Check out the replay of my masterclass Reclaimed Relationship here.

Listen to this related episode, Reclamation of Courtship here.

"If you're looking for love, don't get married."

That’s just one of the many paradigm-shifting perspectives from today’s guest, Rabbi Manis Friedman—author, philosopher, and renowned lecturer on the spiritual and psychological architecture of relationships. Rabbi Friedman is one of the foremost voices challenging modern assumptions about love, marriage, intimacy, and gender roles—and his take is anything but conventional.

In this provocative episode, Kelly and Rabbi Friedman deconstruct the myths of modern romance—from why marriage shouldn’t be “for love,” to how women can actually identify a husband, not just another man. They dive deep into the nature of intimacy, the lost art of commitment, why sex should happen with the lights off, and what it truly means to belong to someone. Whether you're in the dating pool, rethinking your current relationship, or seeking to reclaim reverence for the sacred masculine and feminine, this episode will challenge you, awaken you, and offer a radically honest roadmap to relational clarity.

You’ll Learn:

• How “lights-off” intimacy activates deeper soul connection
• Why dating for love sabotages true compatibility
• How to recognize the man who makes you feel like a wife
• What long-term marriages reveal about emotional belonging
• Why conditional love weakens relational stability
• How the matchmaker model protects your heart and accelerates clarity
• What sexual objectification obscures about authentic connection
• How to exit dating dynamics without emotional wreckage
• How performance-focused sex disconnects you from real intimacy

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[02:11] Why sexual intimacy should happen with the lights off

[04:08] Why marriage is the highest form of imitating God

[06:13] Why humans are not content just being human

[07:38] Why marriage must be between a man and a woman

[08:20] The danger of seeking love instead of a person

[09:16] What long marriages reveal about true belonging

[10:02] The Fiddler on the Roof test of love

[11:17] Love as a byproduct, not the goal

[13:05] How marriage eliminates aloneness

[14:51] The difference between roommates and real intimacy

[15:27] Why intimacy requires turning off the lights

[16:33] How sensory stillness deepens connection

[18:03] Why performance ruins intimacy

[19:47] The myth of unconditional love

[20:57] The danger of sexual liberation for women

[22:06] How dating replaced commitment

[23:44] Marriage as reunion, not just union

[25:02] Why the best dates make the worst husbands

[26:17] Why multi-year relationships are emotional torture

[27:52] Why women often don’t truly choose their husbands

[28:26] The role of chemistry in real compatibility

[29:34] What it means to feel like a wife

[30:06] Why dating should be selfish and strategic

[31:57] Why giving a breakup reason is cruel

[32:35] Why women should not initiate marriage

[33:54] How men get emasculated before the wedding

[35:09] Why women need men to lead

[36:02] How matchmaking protects your heart

[37:58] Why polite dating causes emotional confusion

[39:54] Dating as emotionally safer than shopping

[40:57] Why respect between spouses heals families

[42:44] Why kids need clear parental structure

[44:17] Why grandma’s way might’ve been wiser

[45:29] What real intimacy looks like in the bedroom

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What if everything you’ve been told about parasites is wrong?

In this explosive episode, Kelly sits down with Dr. Daniel Roytas—clinical educator, researcher, and author of Can You Catch a Cold?—to unravel one of the most deeply held beliefs in both mainstream and alternative health: the idea that parasites are invaders that must be eradicated. Daniel’s work challenges the foundations of germ theory and dives into the seductive psychology of victim consciousness that underpins much of modern medicine—yes, even “natural” medicine.



Get ready to question everything you think you know about gut health, parasite cleanses, and even the existence of so-called “pathogenic” organisms. This conversation exposes how medical myths get recycled, how belief systems override biology, and why the real toxin might not be what’s in your gut—but how you think about your body. From pleomorphism and misdiagnosis to the spiritual implications of blaming nature for our ailments, this is a no-holds-barred exploration of what it truly means to reclaim health in a toxic world. If you’ve ever taken black walnut tincture or been told your symptoms are due to “Lyme,” you need to hear this.

