Why isn’t everyone using pleasure as a pathway to power?

In this Best Of season finale of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with her best friend and legendary Tantra teacher, Layla Martin—and this episode is pure magic.

Layla is a Stanford graduate who spent 19 years studying Tantra in the jungles of Asia before bringing her teachings to the world. She’s helped millions reclaim their sexuality, awaken their deepest desires, and unlock states of bliss most of us didn’t even know were possible.

In this episode, Emily and Layla dive into:

🔥 The truth about Tantra (it’s way more than just sex!)

🔥 How ecstasy was once used as a purifying force—and why it’s time to bring it back

🔥 The #1 reason so many people suppress their pleasure (and how to break free)

🔥 How embodiment and manifestation are directly linked

🔥 Why fear of our own power holds us back—and how to reclaim it

🔥 The role of sacred sexuality in personal and collective transformation

This conversation is fire from start to finish. Layla doesn’t just share wisdom—she embodies it. And if you’ve ever felt even a little disconnected from your pleasure, your power, or your purpose, this episode is a must-listen.

💫 Plus: The Ziva Magic Retreat is officially happening! If you’ve been curious about embodied manifesting, this is your sign to listen to this episode right now.

🔥 Press play and start living a life that turns you on.

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About the guest:

Layla Martin is a leading expert in sexual wellness, Tantra, and personal development. Dubbed the "Headmistress of Pleasure" by Women’s Health, she founded the VITA Method, certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to love, sex, and relationships. With a Stanford background in human sexuality and neuroscience, plus 20 years of global Tantra training, she blends science and ancient wisdom to help people heal, release limiting beliefs, and unlock deep pleasure.

Follow her here:

Website: https://laylamartin.com/

Instagram: @thelaylamartin

YouTube: @laylamartintv

What if the greatest adventure you could ever take wasn’t out into the world—but deep within yourself?

In this special re-release of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with the brilliant Aubrey Marcus—founder of Onnit, host of the Aubrey Marcus Podcast, and a visionary in exploring the edges of human consciousness.

Aubrey has spent decades diving deep into the human experience—from building a global brand that serves athletes and high performers to creating transformative spaces like Fit For Service and Arcadia, a festival that blends music, magic, and community. His work is rooted in exploring the human spirit, often through the lens of plant medicine, ancient wisdom, and a relentless devotion to truth.

💡 In This Episode, We Cover:

✨ Why exploring within is the key to living an authentic, powerful life

✨ How Aubrey learned to listen to the wisdom of his heart and follow it courageously

✨ The power of initiation rituals and why our society is missing them

✨ Practical ways to create your own rituals and find magic in the mundane

✨ How embracing both your light and your shadow leads to real healing

Aubrey’s generosity, depth, and heart-centered wisdom make this episode a must-listen. If you’re ready to explore what’s possible when you turn inward, this conversation is your invitation.

🔥 Press play and start your journey within.

And if you'd like to see more from Aubrey on our Youtube channel, be sure to check out his Bonus Episode, Change Your Past to Change Your Future.

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

About the guest:

Aubrey Marcus is the founder of Onnit, a globally disruptive brand based on a holistic health philosophy he calls Total Human Optimization. Onnit remains an industry leader with products optimizing millions of lives, including many top professional athletes around the world.

Aubrey currently hosts the Aubrey Marcus Podcast, a motivational destination for conversations with the brightest minds in athletics, business, mindset, and spirituality with over 100 million listens. He is the author of the NYT Bestselling book Own The Day, Own Your Life.

He is also the visionary behind the donation based coaching platform Fit For Service which recently hosted the transformational music festival, Arkadia.

Instagram: @aubreymarcus

Website: https://www.aubreymarcus.com/

YouTube: youtube.com/@AubreyMarcusPod

What if play wasn’t just a way to have fun—but a powerful form of prayer that could transform your entire life?

In this special re-release of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, I sit down with the incredible Blu—artist, storyteller, and modern-day medicine woman—to explore why playing and praying might just be the secret to living a life of true magic.

After being diagnosed with an “incurable” hearing disorder, Blu made a bold choice: instead of shutting down, she leaned into life with even more curiosity, joy, and creativity. She turned what could have been a devastating diagnosis into a catalyst for awakening, showing us how laughter, play, and art can become sacred practices.

