Running after What is Real
INTRO:
Good morning…It’s great to be here and be able to look at a passage from the Bible with you this morning. If you are new or visiting, we do this because we believe that the God who created the universe, the God who spoke the worlds into existence also spoke to us as humans through his word, and that’s what the Bible is. He spoke to us because he loves us. And that is what we are going to look at again today….LOVE.
So, read this familiar verse with me and we’ll talk a little bit today about WHY love is the greatest and WHY we should run after it with everything we have. I’m going to read this verse in several different version so we can really get the point.
1 Cor. 13:13
So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. (ESV)
Now these three remain: faith, hope, and love — but the greatest of these is love. (CSB)
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. (NIV)
Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love. (NLT)
And now there remain: faith [abiding trust in God and His promises], hope [confident expectation of eternal salvation], love [unselfish love for others growing out of God’s love for me], these three [the choicest graces]; but the greatest of these is love. (AMP)
But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love. (MESSAGE)
We are in the LOVE CHAPTER as it is well known. Maybe you’ve been to a wedding like I have been recently and heard this read. And it’s deceptive, because in something being so familiar it can actually be something that we don’t comprehend its beauty at all. Like:
The miracle of the birth of ANOTHER child
The loveliness of the face of a spouse smiling at us
Satisfaction of a delicious meal
The majesty of a sunset
These are all things that we can grow accustomed to and really miss the power of them. I remember when I lived in Italy and one of my jobs was to take students to the Colosseum and all the other ancient sites on various trips. I remember getting off the subway the first mite I went to the Colosseum and I was like WOW I cannot believe this. But by the 100th time I went there, the Colosseum had become actually underwhelming to me.
And the LOVE chapter can be the same way. Especially for us right now. If you re just joining us, we have studied this chapter for the past 3 months! So, maybe we are having love fatigue? I can just see it, some of you are crouched like a lion painting to pounce onto chapter 14 and all the arguments about how the gifts work or how you think they shouldn’t be in operation. Has love already gotten old?
Personally, this has been one of the most powerful studies I have ever been involved with. I wish I could just stay here in 1 Corinthians 13 for another year just re-studying LOVE. Don’t worry, we won’t stay here forever, and apparently the other guys don’t want to talk too much since they’ve only given me one verse today! But I somehow managed to make a long sermon out of it!
But me wanting to stay in this chapter isn’t so much because I don’t want to look at other things, but because I need it. I hope that as you have looked at LOVE you have realized that you need more.
That’s kind of the point that Paul was making to this church in Corinth, isn’t it? They were so full of pride, ready to argue about anything. They would argue about:
Who was the best speaker / teacher
Who among them was working the best for God
Legal disputes
Morality
What they would eat and why it was right
Marriage and singleness
The minutia of worship services like head coverings
The practice of communion
AND of COURSE WHO WAS THE most spiritual in their gifts and ministries
They were fostering a culture of competition and division instead of collaboration and loving unity. And so as Paul started in chapter 12 to address the idea of what being spiritual is really all about what its outworking could look like, He has made it very clear by placing in the middle of this section, the LOVE CHAPTER. To be truly spiritual is to love.
It’s not like Paul was just putting this chapter in as a buffer so we could have a nice poetic break in between two hard to understand doctrinal passages. He has put it here, centrally, because it is the central point. Love is the center of all true spirituality.
Last week Jason helpfully gave us a powerful picture of the preceding verses, verses 8-12 that say:
Paul says that the gifts of the spirit that the Corinthians are focusing so much on are one day going to be out of date and defunct. Remember? Jason said it was like a massive computer drive that was bigger than a briefcase and only stored 10 MB of material, and cost 40 something thousand dollars compared to our thumb drives that hold gigabytes and cost 10 bucks!
They are like that old carphone or fist cell phones that looked like a huge brick with a long antenna, when the smart phone has now come! Why would you use one of those things now except for comedic effect??
When the new heavens and new earth come with the coming of Jesus, and we are fully known, we won’t need spiritual gifts. Paul says that tongues, knowledge and prophecy are going the way of the dinosaur eventually. HUGE, especially for a people so narcissistically fixated on their own spirituality and their gifts like the Corinthians. Seriously the Corinthians were like those people that you talk to and try to vary the subject and they say…anyway, now let’s talk about me again!
Well, today, we’ll cap off the Love chapter with this one verse, verse 13, and let me give you the sense of where it’s headed. Paul first me nations the Permanence of LOVE
The Permeance of Love
“These three remain (abide)”
Rom. 8:24 - hope will come to fruition
2 Cor. 5:7 - faith will become sight
It’s debatable and a little harder than you would think to understand this passages.
Some think it means that these three are the most important right now for the Corinthians (which they are)
Some think that it means they are all valuable and love is the eternal one - the only one that will endure
Some think that they all three will endure for eternity.
