Evolving to Exceptional with Jessica Tietjen

Evolving to Exceptional with Jessica Tietjen

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Evolving to Exceptional with Jessica Tietjen episodes

  • Unleashing Human Potential at Work: What Pets Can Teach Us About Leadership & Culture with Melissa Paulitsch

    In this inspiring episode of Evolving to Exceptional, host Jessica Tietjen sits down with Melissa Paulitsch, Human Resources Director at Kennelwood Pet Resorts, to explore the unexpected connections between pet care and people leadership.


    Melissa shares her unique journey into the pet industry and how her passion for animals has shaped her approach to building a supportive, high-performing workplace culture.

    Together, they dive into:

    • The power of relationship-based leadership

    • How clear communication and emotional safety improve team performance

    • Surprising lessons from pet training that apply to developing people

    • Strategies for long-term employee retention and satisfaction

    • The role of technology in enhancing both the employee and customer experience


    Whether you're a pet lover, a people leader, or both, this episode offers practical takeaways to help you create more compassionate, connected, and effective workplaces.


    Listen now to discover how honoring the human-animal bond can elevate your leadership and workplace culture.



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    44 min
  • Beyond Reviews: Rethinking Performance Conversations with Ryan McCrea

     In this week’s episode of Evolving to Exceptional, host Jessica Tietjen welcomes back Ryan McCrea for a deep dive into one of the most pressing workplace topics of 2025: revolutionizing performance management.


    Referencing the latest findings from the Deloitte Global Human Capital Trends Report, Jessica and Ryan explore:

    • Why traditional annual performance reviews are failing today's workforce

    • Shifting toward continuous, human-centered feedback

    • The role of trust, psychological safety, and growth mindset in creating a thriving performance culture

    • Practical strategies to replace outdated review systems with real-time, meaningful conversations


    Ryan shares his firsthand experience leading performance transformation initiatives—and offers a blueprint for leaders ready to move from evaluation to evolution.


    Tune in to discover how shifting your approach to performance conversations can unlock greater engagement, development, and results across your organization.

    Connect with Ryan McCrea: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rmccrea/



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    48 min
  • Leading Through Chaos: Resilience and Insight from the Nonprofit Frontlines with Dr. Debbie Regnaud

    In this episode of Evolving to Exceptional, host Jessica Tietjen sits down with Dr. Debbie Regnaud, Vice President of Human Resources at Unleashing Potential, to explore the real-world challenges of leading in the nonprofit sector during times of uncertainty.


    Drawing from decades of HR experience, Dr. Regnaud shares:

    • How financial instability uniquely impacts nonprofit organizations

    • Why self-awareness is essential for resilient leadership

    • Practical mental health strategies for supporting teams and avoiding burnout

    • Tools for emotional regulation and stress management in high-pressure environments


    Whether you lead a nonprofit, support a mission-driven team, or simply want to navigate uncertainty with more calm and clarity, this conversation offers tangible takeaways for staying grounded and engaged.


    Tune in to discover how to lead with resilience, support your people, and build a thriving culture—even in the face of chaos.





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    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠


    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠


    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠


    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠


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    48 min
  • Breaking the Cycle: Rhoda Banks on Trauma & Triumph (Part 2)

    In this powerful continuation of our conversation, Evolving to Exceptional host Jessica Tietjen welcomes back Rhoda Banks—culture and inclusion executive and author of Daughter of an Assassin—to dive deeper into the intersection of trauma, leadership, and workplace dynamics.


    Rhoda bravely shares how her past trauma showed up in her professional life—through fawn, flight, freeze, and fight responses—and how she’s learned to navigate these patterns with greater self-awareness. Together, we explore how embodied safety, cultural competence, and human-centric leadership can transform not only individual leaders but entire workplace cultures.


    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • How trauma responses like fawning and freezing show up at work

    • The role of somatic awareness in creating true psychological safety

    • Why cultural and emotional competence are essential leadership skills

    • Rhoda’s reflections on her memoir Daughter of an Assassin

    • Final advice on rewriting limiting beliefs and embracing coaching

    If you’ve ever struggled to reconcile your past with your present role as a leader—or want to build environments where people can truly thrive—this episode is for you.


    Purchase Rhoda's brand new book, Daughter of an Assassin, here: https://a.co/d/fl5Jpg2




    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 

    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠

    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠

    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠

    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠

    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠

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    45 min
  • Breaking the Cycle: Rhoda Banks on Trauma & Triumph (Part 1)

    In this powerful episode of the Evolving to Exceptional Podcast, host Jessica Tietjen sits down with Rhoda Banks—culture and inclusion executive, speaker, and author of the new memoir Daughter of an Assassin.


    Rhoda shares her remarkable life story, growing up in St. Louis in a household shaped by trauma and contradiction. Through vulnerability and insight, she unpacks how her early experiences shaped her relationships, leadership, and deep commitment to healing work—both personal and professional.


    This conversation dives into:

    • The complex duality of growing up in a household with both love and danger

    • The lasting impact of childhood attachment and trauma

    • Why leaders must understand the role of trauma in workplace dynamics

    • A behind-the-scenes look at Rhoda’s upcoming memoir and the healing it offers others


    Join us next week for part two of this episode—don’t miss what’s next as Rhoda reveals more about how we can all break cycles, rewrite legacies, and lead with deeper awareness.


    Purchase Rhoda's brand new book, Daughter of an Assassin, here: https://a.co/d/fl5Jpg2



    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 


    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠


    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠


    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠


    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠


    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠


    Get the first Chapter of The Exceptional Life R-Evolution Free at:⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/firstchapterfreedownload⁠


    15 min
  • The Capacity Collapse: Why Organizations Must Rethink How They Support Their People

    Feeling overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or running on empty at work? You're not alone — and it's not just personal. It's systemic.