💡 In This Episode, We Cover:

✨ How to turn everyday moments into opportunities for play and prayer

✨ The surprising link between creativity, spirituality, and manifestation

✨ Why activating your inner child can unlock your greatest gifts

✨ How to find magic in the mundane and create a life of absolute beauty

✨ Practical advice for tapping into your inner artist and awakening your creativity

Blu’s perspective is a breath of fresh air—reminding us that life isn’t just about doing but about being, playing, and praying. Whether you're looking for inspiration, healing, or just a reminder to lighten up, this episode is a must-listen.

🔥 Press play and learn how to make life itself a sacred, playful prayer.

🎧 Loving the Podcast? The best way to support the show is by sharing this episode and leaving a review.

🔗 For a mini masterclass with Blu on "How to Make Your Younger Self Proud," visit: https://zivameditation.com/whythis/

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

About the Guest:

Blu is a motivational speaker, artist, musician, podcast host and co-founder of Florescence – a modern mystery school for women. She has dedicated the past decade to her understanding of the medicinal nature of the plant kingdom as well as the archetypal nature of the collective unconscious. Blu’s genius is in her ability to connect with the world that lies beyond our 5 senses while keeping her feet firmly planted on the ground so that she can bring us golden truths of beauty, love and unity in a way that is playful and authentic.

🔗 More from Blu:

► Website: https://blueofearth.com

► Instagram: @blueofearth

► Podcast: Dejá Blu

Join Emily's brand-new Embodied Manifesting Course Ziva Magic - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

What if capitalism wasn’t just about profit—but about purpose?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, I sit down with the legendary Miki Agrawal—serial entrepreneur, disruptor, and the creator of multiple 9-figure businesses—to unpack the game-changing concept of Conscious Capitalism.

Miki has built brands that challenge norms (from period underwear to bidets to sustainable diapers) and has proven that business can be wildly profitable and make a real impact. She shares how to scale with integrity, lead with soft power, and create brands that people are obsessed with.

💡 In this episode, we cover:

✨ What Conscious Capitalism is—and why it outperforms traditional business models

✨ How soft power (not hustle) is the key to 100x growth

✨ The three questions Miki asks before starting any business

✨ Why creative marketing is the ultimate business advantage

✨ How slowing down and creating space leads to breakthrough ideas

This episode will shift the way you think about business, leadership, and success. If you’re ready to build something that matters, this is your roadmap.

🔥 Press play and start practicing Conscious Capitalism today.

✨ Ready to rethink success? Hit play and let’s dive in. 🎧

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

About the guest:

Miki Agrawal is a social entrepreneur, author, and innovator known for founding disruptive brands in taboo industries. She is the founder of THINX, a period-proof underwear company, TUSHY, a modern bidet brand, and WILD, a gluten-free farm-to-table pizzeria. Through her ventures, Agrawal challenges societal norms while promoting sustainability and social impact. She is also the author of Do Cool Sht* and Disrupt-Her, which focus on entrepreneurship and unconventional thinking.

🔗 More from Miki Agrawal:

► Website: https://mikiagrawal.com/

► Instagram: @mikiagrawal

► Learn more about her latest venture: HIRO Technologies

What if creativity wasn’t just a form of self-expression—but the most powerful tool for healing?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with the multi-talented Adam Roa—spoken word artist, filmmaker, and transformational coach—to explore how creativity can be a catalyst for deep emotional healing and personal growth. Adam has inspired millions with his viral poetry and performances, but his journey of using art to process trauma, reconnect with his body, and reshape his reality is what makes this conversation truly unforgettable.

Together, Emily and Adam dive into the power of creative expression, the role of movement in emotional release, and why artistry isn’t about talent—it’s about allowing yourself to feel fully.

💡 In This Episode, They Cover:

✨ How creativity rewires the brain and heals emotional wounds

✨ The link between movement, poetry, and personal transformation

✨ Why most people suppress emotions—and how to break free

✨ The power of storytelling in reshaping your reality

✨ A breathtaking spoken-word performance from Adam that will leave you inspired

This episode will change the way you think about healing, creativity, and your own ability to transform pain into beauty. Whether you’re a writer, dancer, or someone who hasn’t picked up a paintbrush since childhood—this conversation will remind you that art is a birthright, not a luxury.

