Expanded Lovemaking

In this show, you'll meet Ian Ellington, a Tantric practitioner and Shamanic healer, who works with men of all orientations and couples to expand their pleasure and reclaim their sacred sexuality and spirituality. Find out what has happened, culturally, to have men disconnect from their full potential sensual birthright, and how tantra can be used to help reclaim a full capacity for pleasure. Learn about some of Ian's own journey, and about his own profound initiation onto this powerful path of healing and teaching. Find out more about ejaculatory control, or as Ian calls it, “surrendering to orgasm”. Learn exactly how using the breath in specific fashion can help prolong and intensify pleasure. Find out just how common is the desire to master ejaculation timing, how long it takes to learn. Find out what strategies and attitudes men and couples can use to help broaden pleasure and sensation, every step of the way. A fun, informative, uplifting show for both men and women!

In the show, with Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Ian Ellington, Tantric shamanic healer and teacher. We continue exploring how the use of breath and consciousness expands a man's options for pleasure. Hear Ian define male expanded orgasm. Learn how it is possible, physically, for a man to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Find out how long it takes for a man to learn this art. Are there variations in how long it takes different men to learn this? What would a session look like in which a man created an expanded orgasm? How long do they last? Learn how Dr. Patti feels about being with a man while he is having expanded orgasms! Learn more about Ian's practice. What are some of the issues men explore with Ian? Does this work impact the world, and if so how? Ian leaves us with some profound thoughts. A truly motivational show, as we learn that male expanded orgasm is something that men really can learn to achieve!

Listen in as Dr. Patti talks to Saida Désilets , renowned teacher of Taoist energy cultivation. In this show, we focus on building polarity. Learn more about the overarching Taoist system that teaches polarity as an essential starting point and ingredient for the alchemy of passion. What is polarity? Why is it important? What is a man's polarity? And what is a woman's polarity? What practices can men and women take up to keep themselves in balance? Learn about the Jade egg practices for women, and testicle breathing for men! Dr. Patti wants to know what are some of the exercises that Saida personally does that keeps her looking so young, vital and turned on? Find out why being balanced within yourself is so essential as a first step in having a balanced, powerful, potent relationship. A fun, vibrant show!

Listen in as Dr. Patti returns to talk again to Saida Désilets, renowned teacher of Taoist energy cultivation. In this show, we focus on deepening intimacy. Why does the Taoist system teach alchemy, intimacy, and passion as intertwined? Why is intimacy made up of both the good stuff and the challenges? (Aka…the compost?) How do you transform everything that happens in a relationship into more intimacy? How do couples become more orgasmic? Do men or women take the lead in lovemaking? Hear this leading teacher define key Taoist terms: What is succulence, the feminine principle? What is presence, the male principle? Get some strategic tips on how to begin and end a relationship consciously. Learn more about Saida's exciting projects and world tour! We'll wrap up this show with some beautiful, and inspirational thoughts guaranteed to leave you eager to learn more!

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Isa Magdalena, author of Libido: Where Sex, Science, and Spirit Meet. She’s a sex educator, healer, teacher, and pioneer in the field. What is libido? How did Isa come to study it? How does libido compare to kundalini and prana? What is her system of colors and how and why are the colors so important in her system? Dr. Patti asks about the significance of the colors… starting with red. What is the importance of this color and how does understanding it (red is our primal libido center) help us get more libido? What is orange? Purple? (etc.). Learn about the movements that can be made with different chakras, or energy centers. Why is it so important to have a balanced view of sex, energy, and libido in order to feel fully alive? What should people do to get more libido? Find out this and more on this fun, enlivening and educational show!

Hear Dr. Patti talk again with Isa Magdalena, author of Libido: Where Sex, Science, and Spirit Meet. She’s a sex educator, healer, teacher, and pioneer in the field. We have been talking about Isa’s model of libido, related to the chakra system, discussed in some detail in Part One of this show. Now we consider the importance of breathing and ways of moving to get libido circulating and firing up even further! Also we examine the need to ground sexual energies. How important is breathing? Are orgasms better when sex and orgasm are “full spectrum”? Can one have “higher spectrum” sex right away or does one need to practice for a while to achieve these experiences? What are stages and states in sex, relating, and sexual experience, and why are these distinctions important? All this, and more, is discussed on this fascinating and lively show!

Dr. Patti talks with Dr. Harvey Bartnof, renowned age management medical specialist, about issues related to women, lifestyle, hormones, and the female lifecycle. While hormones, the desire for sex, a woman's age, and her relationship cannot be separated out all that neatly, we can make certain generalizations. At what age do hormones begin to decline for a woman? What would those symptoms look like? What can be done to restore a woman's body to optimal functioning? What hormones should a woman take to restore libido? What are bio-identical hormones? Should women take testosterone? Can estrogen help with vaginal dryness? What other factors play into helping a woman have an optimal sex life? What other books does Dr. Bartnof recommend? Learn about Dr. Bartnof's own Internet audio interviews, and website full of resources and articles. Dr. Patti reveals, in a powerful testimony, what she has found true in her own circle of friends using bio-identical hormones. This is a show every woman will want to hear who is interested in maintaining the quality of her sex life. Men, listen in, too!

Dr. Patti talks with Dr. Harvey Bartnof, renowned age management medical specialist, about issues related to men, hormones, and libido. The major hormone for men is testosterone. At what age does testosterone decline? What are the symptoms of hormonal decline? How does testosterone replacement help? Who is a candidate for this? Are there risks? Learn about the amazing benefits of testosterone. I'll give you a hint: it can help significantly with erectile dysfunction! Beyond even this...learn why testosterone is being considered one of the most important hormones for male health and longevity today. What other hormones are important? Find out more about the extensive resources on Dr. Bartnof's website. And, learn why an age management program might improve your relationship life as well as your health and sex life!

Listen in as Dr. Patti finds out about clitoral anatomy from Sheri Winston, a teacher and counselor with an extensive background and expertise in birthing, gynecology, sexuality counseling, and orgasmic pleasure. Learn why Sheri's updated genital mapping is such revolutionary news. We start with erectile tissue -- what is it? Why is it so important? How much of it is there in a woman, and, of course, where can we find it? Dr. Patti and Sheri go, step-by-step, from the clitoral head, to the shaft, to the clitoral legs, and then deeper, into the vestibular bulbs (they are awesome!), and the G-area, and uterus, in a rousing, playful show, chock full of suggestions, ideas, and practical insights! You'll have great fun!

Listen in as Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Sheri Winston, counselor, sex educator, and extraordinary conveyor of information all things orgasmic. We complete our conversation of enjoying female genitals, and go on to talk about the male genital pleasure system. Learn about a man's precious package... including his nerve-rich and sensitive buried cock, and how to get it engorged. Next, find out about a man's prostate. Is it erectile tissue too? How does it like to be stroked? We move on to ways to intensify orgasmic delights for both men and women. Sheri demonstrates ways to use breath and sound to enhance and extend orgasmic pleasure. Thoughtful discussions ensue! Another amazing show with Sheri!