    In this powerful episode of the Evolving to Exceptional Podcast, host Jessica Tietjen unpacks the concept of “capacity collapse”—a hidden epidemic quietly draining the energy, engagement, and effectiveness of today’s workforce.


    We explore why so many people feel maxed out despite their best efforts and reveal how traditional systems are designed to extract performance instead of nurturing human capacity. It's time to flip the script.

    You’ll learn:

    • What capacity collapse really is and how to spot it

    • Why burnout isn’t just about workload—it’s about systemic design

    • How a simple "jar" analogy explains the overload we all feel

    • What organizations must reimagine to support true performance and well-being

    • How leaders can begin restoring capacity with strategic system upgrades

    Whether you're a leader, HR professional, or high-performer feeling the pressure, this episode will shift how you see workplace stress—and empower you to create healthier, high-capacity teams.



    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 

    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠

    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠

    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠

    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠

    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠

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    14 min
  • Confusion Causes Chaos: Why Our Brains Need Clarity

    Description: In today's world of constant change and uncertainty, clarity isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into why our brains crave clarity, how chaos and confusion impact our decision-making, and how overwhelm disrupts our head, heart, and gut intelligences.


    You’ll learn how our brains fill in the gaps with biases and past experiences, leading to cognitive dissonance—and how to overcome it. I’ll walk you through practical strategies to create coherence, regulate your nervous system, and engage your full intelligence to navigate complexity with compassion, creativity, and courage.


    If you’re feeling overwhelmed or struggling to find your footing in a fast-changing world, this episode offers the tools to help you transform your experiences and lead with greater clarity.


    What You'll Learn:

    • Why clarity is critical for brain function

    • How chaos and unpredictability impact leadership and decision-making

    • The role of cognitive dissonance, bias, and overwhelm

    • How to engage your head, heart, and gut intelligences

    • Practical steps for creating clarity and navigating complexity

    • How compassion, creativity, and courage can reshape your approach






    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 

    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠

    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠

    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠

    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠

    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠

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    16 min
  • Right People, Right Goals NOT Right People, Right Roles

    In this episode of the Evolving to Exceptional podcast, we explore why it’s time to evolve from the outdated “right people in the right roles” mindset to a more agile and effective strategy: “right people, right goals.”


    As roles become harder to define in today’s dynamic work environment, organizations must focus on individual strengths, personalized outcomes, and clearly defined goals to drive engagement, productivity, and success.

    You’ll learn: Why traditional role-based structures are no longer effective

    How to set customized, strengths-based goals that drive performance

    What an ORG document is and how to use it to clarify responsibilities

    Real-life examples of how tailored goals boost motivation and achievement

    Actionable tips to increase clarity, alignment, and impact on your team

    Whether you're an HR leader, manager, or team builder, this episode will help you reimagine how to maximize your team's potential through modern goal-setting strategies.



    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 


    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠


    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠


    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠


    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠


    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠


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    8 min
  • I’m fine. It’s fine. It’s all fine.

    In this powerful and personal episode, Jessica unpacks the subconscious survival patterns that activate during times of stress, crisis, and emotional overwhelm. Rooted in our earliest life experiences, these patterns often run automatically—guiding how we respond, react, and cope without conscious awareness.

    Through the lens of a recent family medical emergency, Jessica shares how these ingrained responses—like self-sacrifice, emotional suppression, and high-functioning numbness—can take over, even when we believe we’re in control.

    This episode invites listeners to:

    • Recognize their own survival patterns

    • Understand the neuroscience behind them

    • Begin the journey of emotional healing and rewiring

    • Move from unconscious reaction to intentional response


    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why our bodies react automatically during stress and trauma

    • How early childhood experiences shape lifelong coping patterns

    • The hidden cost of being "the strong one"

    • Practical steps to start healing, rewiring, and choosing a healthier response




    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 

    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠

    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠

    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠

    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠

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    9 min
  • Calling on the Conscious Human Beings

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by chaos and confusion? Wondering how to stay grounded and make wise, conscious decisions amidst it all?


    In this episode of the Evolving to Exceptional podcast, Jessica Tietjen delivers a powerful call to action for conscious leaders, growth-minded individuals, and anyone craving clarity and connection in today’s unpredictable world.


    Jessica explores how chronic stress and survival instincts hijack our ability to think clearly, foster meaningful relationships, and act with purpose. She reveals how tapping into your **three neural intelligences—your head, heart, and gut—**can unlock your creativity, compassion, and courage even in the toughest times.

    What You'll Learn in This Episode:

    • Why chaos and conflict trigger our unconscious survival patterns

    • How to recognize when you’re reacting vs. consciously responding

    • Practical strategies to regulate your nervous system and stay balanced

    • How to align your head, heart, and gut brains for wiser decision-making

    • Why supportive relationships are key to thriving through uncertainty

    Jessica also shares a heartfelt analogy from a favorite children’s story, reminding us that even in the darkest times, we have the opportunity to grow, evolve, and emerge stronger than before.

    Tune in to learn how to consciously navigate stress, set wise expectations, and embody your best self—even when the world feels unsteady.





    Purchase my book Fiercely Cherished Beings: https://amzn.to/3PKBFem 


    Download the first chapter for FREE: https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/fiercely-cherished-beings 


    Website -⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/⁠


    LinkedIn -⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/evolving-to-exceptional/⁠


    Instagram -⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jessicatietjenj⁠


    Facebook -⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Evolving-To-Exceptional-109687844842573⁠


    Buy The Exceptional Life R-Evolution book -⁠ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1952566282/⁠


    Get the first Chapter of The Exceptional Life R-Evolution Free at:⁠ https://www.evolvingtoexceptional.com/firstchapterfreedownload⁠


    13 min

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