It’s probably best to see that they are the most important now AND they will be abiding together FOREVER as a triad.
These three are tied together, they are used together all over the New Testament, look at a couple passages with me:
1 Thess. 1:3
Col. 1:4-5 - love seems to spring from hope…
Gal. 5:5-6
Eph. 4:2-5
One commentator said: “His sentence is so constructed that if faith and hope remained only until we enter heaven, love, too, would remain only that long. It is impossible to drop faith and hope at the golden portal and to take only love with us. Such a construction is made impossible in still another way, namely when Paul adds with strong emphasis: “these three.” He ties a band about these three as if, after naming them, he asks us to stop a moment and to contemplate these three which constitute one great unit, the supreme class of spiritual possessions, the class that endures eternally in contrast with the other class which endures only for time.”
So, it seems right that they all endure. WE will always be trusting God to hold us, even in eternity….we will always look forward to all that he will do and unveil in eternity future (whatever that means!) because heaven isn’t static.
Even love will be different in heaven because we won’t just have the desire to love and have love be a burden, but we will have the delight of love as we all are perfect and love each other perfectly!
But what he is really talking about more than the permeance of love in this verse, is the Priority of love and here’s the argument that he book ends bye saying “Love never ends” in verse 8, and “love remains” in verse 13.
The Priority of Love
Tongues, Knowledge & Prophecy will pass away
Tongues, Knowledge & Prophecy are imperfect
Tongues, Knowledge & Prophecy are less mature
Faith, Hope & Love are more of a priority
Faith, Hope & Love will together always be more of a priority
LOVE is always the greatest priority, run after it
Paul tells us that the triad of faith, hope and love totally trump the triad of tongues, prophecies and knowledge. If this was a 3 on 3 game, we know who is going to win. Every. single. Time.
Faith, Hope and Love are the virtues or graces that overwhelm the gifts. They are the evidence of real spirituality above the gifts.
So look, ALL the Corinthians can talk about is their gifts. Paul said this back in chapter 1 and he kind of mocked them for it. He said oh yeah you are SO Blessed….You are like KINGS. They go on and on about their gifts of speech and revelation, and so this packs a punch when Paul says, yeah there’s something better….Gifts are kind of fun, its great to get a gift on your birthday….but a gift doesn’t compare with a virtue that enables you to live in a state where you can even have the ability to use the gift. It’s no good to get a gun or a bow if you don’t have sight to look and aim it where to shoot - you’ll probably just kill someone with the gift! So virtues are essential while gifts are extras. And Paul says, stop playing around….I’m talking about faith, hope and love - those are the real evidences that you are filled with God’s spirit!
And, in order to see just how great love is as a priority, I think we need to reflect again on what he is saying and what faith and hope are. Do we really understand just how amazing Faith and Hope are?
Look at FAITH One person defined it this way in interpreting Hebrews 11:1
“A God graced ability to trust in the hoped-for promises of God and live expressing them as realities to show that trust. In this trust there is a conviction that gives evidence of those realities because as you trust, you see them happening and become more certain of their ultimate truth and reality.”
In other words, God gives the promises, he gives you the ability to believe those promises and as you do, life changes, which becomes the evidence that the promises are real and have effect.
This is very different from blind faith. This is trust which leads to reality and real evidence that helps you trust more. And this is amazing! Just take a look at the hall of faith in Hebrews 11 for a some examples.
A guys named Noah who God told him to build a massive cruise ship and told him it would “Rain” even though it had never happened before. Think about that, for years pounding away, people mocking you and you just keep building. Then one day some animals start showing up, and your thinking ok, looks like this premise was for real…I felt it I staked it all on it, and here’s some evidence…then you get in and the door closes and there’s little more trust, then finally you hear the rain start the fall…
But you are thinking, thats a fairy tale…ok, let’s get real, here’s another one
A guy named Abraham. God told him to up, change his entire worldview on who and how to worship… leave his entire family and go to “a place I will show you” and I will make your descendants “like the stars in the sky.” So, he gets going lives in tents his whole life, waiting for a city whose builder and maker is God, and currently all his descendants are living in the land and still lobbing bombs and fighting over who should get it. Because God gave a promise and he trusted it, he lived it, and the world was changed.
Think about how amazing faith is! One more:
Moses and the people of Israel. They were slaves and lived under the most powerful empire in the world. Moses gets banished and meets a bush that says it is God speaking to him. God through the bush tells him to go to the world ruling dictator and tell him to let go of his economical stability and workforce and let the Hebrews go. Moses speaks each time God tells him to trusting in His promises and God smacks Pharaoh and Egypt down until they are ready to send them away with a huge severance package. Then as they leave, God parts the water and they actually walk through an ocean, trusting they would make it and it wouldn’t wipe them out!