You’ll Learn:

• How the “parasite cleanse” trend may reinforce victim consciousness
• Why the existence of parasites—even in medical literature—is still up for debate
• What polymorphism reveals about the adaptability of microbes inside the body
• How artifacts in lab tests can lead to false parasite diagnosis
• Why asymptomatic “infections” challenge germ theory logic
• How certain worms may actually protect the body from toxins
• What anti-parasitic herbs might really be doing to support detox pathways
• How the Lyme disease narrative can distract from root causes of illness
• Why focusing on “killing pathogens” may prolong chronic symptoms
• How to prioritize foundational health practices over fear-based protocols

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:03] Why parasites are the sacred cow of alternative medicine

[02:22] How parasite belief crosses both conventional and alt-health circles

[03:56] The link between parasite obsession and victim consciousness

[05:28] What we’re actually talking about when we say “parasites”

[06:43] Why some “parasites” might not cause illness at all

[08:19] New research suggesting many parasites are harmless

[10:26] The problem with asymptomatic infection logic

[12:47] How artifacts are misidentified as parasites in lab tests

[14:40] Why the theory of pleomorphism changes everything

[16:48] Studying microbes outside the body vs. inside

[19:14] How healthy people test positive for “pathogenic” organisms

[21:30] Why immune system explanations don’t add up

[24:42] What worms may actually be doing in your gut

[27:10] The surprising detox role of certain parasites

[30:44] Why “anti-parasitic” herbs may work for a different reason

[33:03] What’s really happening when people pass worms

[35:05] The emotional and cultural grip of Lyme disease

[38:16] Why misdiagnosing the cause keeps people stuck

[41:26] Simple practices that matter more than parasite cleanses

[43:45] How parasite fear reflects a deeper healing pattern

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Resources Mentioned:

Can You Catch a Cold? by Dr. Daniel Roytas | Book

Follow Humanley on Facebook and Instagram and while you’re at it, join the Telegram Channel.

You can connect with Daniel on his website and get his new book here.

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What if your anxiety isn’t in your mind—but in your field?

In this episode, Kelly sits down with researcher, inventor, and Biofield Tuning founder Eileen McKusick, whose groundbreaking work challenges everything we think we know about healing, consciousness, and the human body. With nearly 30 years of experience decoding the electric blueprint of the body using sound, Eileen has mapped the energetic anatomy that surrounds and informs our physical form—and she’s proving it’s more than just woo.

You’ll learn how unresolved trauma shows up as electrical noise in your field, why thoughts aren’t stored in your brain, and how tuning forks can uncover—and dissolve—lifelong emotional patterns. Eileen breaks down the science of vibrational healing in language that’s as sharp as it is accessible, offering a powerful new lens for understanding everything from anxiety and chronic pain to inherited trauma and illness. Whether you're energy-curious or deep down the frequency rabbit hole, this conversation will leave you rethinking what it means to be coherent—and how to reclaim your signal.

You’ll Learn:

• How tuning forks activate your body’s innate ability to reorganize and self-heal
• What emotional tones in the biofield reveal about stored trauma and subconscious patterning
• Why thoughts are stored in the energy field—not the brain—and how that changes healing
• How to detect and decode the vibrational “noise” that disrupts health and flow
• What coherence in your biofield actually means—and how it drives physical resilience
• How sound interacts with the plasma body to shift emotional and physiological states
• Why most chronic symptoms stem from unresolved tension patterns, not pathology

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:45] How thoughts may exist outside the brain

[02:30] Practical ways to bring coherence to your energy field

[03:05] The idea that humans are electric beings

[05:30] What it means to live in a vibrational cosmology

[08:05] Tuning forks as tools for energetic feedback

[10:05] Why vibes don’t lie—reading emotion through frequency

[12:10] What tuning forks reveal about emotional memory

[14:05] How emotional patterns are stored in specific zones of the field

[16:45] Why anyone can learn to feel energetic distortions

[17:30] Memories are stored outside the body in magnetic standing waves

[22:30] A shocking example of inherited trauma imprinting in the womb

[27:25] The hidden role of worthiness in chronic pain and illness

[29:10] What coherence actually means for your body and mind

[33:00] Why injuries often occur in incoherent zones of your field

[35:10] How forks imprint coherent frequency back into the system

[38:00] The link between stress, bone loss, and electrical depletion

[40:00] Water, memory, and the vibrational nature of the body

[45:00] Rewiring subconscious loops to release stuckness

[48:40] 174hz fork to deepen relaxation

[51:00] How tension turns into lightness through tuning

[53:30] 528hz fork to brighten the field

[55:15] How tension suppresses emotional expression

[57:00] Resilience as the new immunity

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Resources Mentioned:

