The average age a child first sees porn online is nine to eleven. They are not looking for it. It finds them.

In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Dr. Shefali, who has been on Oprah more than any other guest and is one of the most trusted voices in conscious parenting alive today. She joins Emily with two new books just weeks apart, Raising Conscious Sons and Raising Conscious Daughters, and the two go deep on the questions Emily is sitting with in real time as a mother to a seven-year-old boy.

They talk about what a screen is actually giving a child that a parent can learn to give instead, why the average boy is never initiated into his own sexuality or his own masculinity, and why that single gap traces a direct line to shame, misogyny, and the abuse now surfacing everywhere from the Epstein files to a website called Motherless. Dr. Shefali also opens up about what writing these two books dissolved in her, a judgment of an entire generation she didn't know she was carrying, and a new compassion for men she wasn't expecting to find.

Dr. Shefali Tsabary holds a doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University and is a New York Times bestselling author who pioneered the conscious parenting movement. She has appeared on Oprah more times than any other guest and is the author of nine books, including The Conscious Parent, The Awakened Family, A Radical Awakening, and The Parenting Map. Her two newest books, Raising Conscious Sons and Raising Conscious Daughters, are available now.

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You cannot escape a cage you cannot see.

In this episode, Emily Fletcher welcomes back Jim Curtis, a coach and author who has spent years healing his own life and now helps others move from suffering into possibility. Jim's own story includes a difficult childhood and an undiagnosed illness at 19 that left lesions on his spinal cord, taking him from an athletic identity to a wheelchair, and forcing him to rebuild who he was. His new book, The Book of Possibility: Release, Align, Become, distills what he learned into a path anyone can follow, out Sept 1.

Emily and Jim go deep on judgment, forgiveness, and what Jim calls invisible cages, the patterns running our lives that we can't change until we see them. Emily shares two of her own stories along the way, a New York street encounter with a disabled Uber driver's quiet generosity, and the night her own back gave out after months of overgiving. Jim also breaks down the neuro-linguistic programming behind his book and reads a passage live.

In this episode, Jim explores:

– The two-word answer he received when he asked a channeled being why we're here– A judgment story from Burning Man, and the pattern of becoming exactly what he judges– Why forgiveness is so hard, and why the ego doesn't want to let someone off the hook– Quantum jumping, memory reconsolidation, and hypnosis– His own story: a difficult childhood, an illness at 19, and rebuilding from a wheelchair– The invisible cages concept, and why the door out is always unlocked– Why your actual outcomes, not your intentions, reveal what's really running your life– The classic trope of the over-giving healer, and learning to charge for his work– The line he calls his favorite: "pain is part of the human experience, suffering is optional"– Miracle stories from his career, and why he won't try to fix the pain people write to him about– The NLP behind the book's language, and its parallel to the pain-relief mechanics of BDSM– His next project: a certification school for hypno coaches

Key Moments:

01:16 – The Osho quote: a woman dancing is closer to God than a man meditating05:39 – Channeling Metatron: "see beauty, spread beauty"07:16 – The Burning Man judgment story10:03 – Forgiveness as the way out of closed fists14:47 – Quantum jumping and rewriting memory through hypnosis17:28 – Jim's own story: an abusive childhood and an illness at 1921:27 – The invisible cages, and why the door is always unlocked23:02 – Finding what's running your life by looking at your outcomes29:06 – The Uber driver story: a disabled man's quiet generosity34:05 – The classic trope of the over-giving, unboundaried healer44:47 – "Pain is part of the human experience, suffering is optional"49:15 – Miracle stories: fear eradication, eyesight, and unexpected divorces51:40 – Emily's own story: her back giving out after months of overgiving57:26 – A live reading from the book: "You are the love you seek"1:03:31 – The surprising parallel between NLP and BDSM's pain-relief mechanics1:05:57 – Book details: Sept 1 release, 17 chapters, why to buy the hardcover

More from Jim Curtis:Get The Book of Possibility: www.bookofpossibility.comVisit Jim's website: www.jimcurtiscoaching.com

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What if the parts of reality you can’t see are influencing far more than you realize?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with wellness entrepreneur Todd Shipman, who enters the world of quantum energy as a full-blown skeptic, determined to prove that much of what he is seeing is nonsense.

Then he starts experimenting for himself.

Todd shares the personal test that first challenges his skepticism and sends him deeper into the study of frequency, quantum energy, and quantum entanglement. What begins as an attempt to debunk the unseen becomes a much bigger exploration of how information, energy, and the physical body may interact.

Emily connects Todd’s work to a concept that sits at the heart of Ziva: the Unmanifest, the field beneath the physical reality we can touch and see. Together, they explore what quantum entanglement means, why the quantum field can be so difficult to put into language, and what it looks like to create a physical bridge between the seen and unseen.

They also get into EMFs, manifestation, water, intention, LeelaQ’s Infinity Bloc, and one of the most important questions in any conversation about the unseen: How do you stay open-minded without abandoning discernment?