🔥 Press play and unlock the power of your own creative expression.

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🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

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About the guest:

Adam Roa is a spoken word poet, transformational artist, and coach whose viral poetry has touched millions. Adam believes that creativity isn’t just a form of expression—it’s a profound tool for healing, personal growth, and expanding consciousness.

🔗 More from Adam Roa:

► Website: https://adamroa.com

► Podcast: The Creative Path with Adam Roa

► Instagram: @adam.roa

What if the biggest thing keeping you from true love is… you?

In this mind-expanding episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with the brilliant Annie Lala—love coach, philosopher, and conflict resolution expert—to explore why so many of us struggle to fully believe in, receive, and sustain true love. And spoiler: it’s not just about finding “the one.”

Annie shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming skepticism (even as a love coach!) and the radical shifts that transformed her own marriage. We break down the subconscious blocks, relational patterns, and practical tools you can use to attract, deepen, and keep love—whether you're single or already in a relationship.

💡 In this episode, we cover:

✨ The hidden wounds that shape your romantic choices (and how to heal them)

✨ Why faith—not evidence—is the key to manifesting lasting love

✨ The surprising power of conflict in deepening intimacy

✨ How to stop repeating old patterns and finally attract the love you desire

✨ My own personal coaching session with Annie—raw, real, and eye-opening

This episode is packed with powerful insights and practical tools that will change the way you approach love, relationships, and even yourself.

🔥 Press play and unlock the love you’re meant for.

Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls. ✨

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

About the guest:

Annie Lalla is a relationship coach dedicated to helping individuals and couples create deep, lasting connections by maximizing freedom and minimizing shame. Her expertise spans evolutionary psychology, integral theory, intergenerational family systems, and therapeutic sexuality. Certified in Coaching, NLP, and Clinical Hypnosis, she uses tools like metaphoric narrative, role-play, and sacred theater to help clients break toxic patterns, resolve conflict, and cultivate resilient, love-filled relationships. Whether guiding singles ready to find their partner or couples seeking deeper intimacy, Annie empowers people to build extraordinary love that lasts a lifetime.

🔗 More from Annie Lalla:

► Website: https://www.annielalla.com/

► Take Annie's Love Test: www.annielalla.com/emilyfletcher

► Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LYrYai0uN1V6oIgqI32UC

► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/

What if abundance wasn’t something you had to hustle for—but something you could simply receive?

In this deeply inspiring episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with the brilliant Cathy Heller—bestselling author, top-ranked podcaster, and spiritual teacher—to unravel what it really means to live in abundance. And spoiler: it’s not just about money.

Cathy’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, surrender, and stepping into co-creation with the universe. She opens up about navigating loss, shifting from scarcity to trust, and how radical authenticity is the secret to manifesting everything you desire.

You’ll also hear about the Prayer of the Rooster—an ancient practice that will forever change how you handle uncertainty—and why life’s hardest moments are actually the doorways to your greatest expansion.

Get ready for some serious heart-opening, mindset-shifting magic.

✨ The surprising reason most people struggle to attract abundance

✨ Why surrender and trust are the fastest paths to manifesting

✨ How authenticity amplifies your ability to receive

✨ The ancient wisdom of the Prayer of the Rooster and what it teaches us about resilience

✨ How to navigate life’s “death portals” and step into your next-level self

✨ Why right now is the most powerful time to co-create a new reality

This conversation is packed with wisdom, personal revelations, and practical tools to help you shift your energy today. Don’t miss it.

🎧 Press play and let abundance find YOU.

Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls.

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

Cathy Heller is a renowned spiritual teacher, bestselling author, and the host of Abundant Ever After—one of the top-ranked personal growth podcasts. With her deep understanding of manifestation and the law of reception, she helps people unlock their highest potential and create a life of purpose, fulfillment, and wealth (in every sense of the word).