Biofield Tuning | Website

The Secret Life of Plants by Peter Tompkins and Christopher Bird | Book or Audiobook

Tuning the Human Biofield by Eileen McKusick | Book or Audiobook

Sonic Slider Tuning Fork | Website

Sing the Body Electric | Bodywork Series

Veda Austin’s work on structured water | Website

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Follow Biofield Tuning on Facebook and Instagram.

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Use code KELLYBROGAN for 15% off your first purchase at the Biofield Tuning Store. Not valid during sales. Exclusions apply.

Learn more about Dr. Kelly Brogan's signature health protocol, Vital Mind Reset here.

“Most ‘biohacks’ numb your body—this one helps it remember how to heal.”



In this episode, Kelly sits down with Rush Simonson, Chairman and CEO of Juvent Health, a company pioneering a regenerative health tech that’s quietly disrupting everything we think we know about movement, aging, and musculoskeletal vitality. With over 25 years in medtech and surgical innovation, Rush has seen what works—and more importantly, what doesn’t—when it comes to long-term healing. His journey from spinal implants to cellular biomechanics reveals a truth most wellness circles ignore: real health is mechanical, cellular, and shockingly primal.

This conversation dives deep into the science behind micro-impact, why traditional vibration plates may be doing more harm than good, and how your body’s innate regenerative systems—bone density, joint repair, lymphatic flow, proprioception—are directly linked to how often, and how effectively, you move. You’ll learn why walking barefoot could be the most powerful supplement you’re not taking, how micro-motion affects brain health and even Parkinson’s outcomes, and why this subtle technology could keep your parents out of assisted living. Whether you're a barefoot biohacker, a movement minimalist, or just looking for ways to age with more autonomy, this episode is a goldmine.

You’ll Learn:

• How micro-impact technology activates the body’s natural regenerative systems
• Why traditional vibration plates may harm more than help
• How mechano-transduction drives cellular repair and joint health
• What 0.05mm of calibrated movement reveals about healing efficiency
• How to simulate 5 miles of barefoot walking in just 20 minutes
• Why most orthopedic implants fail long-term—and what works better
• How daily micro-impact supports lymphatic drainage and brain detox
• What barefoot shoes get right (and how to transition safely)
• How proprioception training reduces fall risk and boosts longevity

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:42] The hidden importance of barefoot walking

[02:18] What makes the Juvent plate different from vibration plates

[03:12] Kelly’s personal journey with movement and muscle loss

[04:45] How gym training and walking restored balance

[05:36] The myth of vibration plates as a walking replacement

[06:08] How Juvent mimics barefoot walking for metabolic health

[08:00] How Rush became disillusioned with surgical implants

[11:16] How mechano-transduction fuels cellular nutrition

[13:02] Why lack of movement leads to impact deficiency

[14:21] The concept of vita-kin: a daily kinetic vitamin

[15:52] How Juvent delivers safe and effective micro-impact

[17:06] How Juvent activates lymphatic and glymphatic systems

[24:45] How small daily inputs protect future vitality

[27:08] How resonance makes micro-impact effective

[28:44] Juvent as a “dose-correct” physiological therapy

[30:12] How Juvent improves balance and prevents falls

[31:30] How cellular interaction depends on movement

[32:47] How Juvent reconnects you to natural biological inputs

[35:00] How Juvent helped Rush’s mother avoid a nursing home

[36:28] Why Juvent supports metabolic and musculoskeletal health

[37:50] Steve Harvey’s pain relief and national endorsement

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What if your symptoms aren’t the problem—but the clue?

