woman of Influence.

I have two spots available. @theamberrenee

What if rejection wasn't a sign to shut down, collapse or abandon your deepest desires, but an invitation to deepen into your erotic power, seductively refine your strategy and get even more turned on by what's next?

In this episode, I share a recent "no" that sent me spiraling until I remembered what the courtesan would do.

Spoiler alert: she doesn't crumble. She gets off.

If you've ever felt crushed by rejection, ghosted by a client or shut down after making a vulnerable ask, this episode of the Eros Money Power Podcast is your permission slip to seduce power out of every perceived setback.

This is where collapse becomes foreplay.

And where you rise from the ashes of rejection dripping in eros, not defeat.

• How to turn rejection, disappointment and collapse into erotic energy that fuels your turn on and next move
• Why you keep asking for crumbs when your soul wants the whole damn cookie jar (and how to stop settling)
• The #1 mistake women make when they put their desires on one person or option (and how to shift into sourcing from your power instead)
• A real case study of a client who used seven "no's" to land a 6-figure YES...by getting kinky with rejection
• The courtesan's secret: how to alchemize rejection into magnetism and make the universe beg for an encore of you

If you're ready to reclaim your influence, power and pleasure on your terms...doors to House of the Courtesan are open.

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In this episode of the Eros Money Power podcast, I'm reminding you that your erotic power isn't just an energy reserved for the bedroom or a luxury, it's leverage.

It's strategy. It's a living, breathing current of influence that changes how you move, how you're received and what you allow into your life.

This is the power courtesans mastered and what modern women are reclaiming. When you learn to wield it, the world doesn't just notice…it responds.

Here's what you'll hear inside:

• Why erotic energy is not just about sex, but your most potent life-force and strategic edge as a woman
• The secret behind how courtesans used their erotic energy to create wealth, power and influence, without begging, burning out or bending yourself like a pretzel
• How the world shifts around you when you're turned on: clients pay faster, rooms respond differently and money flows with ease
• Why prioritizing pleasure is a radical political and spiritual act...one that liberates not just you, but everyone you touch

If you're ready to reclaim your influence, power and pleasure on your terms...doors to House of the Courtesan are open.

This is your invitation. Your initiation. Your return to the legacy, lineage and inheritance of the courtesan that every woman carries within her.

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In this episode of the Eros Money Power podcast, we dive into the seductive brilliance and strategy of the courtesan. How she didn't burn the patriarchy down (though we're here for that in 2025)… she played it like a masterful game of power, strategy, influence and pleasure.

Here's what you'll hear inside:

• How the courtesan used her sexuality, erotic intelligence and influence as leverage to rise in a man's world
• Why reclaiming your erotic power is the antidote to good girl conditioning and financial dependence
• What modern women can learn from courtesans about flipping survival into seduction and scarcity into strategy
• The real reason courtesans were feared, envied AND worshipped by kings, popes and powerful men alike
• How to use your erotic intelligence to influence reality and create freedom in a system built to control you
• Why manipulation, seduction and influence are deeply inherent powers we've been taught to fear as women
• How to take resources the Patriarchy never wanted you to have...money, land, a voice, power...and make it ALL yours in 2025

The courtesan didn't wait to be chosen. She chose herself.

She played the game, seduced the kings, built her wealth and became unforgettable.

If you're ready to reclaim your influence, power and pleasure on your terms...doors to House of the Courtesan are open.

This is your invitation. Your initiation. Your return to the legacy, lineage and inheritance of the courtesan that every woman carries within her.

https://www.theamberrenee.com/house-of-the-courtesan/

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Listen or read on my blog: https://www.theamberrenee.com/where-i-stand-on-women-money-motherhood-men-feminism/

I'm opening a membership soon…a society of SEX MONEY POWER for women.💋💸🔥

We'll be diving much deeper into topics like this there.

My upcoming ebook titled SELF-CENTERED WOMAN is coming soon too. I have a pre-order offer dropping in the next week & you'll definitely want in on it.🫦

Until then, enjoy the HOT content I'm dropping here, on YouTube & on my Instagram, TikTok & Threads.

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For years I thought once I made more money, I'd finally feel safe and relaxed. I thought hitting those bigger months would be the thing that made me feel grounded, secure, held.

But even when the money was flowing in—I still felt stressed, anxious and on edge.

Waking up at 3 am feeling stressed and anxious. My nervous system was still stuck in survival mode.

Because anxiety isn't a mindset problem—it's a sign my body was stuck in fight-or-flight, carrying YEARS of stored stress and survival energy.

My body didn't know how to feel safe holding more. So no matter how much money I made, it never felt like enough. I was constantly bracing for the other shoe to drop.

I had to untangle the amount of money I made from my sense of safety, worth and relaxation.

I had to learn how to regulate my nervous system and create safety within myself—so that I could relax, open and receive more without needing external circumstances to make me feel safe. This is why a regulated nervous system is an asset.

Because you can't always control external factors. You can't control how much money you make in a given month or how the economy moves—just like you can't control the stock market.

It's going to go up and down—but when you're regulated, you stay solid in the down times.

If you think you'll only feel safe and relaxed once you have enough money—you'll suffer every time life contracts or your income dips.

But when you have the tools to regulate your nervous system, you stay steady, grounded and open—no matter what's happening outside of you. You don't spiral. You don't sabotage. You don't shrink.

You move with trust and power. You let money flow to you—and stay with you—because your body knows how to hold it.

This is what I'm guiding you through in Relaxed Woman.

This isn't just about making money—it's about learning how to hold and grow it from a place of deep ease and safety. Because a relaxed woman isn't just a rich woman—she's an unshakable woman.

Join Relaxed Woman. Your body (and your bank account!) will thank you.

Ready to be guided? This is exactly what we're doing in Relaxed Woman—30 days of sensual, somatic and pleasure-based practices to release tension, retrain your nervous system and create new patterns of relaxation, receptivity and ease in your body.

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