Expanded Lovemaking

Have you ever felt alone... so alone... that you wished you had some way to open your heart to yourself as well as to another? But how do you do this? And what happens when you see inside your heart, when you’re feeling kind of scared or messy?

Where do you go to get support to learn how to deeply open up? Or is it … open in? And what if we … wake up … while we … open up? And…what if we wake down (into matter) while we wake up (into spirit)? Here to give us some support and understanding about opening our hearts are today’s special guests, Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder. Saniel and LindaMa, as she is called, explain why we feel this way so often, and why this is a perfectly natural way to feel. We explore how culture has created something Saniel and LindaMa call the “Spirit-matter” split. We examine existing cultural paradigms that tell us waking up is good, and consider their paradigm that includes “waking down into mutuality” as well. Find out how an adept can transmit healing energy, and why Saniel and LindaMa offer a free 4-part course, an online transmission, specifically through the organ of the heart. Find out how to do this heart-gazing yourselves, as well, with a partner. And enjoy Saniel and Linda’s message: No one needs to be alone, sorting out all this messy stuff by themselves. Embrace and embody it all…alone, and also, with others… and remember, love and support are there for you!

In

this show, Dr. Patti talks with Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder about their

more advanced work in the Tantra of Trust. What is trust, and how does it

relate to vulnerability? How can men and women step into embodied relationships?

What do divinely human, 21st-century men and women look and act like, and what

would their relationships look like? Learn

more about our broken zones - those places that are broken off from our identity,

and how healing them provides juice and fertilizer for increased depth in our

relationships. LindaMa shares her Six Step Recognition Yoga process for

getting more embodied. Dr. Patti

volunteers to use it on herself, revealing a sexual secret of hers, and they

practice how the sequence might unfold in the bedroom. Find out the juicy

emphasis on the word white-hot.

Saniel and LindaMa have exciting world plans! Might they visit your city? Find

out why they are touring the world, and learn more about their profound work in

the world. An inspiring show with lots of practical wisdom as well.

Find out why Satyen inspires audiences

worldwide with his dynamic instructions on exactly how to bring more passion,

sexual heat, and enlightenment to your relationship. You will learn about

Satyen's own relationship. Find out how he took his own slow-burn,

low-excitement love-life through the roof! How did having children impact his

passionate connection with his wife? What did they do to escalate their sexual

desires to “off the charts”? Can love and passion be taught? Why are man/woman

polarities so essential? How can we tell where we stand on the mix of sexual

polarities? What do hot, steamy, truly passionate relationships look like? Can

they be sustained, and if so how? How can men and women develop their natural

potential capabilities as lovers to the fullest? This show is chock full of

juicy examples that will inspire you to pick up the phone, and/or, run home and

take action! Discover just how much you can do to boost and fuel the sex,

love, and passion in your life.

Dr. Patti continues talking with Satyen

Raja. We have

already learned it's possible - even fun, and incredibly rewarding - to learn

how to be better lovers. Discover next how we can tap into our deepest

essential beings, our souls, and our hearts, by engaging our love energy. Learn

some practical things we need to contend with as men and women. We work in a

world that often challenges both men’s and women’s natural lover identities,

and so, what we can do to help our partners? What we can do in the bedroom to

take on both male and female energies? How can we increase our range in our own

sexuality? What do we do with all this loving energy? Does it end with

ourselves and our partners? Or can we spread it out into the world? if so, how?

Is this a blissful experience? Join as Satyen shares with us a phenomenal

visualization and meditation that energizes our full being – one you can use in

your own lovemaking practices. Truly an amazing, uplifting and dynamic

show!

Dr. Patti talks to Andrew Harvey, a leading scholar and

Tantric mystic, about how to reconcile extreme opposites, such as the bliss of

lovemaking, with a world in trouble. What is a

Tantric revolution all about? We will learn about the five Tantras - and how

and why sexual Tantra fits into these five different types. Are we witnessing

the birthing of a new humanity? And if so, what is the importance of sexual Tantra?

Find out the true definition of Tantra (note: it may not be the one you

learned!), and how pleasure fits into this definition. Why is the world having

a crisis now, who is responsible for this crisis, who is the Divine Feminine, and

how and why is she returning? What can we do on a personal level to respond?