In this episode, Kelly flips the script on everything you’ve been taught about healing. Drawing from years of clinical experience and her own personal transformation, she challenges the idea that health is about fixing what’s wrong. Instead, she makes a bold case for seeing symptoms as sacred signals from your body—not nuisances to suppress, but messages to decode. You’ll learn why true power lies in ending the war within, how to stop outsourcing your sovereignty to “experts,” and how practices like German New Medicine, Family Constellations, and self-tracking can radically rewire your relationship to your body. If you’ve tried all the supplements, all the protocols, and still feel stuck, this episode might just be your way out—by showing you that healing starts when the fight ends.

You’ll Learn:

• How resolving internal conflict reclaims energy and restores physical vitality
• Why chasing symptom relief often reinforces victim consciousness
• How the “rescuer-victim-villain” triangle keeps you stuck in chronic illness
• What German New Medicine reveals about the hidden purpose of symptoms
• How ritual self-awareness practices rewire your relationship to your body
• Why most functional testing subtly disempowers instead of heals
• How to identify the moment a symptom begins—and why that date matters
• Why reframing your symptoms can create safer internal conditions for healing
• How to recognize when you’ve outsourced your authority to an “expert” disguised as a guide

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[00:38] Why biohacking and functional medicine aren’t working for many women

[01:34] The one insight that changed how I see symptoms

[02:08] How to decode the body’s messages without external validation

[02:56] Why rejecting your symptoms creates inner conflict

[03:29] How childhood conditioning disconnects us from body autonomy

[04:18] The religious roots of disembodiment

[05:02] Feminism and the push to transcend biology

[05:35] The middle path: power through embodiment, not bypass

[06:15] Why seeing the body as “just biology” leads to fragmentation

[06:54] How expert dependency fuels triangulation against the self

[07:28] The hidden role of the rescuer in chronic illness

[08:01] Why symptoms can’t be resolved while you’re still in resistance

[08:33] The most radical health practice is neutrality

[09:05] What actually happens when the body feels safe

[09:38] Why resolution is not about symptom elimination

[10:01] How German New Medicine reframes symptom meaning

[10:35] Louise Hay’s framework for decoding symptom messages

[11:02] The role of Family Constellation in healing

[11:42] Why symptoms often have a deeper purpose

[12:14] The trap of becoming a professional patient

[12:47] Why dependency in health mirrors parent-child dynamics

[13:27] When it’s time to respond differently to old patterns

[13:59] What secure attachment to your body actually looks like

[14:30] Ending manipulation and frustration with your body

[15:01] How supplements can become offerings instead of fixes

[15:34] A new way to relate to illness with love and curiosity

[16:00] My number one health tip: write down symptom onset dates

[16:35] How this one practice speeds up your healing clarity

[17:15] Symptoms are messages, not problems

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Resources Mentioned:

German New Medicine | Website

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay | Book or Audiobook

Family Constellation Therapy | Website

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Instagram: @kellybroganmd

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Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here and join the companion program, Reclaimed, here.

Learn more about Dr. Kelly Brogan's signature health protocol, Vital Mind Reset here.

"You don’t need motivation to change—just a lemon and a willingness to get weird."

In this episode, Kelly sits down with Britt Frank—licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma educator, and author of The Science of Stuck—to unravel one of the most misunderstood inner states: stuckness. With raw honesty and sharp humor, Britt dismantles the myths around motivation, trauma, and change, showing us that what looks like inertia is often a disguised survival strategy.

You’ll learn why most people aren’t actually stuck—they’re just allergic to their available options. Britt dives deep into the psychological mechanics behind avoidance, procrastination, codependency, addiction (including addiction to people), and the quiet chaos of a “fine” life that’s missing fire. Expect mind-blowing takes on why motivation is overrated, how biting a lemon can rewire your nervous system in real-time, and why your “bad” behaviors might just be keeping you safe. If you’re ready to get out of your own way, this episode is your wake-up call.

