Ngakube kumele ngizifundise izingane zami ngobumqoka bokuzidela? Asizwa kakhulu ngakho ebandleni kulezinsuku ,bese kuthi isikompilo labantu basemhlabeni alikugqizi qakala sanhlobo.Kodwa anginaso isiqinisekiso ukuthi izingane zethu zizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukulandela uJesu uma silahla lengxenye yobizo lomfundi kaJesu.

Ngingalinika kanjani iteenager lami inhlonipho elifanele? Ngingavuma ukuthi siyangqulana ngamakhanda kaningi –uluhlobo oludinga ukuqondiswa nokuholwa okuningi,okuphetha ngokuthi kungabi kuhle endlini .Kodwa angikholwa ngukuthi kukhona engikwenzile okumehlisa isithunzi njengomuntu. Kuchaza ukuthini ukuthi “umzali ahloniphe ingane?” ngakube ngingavese ngimdedele enze ngendlela yakhe –ngilokothe?

Uguquko usuka ebunganeni uya ekubeni yi-teenager wuguquko olukhulu empilweni, futhi ama-teen amaningi kanye nabazali bangakufakazela lokho. Kunezinguquko zomzimba nezomqondo ezenzekayo kulesigaba,

futhi kuyasiza ukuqonda lamaphuzu zisasuka nje ukuze ungazitholi usuhilelekile ungazelele. Nakhu la khona abazali nama-teens abangasebenzisana khona ukudala umoya wokuhloniphana, futhi bagcine ubudlelwane obuhle, kungakhathalekile isimo sithini ngezinguquko nakanjani ezizogcina zenzekile.

Sewake wacabanga ukuthi uNkulunkulu ubengafuna ukuba ikholwa elibhekene nokuhuheka kwezobulili obufanayo lenze njani? Kumuntu obhekene nalengwadla kungumthwalo enhliziyweni yakhe ongagcina umfumbe phansi. Sizoletha inkombandlela ngalesihloko, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni

Ubutasa kakhulu bubukeka sebuyinsakavukela ,okuthi abanye abantu baze bazigqaje ngabo ngokokuthi bakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi kakhulu. Nokho, ukukhulisa izingane zethu kuma-schedule anyinyithekayo akulethi ubuhle ngokwezingane.

Impi yesikhathi sokulala enganeni iyinto evamile ekhaya, isikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho inenkani lokho okwenza ukhameke kakhulu futhi uma ungazimisele ukuba nenkani yokubekezela nawe ungagcina wehluliwe.

Into enhle nekhululanayo ngokuba nguMKhrestu ngukuthi uKhrestu wafela ukuxolelwa kwezono zethu. Kodwa waphinde uJesu wafundisa amakholwa ukuxolelana njengokuba naye esixolele. Inkonzo yokuletha ukuthethelela kwabanye abantu, kungakhathalekile inzima kanjani, kodwa okungangabazwa ngayo la okholweni kwaKhrestu. Uma sekuziwa ekuzixoleleni ngamaphutha esiwenzile, ngolunye-ke udaba lolo. Mhlawumbe izono esezadlula ziyakwengama futhi awunasiqinisekiso ukuthi uzodlula yini kwizolo lakho lamaphutha.

Ukuphazimiseka ngengqondo sekuyinsakavukela esikhathini esikusona. Ukukhulisa ingane ephazamiseke ngengqondo akulula futhi kubiza amava amaningi ukukwenza ngokuhle.

Uma kungukuthi undodakazi wakho oyi-teenager ukuqhumisa ikhanda ngezamafeshini, nakanjani umelwe ukuhlala nathi ohlelweni Ezomndeni ngoba sizokhuluma ngendaba yempi yokugqoka ngokuhlonipheka nezingubo kubazali nama-teenager.

Abantu abaningi bayathanda ukuqhuma ngokuhleka izikhathi ngezikhathi, abanye ukuhleka baze bakubize ngekhambi lomphefumulo, bese khona lapho bakhona abanye abancokola nabahleka nje ngalesosikhathi, okunokwenzeka mhlawumbe i-personality yabo leyo esuke ivela.