Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi senginenkinga enqala ngama electronic nama –online games? Ngingavuma ngikukhonzile ukudlala .Mangiphuma emsebenzini njalo ntambama ngiya kuma electronic games ami .Yindlela yami yokuphumuza ingqondo emva kosuku belusinda.Inkinga ekhona eyodwa ngukuthi ngishadile ,ngingubaba ,manje unkosikazi wami useqala ukukhalaza .Wangitshela ngolunye usuku ukuthi sengikinatelwe ama-game.Iyenzeka into enjalo kodwa?

Ngakube kulungile yini ukuba indoda isebenzise izithombe zomkayoezithathwe nge –cell phone ezivusa imizwa yocansi ,ngenhloso yokubibiyela eze -porn ezivuthisa umzimba,futhi ngicabange lokhu kungangisiza ngidlule kulenkinga.Yikuphi enikucabangayo ngalomqondo wami ?

Singenza kanjani ukuthi umaqhenyane wengane yethu ena -4 idle konke esiyinika khona? Ukukhetha kwakhe ukudla sekusinyusela ushukela phela manje.Kaningi simnqabela ama kip kip kodwa siyabona ngesidlo santambama uwazungeza yonke indawo.Mina ngibona lokhu kukhetha kwakhe kuluphawu lokungalaleli kodwa uyise yena usaba ukuthi uma sikwenza kuba ludaba kuzokwenza angadli kakhulu kunakuqala.Senzenjani ?

Ninakho eningakuphakamisa ngomama ofuna ukushiya i-career yakhe obeyenza full time oseyohlala nezingane zakhe? Yikuphi engingakwenza ukuqiniseka lezingunquko ngizenza kamtoti emndenini ?

Ninalo ululeko kugogo nomkhulu ababhekene nokukhulisa umzukulu wabo ? Abazukulu bethu ababili bahlala nathi futhi cishe kuzoba ngeside isikhathi .Singabenza kanjani bezizwe besekhaya elifudumele ngaphandle kokukhathala kwengqondo kithi?

Ninalo ululeko kugogo nomkhulu ababhekene nokukhulisa umzukulu wabo ? Abazukulu bethu ababili bahlala nathi futhi cishe kuzoba ngeside isikhathi .Singabenza kanjani bezizwe besekhaya elifudumele ngaphandle kokukhathala kwengqondo kithi?

Singathokozela kanjani ingxenye yempilo yokulula ingqondo ekhaya ngamahlaya amahle aswabukilisayo ? Iningi labangani bethu lithola ukuswabuluka ngokuhleka ezintweni engizithola zingezinhle.Ningaphakamisa amahlaya ahlanzekile emndenini ?

Singathokozela kanjani ingxenye yempilo yokulula ingqondo ekhaya ngamahlaya amahle aswabukilisayo ? Iningi labangani bethu lithola ukuswabuluka ngokuhleka ezintweni engizithola zingezinhle.Ningaphakamisa amahlaya ahlanzekile emndenini ?

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