You’ll Learn:

• How micro-yeses create momentum and override paralysis
• Why “I have no choices” is usually a perception problem, not a reality
• How biting a lemon can disrupt procrastination by shocking your nervous system
• How to reframe “I’m stuck” as a sign of hidden benefits, not just dysfunction
• Why motivation is not a prerequisite for action—and what to rely on instead
• How to identify the real payoff behind self-sabotaging behaviors
• What shutting down desire signals about nervous system regulation
• Why boredom and numbness can be harder to escape than rock bottom

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[00:45] Why feeling stuck is the root of suffering

[01:32] How addiction to people can mask as relationship issues

[02:06] Motivation is not required for change

[03:01] Why therapists often professionalize their own trauma

[04:15] What “stuckness” actually means

[05:24] Why saying “I have no choices” is often a lie

[07:11] How to spot micro-choices even in extreme situations

[09:28] Why wondering is more effective than figuring out “why”

[13:45] How to recognize invisible choices

[15:08] What keeps people in harmful but familiar patterns

[16:52] The right time to explore your hidden motivations

[18:25] Why morality-based thinking keeps you stuck

[20:12] Why some people feel nothing at all—and how to move anyway

[24:06] Why a step in the wrong direction is still progress

[26:36] You’re always motivated—just not how you think

[28:56] Parts work as a strategy for inner leadership

[30:34] How to coach your inner parts instead of bulldozing them

[33:00] How pathologizing “bad” parts keeps you fragmented

[35:08] Symptoms are messengers, not malfunctions

[37:03] All behavior is functional—even the destructive ones

[41:17] The shift from pathology to injury-based thinking

[43:03] The value of having a pause between trigger and action

[45:12] Why internal structure matters more than symptom elimination

[51:13] Getting hooked on the highs and lows of chaos

[53:00] Pattern disruption as the key to change

[54:21] Why pattern breaks create choice windows

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Resources Mentioned:

The Science of Stuck by Britt Frank | Book or Audiobook

Align Your Mind by Britt Frank | Book or Audiobook

Internal Family Systems (IFS) by Dr. Richard Schwartz | Website

Sonic Slider by Biofield Tuning | Website

Get Britt's newest book, Align Your Mind, here. You can also connect with her on her website and her Instagram.

Find more from Kelly:

Instagram: @kellybroganmd

Website: kellybroganmd.com

Join Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.

Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here and join the companion program, Reclaimed, here.

Use code KELLYBROGAN at biofieldtuningstore.com for 15% off your first purchase. Not valid during sales. Exclusions apply.

Check out the replay of my masterclass Reclaimed Relationship here.

You’re not being “nice”—you’re lying for safety.

In this episode, Kelly sits down with feminine embodiment teacher and unapologetic truth-teller Perri Chase to expose the hidden cost of the fawning response—why it works, what it protects, and how it hijacks your nervous system, your relationships, and your sense of self.

Perri, creator of the transformational practice Sex Bomb and a leader in modern feminine awakening, brings a raw and riveting perspective to the conversation. Her work unpacks the addictive loop of shame, the villainization of women’s needs, and the subtle ways we betray ourselves daily under the guise of “being good.” With decades of lived experience, provocative teachings, and a sharp lens on spiritual bypassing and codependent dynamics, Perri doesn’t just talk embodiment—she lives it.

This is not your average empowerment episode. It’s a permission slip to stop performing, start feeling, and finally claim what you actually want.

You’ll Learn:

• How the fawning response rewires your nervous system to lie for safety
• Why shame can become a seductive, self-reinforcing addiction
• How to identify and interrupt codependent communication loops
• What sexual energy reveals about your capacity to hold intensity
• Why regulating your nervous system doesn’t always require slowing down
• How unmet needs mutate into people-pleasing and self-abandonment
• What “negative empathy” teaches about dissolving the victim-perpetrator split
• How to use sensation-based awareness to dissolve reactive patterns
• Why “being good” often masks an avoidance of boundaries and truth
• How to shift from external validation to internal energetic sovereignty

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:05] What the fawning response is and why it works

