Expanded Lovemaking

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor learns more about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Scott is a brilliant videographer of many of the leading teachers of NVC, committed to sharing a profound message of turn-on, connection, peace and understanding to singles, couples, and groups. Scott has used NVC as a basis for his own practice of teaching Compassionate Communication. Find out how the founder, Marshall Rosenberg, and one of his protégés, Robert Gonzalez, have revolutionized the communications world with Rosenberg’s model, NVC. Learn why it is an attitude and mindset as well as a method. Find out why giraffes and jackals are used in role-playing and the basic model’s structure. Learn why “what we tell ourselves” can have such important consequences. Follow Patti and Scott as they role-play a situation in which Patti gets Scott’s sensual attention in ways she doesn’t want… and how Scott handles it, overcoming his own “inner jackal” as well as Patti’s clearly upsetting “jackal” tone. The self-empathy is a repeated crucial piece to this exchange! Learn what simple things can be said, with experience and compassion, to turn even loaded, triggered situations like this around in short order! A fun show,, and true to life! Scott even offers a worksheet for those of us wanting some “training wheels” in highly charged situations, which is available on the Personal Life Media site, under the his personal episode page, and the Expanded Lovemaking Show. Yay!

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor and Scott Catamas continue their conversation about learns about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Learn how popular Robert Gonzalez has become, and what Scott is doing to make his work available to the world. (Dr. Patti, for one, is extremely excited about Scott’s work in this area!) Hear a few heart-opening stories of relationships that have been saved with Compassionate Communication. They’re true… one of them is Dr. Patti’s own story! Learn, and then remember the famous two words that will make this whole show worthwhile!!! Learn a thought process you can use when you are plugged in to sort things out quickly. Dr. Patti and Scott role-play two upsetting situations, and then focus on how using Compassionate Communication not only gets them out of their painful predicaments, but adds to the love and connection. Discover how you can also use NVC to boost the pleasure and turn-on when the sex and passion are flowing. What magic words open you to greater vulnerability? What about using Compassionate Communication to reveal fantasies and push the intimate envelope? Find out how all this can be done, with passion, juice, and love! A show to inspire everyone to have more love, connection, and communication in their lives!

Have you ever wondered about adult films? Who watches them? Are there differences between them? Are all of them pornography, or can some of them be educational, or turn you on, even if you’re not into porn? Can they expand your consciousness? Here today to discuss this fascinating topic of Conscious X-Rated Adult Films is our guest, Dr. Gary Schubach, an Associate Professor at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality who lectures on at various universities and institutes worldwide. One of his lecture specialties is the uses of media to express human sexuality. Learn what do we mean by the term porn films? And what is the difference between porn films and sex education films? How is each term used by the public? What are Sexual Patterning Films? Find out about Gary’s top ten Adult Film picks of all time, and some of his favorite scenes. Find out which films men might like, and which, the women might go for, and why. Join as we discuss women’s issues around pornography, and other social and relationship issues connected to X-rated films. Are adult films good for a relationship? For society? Listen in as we wrap up this juicy show!

Today we are talking about Expanding Male Potency and Erection. This is an amazing topic… vulnerable, and yet, full of potential as well. Many men (and their helpful partners) want to know what they can do to augment the size, quality, and duration of their erections and orgasms. So many products and services make promises… who and what is a man supposed to believe? So, today we will have that conversation, and of course, do so in a way that adds in expanding our ability to make intelligent choices, and purchase! Find out more about Dr. Gary Schubach’s perspectives as a sex educator, lecturer and writer. Learn why he feels our society does not teach people the necessary interpersonal relationship skills nor do people acquire this information naturally. Learn why people acquire “erection issues” and why the name “erectile disorder” may be blown way out of proportion! And, find out what types of solutions he recommends to his clients. Learn the pros and cons about herbal products, pharmaceuticals, teaching methods for erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, male multiple orgasm, the value of male G-spot and prostate massage, and the value of emotional connection in this valuable, rich and informative exchange. Men everywhere will be glad to get this information - and will love it if their partners hear it, too.

