Making sacrifices within a marriage where you are able to talk, trust, feel and negotiate is NOT the same as self sacrifice. Marriage is a form of Activism and a demonstration of God's love only if you have determined that the person to whom you are married has not made you their supply through manipulation, seduction and control. It is imperative that you discern this before taking the advice to remain married.

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For the spouses in sturdy marriages, with a person who is able to negotiate. Your marriage is a symbol of all that is being threatened right now. Stay married.

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You may remember Carrie from a Something Better episode, she assisted me during that podcast and since then has gone deeper into her healing journey and has been dating ever since, seeking the guidance of Dr. Pat Allen. Find Carrie on IG @carrieleelee if you want to write her!

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Knowing what is and isn't your business is a major component of emotional fitness and joyful living. Now more than ever, it also touches many facets in our present culture. In this episode I share experience and tools on getting connected with the joy of minding your own business. One tool is a brief trip through the chakra system, which I consider a science of the mind to assist you into your physiology and can only deepen your connection with God.

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An in-depth conversation with Christiane Northrup, MD on her book Dodging Energy Vampires: An Empath's Guide to Evading Relationships that Drain You and Restoring Your Health and Power

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Your breath is first. Your health and well being, first. Without your health, you have nothing. No one thing, even your job or romantic relationship, can come before it, because you can't do your job or your relationship without your health. This is a short guided experience to help you into the moment. "Be where your feet are".

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The very lovely Brenda Van Hairston joined me in this conversation about finding love and marriage later in life (40+! Through an app!) We discussed choosing to be cherished and practicing the principles of feminine energy within marriage based on Dr. Pat Allen's research and teachings. Brenda's IG: @brenda_van_hairston

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Hunting for hookups or needing him to do certain things, and behave certain ways? Or he faces the consequences of your reactions? You're not liberated. That is not empowerment. It's a need for "other" before connection to Source and self, and it is a loss of connection to deep feminine potency--all disguised as progressive partnership. And it's an epidemic of false artificial glares over the steadfast practice of being lit from within and connected to God.

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I have found that in dating and marriage and in life, control gets called choice. How did this happen? Why?

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Trailer for upcoming new podcast!

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