And, are you a part of this? If so, in what ways? Join us for this truly moving

and dynamic show.

Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Andrew Harvey,

Tantric Mystic and sacred activist. Find out why Andrew believes that the birth

of a new divine humanity is trying to take place in the depths of our

contemporary world crisis. We will learn that whether we create such a new

birth - or not - depends on the unions of many opposites that have traditionally

been kept separate. Find out just what these opposites are. Learn how to

create for yourselves this fusion of opposites so that you can have a living

experience of the divine nature of the body. Experience the calm and glorious energies that this awareness can

release. Andrew suggests how to create “networks of grace” locally, so

that everyone feels empowered to respond at a personal level to the world in crisis. Dr. Patti

finds out from Andrew what people can do who are yearning to powerfully open their

hearts, so that they can take that next step to action. Andrew has

many beautiful and practical suggestions. A deeply empowering show to be

listened to many times, and shared with friends and loved ones, too.

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti talks to Triambika, sexual healer, Dakini, coach, and leader of a program teaching women how to become Dakinis, or Temple priestesses themselves. A dakini is an amazing goddess archetype that men and women can learn to embody. Find out how you can become a Dakini. Hear how Triambika became dedicated to the path of tantra through her own sexual initiation, and why she is so motivated to share her passion with others. Find out the structure of what she teaches in her Dakini mentorship program for women. Learn what she feels are some of the most basic things a Dakini needs to know, and why female empowerment is so important as a foundation. Find out what you can do to become more orgasmic, and why stillness, and the ability to feel, will enhance your orgasmic pleasure, no matter what your level of orgasmic capacity. All this juicy information is interwoven amongst a backdrop of Kashmiri Shaivist tantric teachings and Triambika’s focus on staying centered in the heart. We are in for an incredible treat!

In this show, Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Triambika. We begin with the conversation about men's erections. What could be more interesting to men, than how to feel and have more pleasure in their creative source? We entertain this topic from a Tantric perspective, and start with the challenge medically known as “delayed ejaculation”. Triambika offers a new viewpoint, as well as many useful suggestions for both the man and the woman for working with this situation. Learn how commonly she encounters this in her practice, and why she feels it will be a growing consideration for many men. Triambika and Dr. Patti then discuss premature ejaculation, also called ejaculation control, and how the use of breath can make a profound difference in learning to alter the outcome. Triambika gives us a beautiful breath exercise men can use to practice. She focuses on spreading energy while using breath. Learn, especially, to use heart energy in all aspects of interacting with your partner. She gives us a deeply inspiring example. Hear Triambika share her own beautiful insights on the union of sex and spirit. She then shares her vision of for her own journey ahead. An positively gorgeous pair of shows!

In this show, Dr. Patti talks to Joe Quirk, author of “It's Not You. It's Biology: The Science of Love, Sex & Relationships”. Learn about the fundamental conflict between the sperm and the egg, and how this impacts the relationships between men and women. Why are humans so unique when it comes to sexual selection? Why do women want commitment and why do men want to date as many women as possible? Find out how females influence sexual preferences in all species, and how this translates into male cock and testicle size, and female clitoral size in humans. Does biology apply to women who don’t want kids, or are past child-bearing age? Other dilemmas are pondered. For example, do women keep testing men – even after they’ve married them? Why is so challenging for a man to give a woman a clitoral orgasm? How can men succeed with women they want to impress? This show will answer these and many more questions, and leave you smiling, inspired to appreciate the opposite sex for who they really (biologically) are!

In this show, Dr. Patti talks again to Joe Quirk, author of “It's Not You. It's Biology: The Science of Love, Sex & Relationships”. Learn why women want men to learn, in so much detail, how to give them sexual pleasure. Why do women want to date both the “bad-boy” and the “nice-guy”? What can men to do compete for women successfully? Can the “nice-guy” finish first, and if so, how? Where do men with special talents and intelligence fit on this chart? Do men ever change their preferences in terms of the women they want to spend their life with? Why do men and woman have such different types of orgasms, in general? Why are we so lustful, jealous, and passionate? How can we get along, given our differences? Truly a show to enjoy, learn from, and use to have better relationships with the opposite sex!