[04:52] The link between fawning and lying for safety

[10:50] The cost of being “nice” instead of honest

[13:40] How feminine awakening shifts priorities from safety to self

[16:42] The fear of chaos and suppression of feminine life force

[20:15] The difference between survival-driven tribes and conscious communities

[24:40] What a healthy masculine container feels like in partnership

[27:00] Shame as a wet blanket and addictive emotional loop

[33:50] Why “there are no victims” isn’t always useful

[36:25] Family constellation theory and the victim-perpetrator mirror

[43:00] Transitioning from mental awakening to body-based awakening

[45:35] How sexual energy helps regulate the nervous system from within

[48:50] The shift from managing thoughts to creating from stillness

[54:10] The danger of staying in relationships out of fear of loss

[56:50] Maturing into a woman who no longer needs to fight to be herself

[59:50] Breaking generational silence around female embodiment

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Resources Mentioned:

Orgasmic Meditation (OM) by OneTaste | Website

My Mother/My Self by Nancy Friday | Book

Family Constellation Therapy | Website

Pussy Map – women's sexuality and embodiment course by Perri Chase | Course

You can connect with Perri and learn about all of her current offerings here.

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Instagram: @kellybroganmd

Website: kellybroganmd.com

Join Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.

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Join Kelly's Reclaimed program and membership here

In this provocative solo episode, Kelly unpacks the life-altering insights from Pat Allen’s classic book Getting to “I Do”. Drawing from her own experience and years of clinical observation, Kelly explores the often uncomfortable—but liberating—truths about masculine/feminine dynamics, romantic polarity, and the myth of the “career woman.” She breaks down why women’s power lies not in doing more or achieving more, but in mastering the art of the “no,” cherishing themselves first, and choosing the dynamics that truly serve their deepest desires.

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this is a blueprint for reclaiming your feminine essence and reshaping your relationship reality—without another strategy, seduction tactic, or self-help checklist.

You’ll Learn:

• How polarity clarifies power dynamics in romantic relationships
• Why seeking both respect and cherishing can sabotage intimacy
• How to choose between being a career woman or a woman with a career
• What the “five-second gaze” reveals about feminine initiation and nervous system capacity
• How withholding sex until commitment rewires relational self-worth
• Why honoring your “no” is the ultimate feminine flex
• What happens when women unconsciously reject the men they claim to love
• How emotional and intellectual pedestals define partner roles
• Why many high-achieving women feel resentful, bitter, or overwhelmed in relationships
• What asking for more love or attention signals about relational misalignment

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:00] Why modern relationships are struggling

[01:58] Difference between being cherished and respected

[03:05] Why demanding both respect and cherishing doesn’t work

[04:00] Choosing your relational orientation

[05:02] The meaning of a woman with a career vs a career woman

[06:00] The gaslighting of career fulfillment

[07:02] Honoring the power of your no

[08:00] Why sexual access should come after commitment

[09:05] Defining commitment

[11:02] Living from your pleasure and feminine gifts

[12:00] How to stop chasing femininity and power

[13:02] Why you should not ask a man for more love or attention

[14:00] Traits of a cherished woman

[15:03] Traits of a respected partner

[16:00] Why respected partners focus on giving

[17:02] Red flags in dating and complementarity

[18:00] Manipulation and mother wounds in relationships

[19:00] How projection blocks intimacy

[20:00] Staying until you reach apathy and empathy

[21:02] Signs a man is truly committed

[22:00] Why early stages of dating matter

[23:00] Applying these ideas to marriage

Resources Mentioned:

Inspiration derived from this book by Amy Loftus

Getting to 'I Do' by Pat Allen and Sandra Harmon | Book or Audiobook

Dr. Christiane Northrup | Website

Vital Mind Reset by Dr. Kelly Brogan | Website

Laura Doyle | Website

Find more from Kelly:

Instagram: @kellybroganmd

Website: kellybroganmd.com

Join Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.

Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here and join the companion program, Reclaimed, here.

👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here

Learn more about Dr. Kelly Brogan's signature health protocol, Vital Mind Reset here

You don’t have a mindset problem—you have a commitment problem.