🔗 Follow Cathy:

► Website: cathyheller.com

► Instagram: @cathy.heller

► Get her book Abundant Ever After: https://www.cathyheller.com/abundant-ever-after/

Welcome to an eye-opening episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? with your host, Emily Fletcher. This week, Emily sits down with Dr. David Rock, the brilliant founder of the NeuroLeadership Institute and bestselling author of Your Brain at Work. Together, they explore how understanding your brain can transform the way you lead, adapt, and thrive.

Dr. Rock has spent over 26 years revolutionizing leadership approaches for Fortune 100 companies and millions of individuals worldwide. From the neuroscience behind mindfulness and meditation to the strategies for building lasting habits, this episode is packed with actionable tools for becoming a better leader and a better human.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

► The neuroscience of mindfulness, meditation, and manifestation

► How to create powerful habits using brain-based strategies

► The surprising connection between insights, leadership, and adaptability

► Why understanding your brain is the ultimate life hack

If you’re leading a team, growing a business, or focused on personal development, this conversation will leave you with profound insights and practical tools to elevate your performance.

🎙️ Listen now and unlock the power of your brain.

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🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

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About Dr. David Rock:

Dr. Rock coined the term "Neuroleadership" in 2006 and co-founded the globally renowned NeuroLeadership Institute, which has been instrumental in cultural transformations like that of Microsoft. His work has influenced thousands of organizations and continues to inspire leaders around the world.

💡 Follow Dr. David Rock’s NeuroLeadership Institute on Instagram for more insights ➡️ @neuroleadership_inst

Are you reclaiming your financial power?💸

In this new episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher is joined by Nicole Lapin—author, finance expert, and host of the Money Rehab podcast. Together, they explore the transformative power of financial literacy and how anyone, regardless of background, can start investing with confidence and joy.

Nicole shares her insights on overcoming common emotional and societal barriers to investing, the orgasmic beauty of compound interest, and why playful money practices are essential for long-term success. Emily and Nicole also dive into how cultural and familial conditioning impacts our relationship with money and offer actionable steps to help you reclaim your financial power.

Key Topics:

Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls.

Get instant access to Ziva's FREE end-year manifesting experience to design the next 12 months of your life: https://zivameditation.com/dream

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

About the guest:

Nicole Lapin is an American television news anchor, 4 times NYT bestselling author, and businesswoman. She hosts the Money Rehab podcast, co-hosts Help Wanted podcast and posts on the Money News network. Pre-order her new book, The Money School: 12 Simple Lessons to Master Financial Markets and Investing: http://tiny.cc/yp86001 

https://www.instagram.com/nicolelapin/

What if your body held the key to unlocking your highest potential? 💪💥

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with Aaron Alexander, founder of the Align Method, to explore the profound connection between body alignment, breathwork, and emotional well-being. Aaron shares his expertise on how the body acts as an antenna for manifestation, attraction, and communication, and why creating safety in your body is essential for personal transformation.

Discover how stored trauma and parasitic tension in the body can block creativity and joy—and how simple adjustments in breath and posture can open the door to a more vibrant, connected life. Whether you're curious about how your physical state impacts your mental and emotional health or looking for actionable tools to enhance your well-being, this episode offers powerful insights into aligning your body, mind, and spirit.

Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls.

Get instant access to Ziva's FREE end-year manifesting experience to design the next 12 months of your life: https://zivameditation.com/dream

🔗 More from Emily & Ziva:

► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat

► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic

► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday

► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn

► And follow us on Instagram

► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel

Aaron Alexander is the founder of the Align Method, a revolutionary approach to optimizing physical and mental well-being through movement, breathwork, and self-awareness. As a renowned manual therapist, movement coach, and author, Aaron has dedicated his career to helping people unlock their full potential by integrating functional fitness with mindfulness. His work has been featured in major outlets like Men's Health and MindBodyGreen, and his book, The Align Method, empowers readers with tools to create a stronger, more aligned body and mind. To learn more about Aaron Alexander and the Align Method, visit:

https://www.alignpodcast.com/

https://www.youtube.com/@AlignPodcast/ 

Take the Breathing Archetype Quiz: alignpodcast.com/quiz  

Sign up for the Free Trial of the Align Breathing Program: alignpodcast.com/breathe