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to Shama Helena, a Sacred Sexuality counselor at educator with 15 years experience. We learn her definition of Tantra, and why it is relevant to women of today. Find out the ways in which culture and society have impacted our views on sexual energy, women's roles, and self-expression, all of which Tantra addresses. Shama gives us some exercises to warm us up and get us in our bodies, and then proceeds to give us more specific instructions similar to those she gives in her classes for becoming tantricly energized. From there, we learn a few fun ways to maximize orgasmic pleasure by linking up various parts of the female anatomy. Find out why communication, self-love, and ongoing education are also vital. Shama shares from her own life experiences, and observations as to why working with the counselor can be so empowering for women. Find out the issues woman most want to work on when they visit Shama! Also, learn what Shama recommends to help empower women to become their most freely-orgasmically empowered-selves

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Shama Helena, a Sacred Sexuality counselor at educator with 15 years experience. Find out why men have been impacted so much by society and culture, and what they can do to open up their vital energy centers by the study and practice of Sacred Sexuality. Learn why men are often reluctant to seek this education from their partner, and why training is so important. What can men do on their own, and with a partner? Learn the importance of appropriate ways of feeling, and touching, and rates of slowing down, especially in sexual situations. Fasten your seatbelt as Shama and Dr. Patti role-play an educational session in which Dr. Patti gets a lesson in how to give Shama the perfect hand job! The energy goes sky high, and no detail is left forgotten, as Shama goes inch by inch, ever so slowly over all the important parts of the this amazing experience. Discover Shama’s passion for spreading and sharing her wisdom and the wisdom of others with the world through her new media venture, Lovenlifetools.com. As a bonus, find out a unique way in which Dr. Patti and Shama met! This is surely a show you will want to hear many times over.

Dr. Patti talks to Susan Crain Bakos, renowned author and sex educator, about the Orgasm Loop, a simple, three part technique that women can learn in order to become orgasmic, while lovemaking, and, in a variety of other situations as well. Tested on over 500 women, this program has liberated many women into having longer, stronger orgasms. Some women have become orgasmic for the first time. Find out shocking statistics on how many women actually come from intercourse alone! Learn the value of coming every day, solo or with a partner. Find out some juicy lovemaking positions that support the practice of the Orgasm Loop, and learn why oral sex is naturally so ideal for this as well. Join with Dr. Patti and Susan as they reflect upon the value of being orgasmic, as a value that is precious for its own sake. Find out which women are most likely to learn the Orgasm Loop with the most ease. What barriers might exist? A gorgeous, informative show, with amazing information! Plus, you’ll learn about Susan’s really cool blog and other books, too! She’s an amazing writer with so much to say.

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to Susan Crain Bakos, prolific author and sex educator, about what men really want in the bedroom. She reveals the questions men continuously asking her on her blog, and how these questions have changed over the years. What do men want, and how can women give men what they want? Learn what men want the most: the things that trump all other requests! Find out how Susan gets “dict-matized”, and in so doing, acquires the ability to give blow jobs that are a true love affair! Listen as she role-plays moment-by-moment what goes on in her mind as she and her “beloved penis” commune. Find out how to use the Orgasm Loop (or become otherwise orgasmic) while giving a man oral sex. Learn other techniques for giving a man pleasure as well. Discover the messages from Tantra that women, singles, men, and couples are enjoying from Susan’s new book, and what men can learn from Tantra.

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to David Cates, a Tantra “teacher of teachers”, and a professional who works with sexual healers.

How many people have you known who have had some sexual issues, and whom you wanted to help? Or are you wishing someone would help you through some passages? Today we get to talk to someone whose passion in life, and lifelong specialty, is to teach sexual healers how give just this type of expert assistance. First you'll get an exercise that David recommends couples can practice to enhance connection and bonding. Then, you will learn about David's eight point guide to sexual healing, using as an example of what happens when a couple is on a date, and the man inadvertently touches the woman's G-spot and old stories and memories are unexpectedly unleashed. Learn how you can respond, lovingly, to minimize further trauma, and create safety, love, compassion, and even continuance of intimacy. As David says, he's only met two women out of the thousands he's ever met, who haven't had some old stories come up to be processed during intimate encounters. Find out how to remain present as the giver or healer during all this activity.

In this show, we continue our conversation with David Cates, mentor to sexual healers and Tantra teachers. Learn more about the eight points to enlightened sexual healing. We store a lot of emotions and memories that can get released during sex. So, I think we can learn all a lot from David. Find out how to remain calm and steady if the unexpected (or unsettling) arises. Today, we discuss men's issues, particularly around anal massage. Learn why working with this area can be so liberating for a man. David tells us what he teaches his own clients – sexual healers - about how to deal with the intense energies that emerge with clients. Do these same issues arise for healers themselves, and if so, what can be done? Find out how technology is changing the face of the conversation around shame and healing, and opening up new avenues for sexual healers. Listen in as David shares one of his favorite truly amazing journeys as a healer – and learn just how widespread these experiences really are!