In this episode, Kelly sits down with John Assaraf, one of the leading minds in brain retraining and behaviour change, to unpack the neuroscience of why we stay stuck—and how to finally break free. A New York Times bestselling author and featured expert from The Secret, John has built five multimillion-dollar businesses, overcome addiction, healed ulcerative colitis without medication, and transformed his relationship patterns—all using the exact tools he now teaches.

They cover why most people unconsciously choose to stay stuck, how self-talk wires your brain for failure or freedom, and why the Law of Attraction is useless without what John calls the “Law of G.O.Y.A.”. Whether you’re trying to quit sugar, start a business, or break lifelong emotional patterns, this conversation reveals the mechanics of meaningful, lasting transformation—and gives you a clear path to start taking action today.

You’ll Learn:

• How rewriting your self-talk patterns reshapes your brain’s neurochemistry and behaviour
• Why the “Law of G.O.Y.A.” outperforms the Law of Attraction in real-world results
• What avoidance, procrastination, and sabotage reveal about subconscious fear circuits
• How visualizing success triggers neural coherence and primes the brain for action
• Why consistency beats intensity when building new habits and identity
• How to identify the exact belief systems blocking your next transformation
• What the science of automaticity teaches about lasting change through repetition
• How emotional rehearsal overrides fear and creates new default responses
• Why most people fail not from lack of knowledge, but lack of inner alignment
• How to train your “innercise” muscle daily to build discipline, confidence, and clarity

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[01:30] What drives self-sabotage and procrastination

[03:14] Childhood trauma and early struggles

[05:00] Discovering the power of the brain

[07:00] Action versus impulsivity

[08:00] Understanding stuckness

[10:00] How neurochemicals reinforce feeling stuck

[12:00] Addiction to stuckness and secondary gain

[14:00] How patterns are automated by the brain

[16:00] Procrastination and fear of failure

[18:00] Conflict between goals and self-image

[20:00] Vibrational coherence explained

[22:00] Recipe for achieving goals

[24:00] How artificial intelligence exposes the real issue

[26:00] Healing ulcerative colitis naturally

[29:00] Overcoming alcoholism with identity work

[31:00] Fixing relationship patterns by changing beliefs

[33:00] Building businesses without traditional education

[36:00] Healing chronic illness without medication

[38:00] Why commitment beats interest

[41:00] How upgrading skills changed John’s life

[44:00] Finding the real cause of procrastination

[46:00] Law of GOYA explained

[48:00] Mastering change versus disappointment

[50:00] Why consistency beats intensity

[53:00] Building self-trust through small daily actions

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Gay Hendricks, Ph.D., is a psychologist, bestselling author, and expert in relationship and bodymind therapies with over 45 years of experience.



In this episode, you're going to learn how we unconsciously block success and happiness, what an upper limit problem looks like, why fear often follows positive experiences, how to move into your zone of genius, and how physical symptoms can reveal emotional patterns.

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[03:00] Personal examples of struggling to hold positive feelings

[06:00] The upper limit problem explained

[08:15] How fear causes drama after good experiences

[10:20] Staying uplifted without fear pulling you back

[13:05] Why we unconsciously stay small

[15:00] Childhood roots of upper limit problems

[18:00] How success can trigger guilt and fear

[21:00] Fear of outshining and loyalty to others' pain

[24:00] Limiting beliefs even in successful people

[27:00] How to break unconscious agreements

[30:00] Learning to enjoy success without guilt

[33:00] Gay's writing journey and building prosperity

[36:00] Fulfillment in relationships and career

[39:00] How upper limits show up through arguments and illness

[42:00] Fear as the driver behind accidents

[45:00] How somatic symptoms reflect emotional blocks

[48:00] Loving and accepting fear to heal

Resources Mentioned:

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks | Book or Audiobook

Five Wishes by Gay Hendricks | Book or Audiobook

Conscious Loving by Gay Hendricks and Kathlyn Hendricks | Book or Audiobook

The Spiritual Cinema Circle | Facebook

If you want to learn more about Gay's work, visit hendricks.com and foundationforconsciousliving.org.

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Find more from Kelly:

Instagram: @kellybroganmd

Website: kellybroganmd.com

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Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here and join the companion program, Reclaimed, here.

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