Ngakube AmaKhrestu aphoqelekile ngempela ukugcina umthetho wokunikela okweshumi ? Kaningi ngizwa ngokweshumi ezintshumayelweni zabandla engikulo kodwa ziyangidida zingidine.Konke lokhu kuxhumana kanjani nakho konke okushiwo nguPawuli ngesivumelwano esisha somusa nokukhululeka koMKhrestu emthethweni? Kungani mina ,njengomlandeli kaJesu ,ngiboshelwe emithethweni yeThestamente Elidala nezinqubo zalo?

“Ngingaqhubeka nobudlelwano nentokazi yakwelinye ibandla ,esihlukene nalo ngokwenkambiso yezimfundiso zezwi? Ngihambe ngomsebenzi wevangeli ekupheleni nonyaka ngihlangane nentokazi engizizwe ngiholeleka kuyo ngokomuzwa ojulile ngaphakathi.Sesibe noxhumano futhi kubukeka kukhona lokhu okuhlanganisa izinhlizyo zethu nakuba sithandaza sobabili.Nakuba sikholwa nguKhrestu oyedwa nebhayibheli futhi sishisekela iNkosi nokho izimfundiso zamabandla ethu ziyangqubuzana .Umile ngokungazamazami esivumweni sabaphostoli nezinye izimfundiso ,manje kunabazalwane thizeni ebandleni lami engazi kahle ;bathatha, izimfundiso zebandla lakhe njengento eyimfeketho.Ngenze njani ?”

Kuliqiniso ngempela ukuthi izibhalo azingeni ndawo ngobunkonkoni nokugunyazwa ngokusemthethweni komshado wezinkonkoni? Kaningi sengizwile ngalempikiswano –kahle hle sengize ngadideka ngaloludaba.Kuthini ukubuka kwenu?

“Ngibhekana kanjani nokungasebenzi? Sekuyiminyaka ewu 2 ngalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wami.Emva kokuzama ukufesa ngi aplaya kodwa sengiphelelwe lithemba lokuba ngoke ngiwuthole .Unkosikazi wami usebuyele emsebenzini ,kodwa iholo lakhe lincane ukubhekana nezindleko zakhaya ngisho sesehlise izindleko zekhaya.Ukuthi ngibhocobele ngalesisimo , amagama amancane lawo engikwazi ukuwasho.Hle hle ngizizwa njengomuntu olahlekelwe yikho konke.Unkosikazi wami uyazama ukungigqugquzela kodwa ngibona akaqondi ukuthi ngizizwa ngintunguleke kangakanani.Ngingaphendukela kuphi ngithole usizo na?”

Singakanani isikhathi engingasinikela emsebenzini wami ? Umsebenzi wami ungidinga ngifake amahora amade njalo ngesonto .Okugcina ngingasakwazi ukuzipha isikhathi sokunye –okubandakanya nomndeni wami –njengokuba ngingathanda .Ngokombono wenu yisiphi isikhathi esiningi esiyisikhathi esiningi ngokomsebenzi ? Niphakamisa ngifune omunye umsebenzi ?

Iyiphi indlela ephambili yokubumba ubudlelwane ungumzali kwingane ezalwa uwakwakho ? Ngisanda kushada nendoda enomoya omuhle kakhulu ehlela ukuthatha nezingane zami eziwu 3 zibe ngumndeni .Kodwa ngeshwa umfanyana wami unenkinga yokuzwana nalendoda.Yikuphi esingakwenza ukubumba ubudlelwano babo?

Ngakube inkinga yami yokungadli ngendlela ,ngibuyise , nesicanucanunokwehla komzimba ingaba semsukeni wokuthi angiziqondi ubumina kuKhrestu ? Omunye umngani wami uke waphakamisa lokhu ,futhi angazi ngikuthathe kanjani.Kade ngaqala ngiseyi teenager ukuba nezinkinga zokudla ,kodwa angikaze ngicabange yinkinga yokomoya .Ngakube okushiwo ngumngani wami kuyawenza umqondo kinina?

Ngakube ukuthi ngisehluleka ukulala nomnyeni wami mbhede munye ,emva kokuthi ngathola wayekade eneshende ,kuchaza ukuthi angikamthetheleli ? Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngisanda kuthola ukuthi usethandane nomunye wesifazane ngokungaphezu kweminyaka ewu 4.Ubuhlungu ngalokho akwenza ,futhi usebunqamulile ubudlelwane babo ,kodwa ngezizathu thizeni ngikuthola kunzima ukusondela kuye.Lokho kumdida ingqondo aze athi kushukuthi angikamthetheleli.Uze athi kungcono ayolala kwamngani wakhe kuze kube ngikulungele ukulala naye mbhede munye .Ngenze njani?

Ngakube ukuthi ngisehluleka ukulala nomnyeni wami mbhede munye ,emva kokuthi ngathola wayekade eneshende ,kuchaza ukuthi angikamthetheleli ? Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngisanda kuthola ukuthi usethandane nomunye wesifazane ngokungaphezu kweminyaka ewu 4.Ubuhlungu ngalokho akwenza ,futhi usebunqamulile ubudlelwane babo ,kodwa ngezizathu thizeni ngikuthola kunzima ukusondela kuye.Lokho kumdida ingqondo aze athi kushukuthi angikamthetheleli.Uze athi kungcono ayolala kwamngani wakhe kuze kube ngikulungele ukulala naye mbhede munye .Ngenze njani?

Nicabanga akulungile ukuba umnyeni abheme insangu? Useneminyaka eyisebenzisa kusuka sashada ,unendlela yakhe yokuyibhema eyenza ngingaboni iyinkinga nokuthi abantu abaningi bathi ayinalo ukinatelo [addiction].Kodwa manje usedlebelendile ekuyisebenziseni ngisho naphambi kwezingane umthola eseyiphafuza.Okwenza ngiqale ukungabaza manje.Nicabanga sekuludaba olubucayi lolu ? Nokuthi ngenze njani?