Everything's Fucked

This week we are talking all about that little voice inside your head telling

you you're not good enough, smart enough, good looking enough. Tell it to shut

it!

Whether you learned it from your parents, or you developed that little voice

later in life, we all could use some coping mechanisms to turn that little voice

off, or at least flip the script to something positive! 

Monica and Aja are talking about their own inner voices,  where they came from,

and different ways they deal with them.

We hope you walk away from this episode with an inner voice that tells you how

amazing you really are (unless you are actually an asshole).

Happy listening!

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This week Aja and Monica are talking about parenting out of guilt. Parenting out

of guilt can be detrimental on so many levels, to both parents and children.

While it may seem like the right move at the time, even loving, making up for

pain or trauma or a traumatic experience, it teaches kids there are no

consequences for behavior, makes parenting harder in the long run. It can teach

kids manipulation and other damaging behaviors as well. In this episode we talk

about our own experiences with parenting out of guilt, what we did to overcome

it, how we are still dealing with it and much more.

Happy listening!

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Who's ready to talk about menstruation!? No one? Okay, that's the point! Let's

start this conversation!  This week we are going into our opinions on PMS,

periods, the stereotypes that surround these issues, and ideas we have on things

that can change. Are we having enough conversations at home? Why are our kids

shooting tampons off in the school bathrooms? Let's normalize bleeding, let's

normalize talking about our hormones and what happens to so many women every

month (or maybe not every month, some of us aren't regular!).  We need to make

sure our children know periods happen. We need to make sure our significant

others are here to support us in something that can be so emotionally

overwhelming for us.  Let's normalize the fact that sometimes we aren't perfect,

like how the intro to this episode started. Aja is not a fan, but Monica thinks

it is hilarious.  Let's keep this conversation going! Happy Listening!

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This episode we are talking about societies expectations placed on females, how

it's changing,  and why that is important. Through the years women have been

placed in a box and have been told they need to be a certain way. While things

are certainly changing, we are still not there yet. 

We are trying to start this conversation on how confusing it is for women, or

those who identify as women, to feel and make decisions because there is so much

conflicting information out there, as well as so much judgement. 

Let's change the expectations we place on females and those who identify as

such. 

Happy Listening!

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We talk about everything from anxiety and depression to bipolar and OCD.  From

our own personal experiences, how we manage our own mental health, and things we

have seen out in the world, this episode covers it all. Mental health isn't

something that should be ignored and we are doing our best to try and normalize

something a lot of people feel uncomfortable talking about.  We are not

professionals and we are talking to you about our own experiences. Please seek

professional help if you are feeling unsafe, suicidal, or just need help. Please

reach out if you need help finding resources.  Happy listening. 

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Parent shaming is one of those things that seems to never end. It starts from

the moment of conception and continues until.. death? Just kidding it keeps

going even when you are dead! From the moment you find out you are expecting, to

your kids name, how you parent, what your kids act like and look like, it all

seems up for discussion.  But why? Why is it anyone's business but your own.

Lets talk about how parent shaming affects us, where we see it, how we have

experienced it, and what we can do about it.  Happy Listening!

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Get to know us! This is a bonus episode about your hosts, Aja and Monica. We are

going to tell you a bunch of random facts about ourselves so you guys can get to

know us better. Things we do in our spare time, what we collect, info about our

families, and all sorts of things we think you might want to know. 

We hope you guys are ready to learn some interesting things about us both. If

you want to know more just send us a message on any one of our platforms. We are

both an open book!

Happy Listening!

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Lets talk household chores and how gender roles, or being a stay at home or work

from home parent, plays a role in the division of labor in the home.  We are

going to talk about our own experiences with chores and the division of labor in

our own households, as well as how we work with our families on creating a more

"equal" give and take on different types of chores in the home.  You'll hear how

we work with our kids and significant others and suggestions we have for

creating a more cohesive home life when it comes to working our different

responsibilities in the home.  You'll also get to laugh as we talk about how one

of us isn't allowed to do some chores in the home due to refusing to read the

instruction manual on the appliances.  Happy Listening! 

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This is one of the first Test episodes. We are talking about impactful family memories. A time where we really felt our family, our parents specifically, were there and supported us during childhood.  The conversation is mostly about our own childhoods and how we felt our parts did or did not support us and why as well as how we felt about the issues. We also go into how we are trying to do things differently for our own children. 
Since this is one of our first episodes be prepared for some rough editing and transitions!
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