Emily and Todd return again and again to the balance between scientific research and lived experience, especially when something feels real before we fully understand how to measure it.

If the word quantum makes one part of you curious and another part of you skeptical, this conversation gives both parts a seat at the table.

Emily is experimenting with LeelaQ’s Infinity Bloc as a physical way to engage with concepts that normally live in the unseen, placing things like water, jewelry, written intentions, and prayers inside. LeelaQ describes its technology as designed to create a harmonizing quantum-energy field.

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What if you've been lied to about what it actually takes to find your purpose?

In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Suzy Welch — NYU Stern professor, New York Times bestselling author of Becoming You, and one of the most trusted voices in the world on purpose and career strategy. Suzy walks Emily through the research-backed framework she teaches at NYU (the same one that makes grown adults cry in the front row), and the two go deep on faith, grief, and what really pulls people away from the life they were meant to live.

Suzy opens up about the “Four Horsemen of Values Destruction,” the forces she's identified that quietly hijack people's purpose: expectations, expedience, events, and economic security. She shares the eerily universal “widow's dream” she experienced after her husband died, and why she doesn't believe anyone can do life without prayer. She also tells the story of a woman whose family was torn apart after a tragic boating accident, and how Suzy's own decision-making method helped bring that family back from the edge, including pulling her father back from the brink of suicide. It's a rare mix of hard data, personal faith, and real transformation.

Your intuition isn't quiet. It's just been out-shouted by your mind for years.

In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Anna Gannon, an intuitive psychic and energy mastery teacher who has spent years training hundreds of people to hear their own inner guidance. Anna breaks down the ten distinct ways intuition actually speaks, from chills and gut feelings to taste, smell, and a knowing with zero evidence to back it up, and explains why the heart always talks first.

Anna also shares her own story: starting Ziva Meditation while deep in postpartum depression, then a solo pilgrimage to India where a kundalini awakening left her getting electrically shocked every five seconds for three months. She traces how her meditation foundation gave her the nervous system capacity to hold that awakening, and how Ziva Magic's emotional alchemy work helped her channel that raw current into her creativity and her marriage. The episode closes with a story of using her intuition to help heal her mother from a jungle hammock in Costa Rica.

In this episode, Anna explores:

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✨ Ziva Magic is open.

This isn't just a course, it's a movement, a prayer, and the culmination of Emily's life's work. Ziva Magic blends ancient wisdom, modern science, and a powerful community of Magic Makers, all so you can learn how to magnetize the life of your wildest dreams. It's crafted to help you Visualize, Alchemize, and Magnetize the life you've always imagined, not only for you but for the planet. Grounded in science, but inspired by magic.

Inside, you'll merge with your future self, become the version of you who is already an energetic match for your dream, transmute fear into fuel, and learn to use your pleasure to pray.

The better you feel, the more magnetic you become.

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What if the thing you've spent decades avoiding is the exact thing that's been trying to help you?

In this bonus student spotlight episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Signy, a grocery store manager who now mentors underprivileged and neurodivergent people at work. Signy grew up in a deeply restrictive, religious household where women were raised to have babies, not opinions. Her father died by suicide when she was eight, and she spent decades pushing grief and anger down rather than feeling them, until those feelings started arriving anyway, in waves she couldn't predict or control.

Signy shares how Ziva Meditation gave her a nervous system baseline, and how Ziva Magic's Alchemize practice became her real turning point, teaching her to give her anger and grief the microphone instead of letting them steal it. She talks about the tsunami analogy that reframed everything, the moment her boss asked why she wasn't losing her mind under pressure that was breaking everyone else on her team, and the appointment where her own doctor told her she was healthier in her mid-forties than she'd been in years.

In this episode, Signy explores:

Key Moments:

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Meditation to dissolve stress at the root. Embodied manifesting to turn your emotions into fuel. A mantra ceremony and a community built to hold you through all of it. Doors close Fri, Aug 7 at 11:59p ET.

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On his intake form, he wrote one word: skeptical. By the last night of his retreat, he said something completely different.

In this bonus student spotlight episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Danny, an optometrist, father, and husband who came to Ziva Magic a self-proclaimed skeptic and left, in his own words, a believer in magic. Danny is exactly the kind of person this work is built for: logical, raised to equate happiness with achievement, and never once spiritual before this. He joined on what he calls a rather last-minute decision, simply because the message on Emily's podcast resonated.

Danny shares the words that confused him at first—download, container, frequency—and how it felt to finally understand them. He describes the moment magic stopped being abstract and started showing up in a cup of tea, on a paddleboard, and playing trucks with his son. And he offers one of the clearest metaphors this show has heard for why logic alone isn't enough: a brand new laptop that never gets plugged into Wi-Fi.

