Uma kunengane engaphezu kweyodwa ekhaya, nakanjani ungangibuza ungiphale ulimi, kuzoba khona uhlobo oluthile lokulwa. Umbuzo usekuthini okungakanani ukulwa ezinganeni ekhaya okumelwe umzali akuvumele futhi abhekene nakho?

Uma uzizwe untengezela mayelana nesimo sohambo lwakho lobuKhrestu awuwedwa, maningi amaKhrestu angqubuzana nalesosimo semizwa nsukuzonke. Uma kungukuthi kunokwenzeka, unentshisekelo ngokwethembeka ukubona ukukhula okubanzi, nakanjani uzokhuthazeka ngalokhu esizokusho khona la

Ngesikhathi ingane yakho ingena eminyakeni yobu-teenager, kunokwenzeka sewuqaphelile kunoguquko olukhona ngesondele kubona. Lakhona owake waba yindawo ephephile neyisifuba sengane yakho, usungakubona ukuthi sewugudluziwe, kwasekuba ngabangani bengane yakho asebethathe indawo empilweni yayo.

Kuvamisa ukuba nezigaba zempilo ekukhuleni kwethu, siphakathi nezingcindezi zezidingo zobuzali, sizithole ukuthi nabazali bethu sebesekukhuleni okudinga unakekelo lwethu. Yisimo leso okungelula neze ukubhekana naso, Kodwa khona simile.

Njengabazali abangaMakhrestu sifuna ukuhlala siqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zethu ziyazazi izinsika zokuphila uKhrestu asifundise ukuphila ngazo. Nokho sidinga futhi ukuzenza ziqonde umhlaba lo owele esonweni, esiphila kuwona.

Imishado ezweni lakithi iyehla ngamazinga asheshayo, bangu 30% kuphela abasesigabeni sokushada abashadile. Ngakho uma sizwa abasha bethi balungisela ukungena emshadweni kuyasijabulisa lokho kakhulu, nokho ,ngakube kungubuhlakani yini ukushada ngesikhathi usese university?

Ziningi izinhla eziholela ekwakheni ukuthembana emshadweni, futhi okuthi uma abashadene bezibambe kahle, nakanjani kuzoba nokuqina kokukhula kobudlelwane. Uma ngencaphephe kube ngukuthi uwakwakho usenamathele komunye ngenhliziyo, kulapho kanye ozozwa kwehla ngokushesha izinga lokwethembana phakathi kwenu.

Isihloko sokulawula inzalo sesibe ngesinempikiswano ndlelaningi kuleminyaka. Baningi abaphikisana naso ngoba bethi sitshala isiko elingokufa.

AmaKhrestu amaningi anokuzethemba kokuthi noma angangena othandweni nongakholwayo ayokwazi ukumguqula abe nguMKhrestu mase sebesejokeni linye lomshado.

Uma ingane inokuziphatha okunganamisi futhi ibuka yonke into empilweni iyimbi, ingamnandi iyimfithimfithi, lokho kungaluphawu lokuthile oku serious kakhulu, kodwa kusenokwenzeka futhi ukuthi uguquko lokuziphatha lusekuhlelekeni.