In this episode, Danny explores:

• The one word on his intake form, and the very different words he said on his last night
• Why he introduces himself as father, husband, optometrist, in that order
• Life before Ziva Magic: pure logic, no spirituality, and a constant need to do more
• Why the dream itself was never the point, and what it actually indicates
• His wife and coworkers noticing he's “happier at work now”
• The jargon that confused him at first, and how he'd define magic now
• Planting his first garden at 46, and finding actual magic in a carrot
• The Wi-Fi analogy: why a great brain disconnected from spirit doesn't get far
• Reclaiming the word pleasure, from tea to paddleboarding to playing trucks with his son
• Waking up the body's own internal pharmacy, without any substances

Key Moments:

00:49 – His intake form: “I'm skeptical” to “I believe in magic”
02:54 – Life before Ziva Magic: pure logic, no spirituality
04:17 – Giving himself permission to ask what he actually wants
06:44 – The biggest shift: trusting things will fall into place
09:24 – The old pattern: always doing more to make his parents happy
10:00 – His wife's report: “you're happier at work now”
11:23 – The words that confused him: download, container, frequency
12:18 – Defining magic in his own words
15:24 – Planting his first garden, and finding magic in a carrot
18:58 – The Wi-Fi analogy: a great laptop that was never plugged in
21:27 – Reclaiming pleasure in tea, paddleboarding, and playing trucks with his son
22:47 – Waking up the internal pharmacy, and the lizard brain

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Twelve years of practice, and one of the worst nights of his life, met in the same body.

In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Oliver Lehne, an actor, playwright, and Ziva meditator she's known for over twelve years. Oliver came to meditation, by his own admission, to impress people. He arrived anxious, low on self-esteem, and constantly deferring to everyone else's opinion. What's emerged since is a man who trusts himself enough to create from that trust, including a play that landed a London producer within days of one conversation.

Oliver and Emily trace his path from meditation into embodied manifesting, and he shares the exact phrase that came through in his first real pleasure prayer, one he still writes in his journal every morning. He also opens up about the night his husband had a brain injury on Christmas Eve, and how the steadiness he'd built over a decade of practice carried him through it.

In this episode, Oliver explores:

Key Moments:

🎥 The Magic Maker replays come down Aug 7.

If you haven't watched all three parts, or want to sit with them again before you decide, now's the time.

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What if you've been surviving your life instead of actually living it, and you didn't even know it?

✨ Enrollment for the Ziva Experience is officially open. Meditation to dissolve stress at the root, embodied manifesting to turn emotion into fuel, and a community built to hold you through all of it. Join us now → experience.zivameditation.com

In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Tammy Lewis, a business owner, mother of two, and now a Ziva Guide, to trace what changed between the version of her quietly holding everything together and the version of her now manifesting a cross-country move, a new school, and an entirely different marriage, with speed and ease.

Before Ziva, nothing was broken, but everything was heavy: she was managing everyone else's emotions while hers sat at the bottom of the list. "It was getting by," she says. "I was surviving my life instead of actually living it."

She found Ziva in 2021, and between being consistent with her daily Ziva Meditation practice, two pilgrimages, and years of practicing Ziva Magic's embodied manifesting formula, she learned to tell a thought that's “of her” from guidance that moves “through her.” Now her emotional lows resolve in minutes instead of days, manifestations show up almost daily, and she sums up her reality in one line: "Honestly, everything feels like magic."

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Tune into the highlights from Part 3 of Magic Maker Live with Emily Fletcher.

👉 Watch the full replay (available for a limited time, Parts 1, 2, and 3) and join the priority list to be first to know when the doors open: https://zivameditation.com/replay

On Thur, Jul 23, Emily Fletcher closed out Magic Maker with Part 3, the moment this whole series had been building toward. She revealed the full five-part Ziva formula and led the community through a live taste of Visualize, Alchemize, and Magnetize, back to back, in real time.

You'll learn:

– The visualization Emily uses to reconnect with the question, what would I love– Why alchemizing what's in the way comes before magnetizing what you want– A live taste of sacred rage and pleasure, back to back, and why both matter– How to bring pleasure up through the body and pour it over a dream– Why the power of this ceremony doesn't diminish if you're watching the replay– The full five-part formula, named for the first time this series

Key Moments:

0:00 – Welcome back for Part 3: the moment this whole series has been building toward0:41 – Today's reveal: the full five-part Ziva formula1:24 – Why manifesting a dream requires accessing the quantum field1:58 – Getting curious: what would I love?3:45 – Imagining the dream already done5:22 – Getting honest: what's keeping me from being a match for this dream6:28 – Alchemize: inviting the inner ancestor and inner child to move8:43 – Finding a kernel of pleasure in the expression of what is real9:00 – Magnetize: turning the ember of pleasure into a flame10:07 – Sending pleasure up through the body and into the vision11:56 – Dancing as if the dream has already come true13:59 – Sitting down as the person whose dream has already come true15:15 – Naming all five parts of the formula for the first time16:05 – What's opening in just a couple of days16:26 – Closing reflection: this reaches you the same way, live or on replay

✨ Watch the full Part 3 replay, plus Parts 1 and 2. This is where the priority list closes before the doors open.

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