That’s faith in the Bible….and we could tell stories of faith throughout the 2 millennium since…One of. My favorites is a lady named Gladys Alward…She sort of just got on a train and ended up in China…long story short she adopted one at a time, what would amount to an entire village of children really. Then when China and Japan were at war, she hiked through the mountains with this tribe of children to get them all to safety….amazing faith! God said to take care of the orphans and widows and she did despite the cost! She lived as if God’s word was real and He would do what he said and provide for children….
And for us that means faith is a beautiful grace by which we can:
Plug away day by day despite others around us thinking our faith and trust in Christ is foolish
Go wherever and do whatever God wants us to do to walk in obedience to his word.
As a church, obey the great commission and preach the good news of Jesus and reach people with the gospel and make disciples of Jesus…speaking the gospel because we believe it is powerful and will actually change lives.
Let me encourage you in a way that this has already happened through FCBC. If you remember, a little more than a year ago, some of the leaders and quite a few people were sent out from us to start a new church and reach people in another part of Boise.
Today, Jason is preaching at Table Rock church, and actual real, new church that exists because in Faith, those who were sent, and FCBC stepped out to follow what Jesus said and go out to proclaim the gospel. No one knew what would happen, no guarantees, just faith that Jesus has told us to go and to send…Well here is an update from Ryan Eaggy, the pastor of Table Rock…he says
FROM RYAN EAGGY:
We celebrated our one year anniversary this last week on April 22. In that one year God has grown Table Rock from a core team of about 30 people (including kids!) to about 130 weekly attenders. We have four Life Groups around the Treasure Valley and are getting ready to multiple a couple more this summer. We have a growing group of youth who meet every-other Wednesday (K-5 and 6-12). This last year we held two community events, Carol’s at the Depot and The Depot Eggstravaganza that were very well attended by the neighborhood and unbelievers (about 300 on Christmas and about 250 on Easter). Praise God for all the opportunities he is giving us to spread the gospel in our part of Boise, at BSU, and with our friends, family and neighbors.
Praise God! Loads of new people in an area of Boise hearing about Jesus. The fruit of faith…..
I could go on because the bible says staggering things about faith:
Faith is the gift of God that actually Makes us at peace with him
Faith in Christ gives us all the righteousness of Jesus as a credit to our account with God
Faith is to be how we live every moment…anything done outside of faith is sin…
Faith is what actually overcomes all the evil in the world that fights against God’s glory in our lives….
Faith is amazing. We need more of this faith….
Now, look at HOPE:
Hope is perseverance in faith. We believe God in His promises and we are acting them out in trust in Him, but we need to often endure through realities that don’t seem to match up with what we believe.
A Working Definition of Hope
“Hope is a sure expectation that is based on solid realities looking to its coming consummation, the final possession and enjoyment of all for which we now hope. With Hope we find motivation in the realities that don’t seem to match up with the trust we are placing in God’s promises as we live them out.”
In other words…Fatih is trust in action, hope is the motivation for that action and belief….
Faith calls the future promises of God into our reality of living and Hope looks to the future to endure while we don’t see our faith come to full fruition.
Fatih is the calling of God’s kingdom into our everyday lives by trust in Him, But Hope is the vision of His coming kingdom that keeps us motivated and going.
So, Hope is an amazing engine to keep us going…Can’t live without it! Faith and Hope working together are absolutely essential for everyday in life. What amazing graces!
With all that said, look at LOVE, LOVE IS the PRIORITY
This is really where Paul has wanted tot take us again to finish off the love chapter…
Paul needs to say something more about love…and this is it. He has spoken at length about it and he says now that little bit more to drive the point home….this is the capstone of what he said was the most excellent way. The way that is so far beyond any spiritual practice…. “Here Paul’s praise of love reaches its climax or zenith. Not only is love superior to spiritual gifts that are partial and will come to an end, but also it is superior to virtues that are absolutely essential to being a Christian.”
WHY?
Well, for a few reasons
LOVE IS THE FOUNDATION. Paul had made indirect reference to faith and hope in the statement in v. 7 that love “always trusts” and “always hopes,” suggesting that those two virtues are undergirded by, and particular manifestations of, love.
LOVE CAN’T BE FAKED . While faith and hope are amazing virtues, they can also be deceptively swapped out for false faith and misplaced hopes. Jesus said this himself in Matthew 7:21-23.
Let me illustrate that with this story….See this house? This is the house of William Shakespeare in Stratford Upon Avon in England.
It’s a beautiful house! But one problem….Shakespeare stopped living here shortly after he was married. Now the information historically is admittedly incomplete. But, it seems Shakespeare married his wife under some sort of pressure, perhaps because he got her pregnant….then we don’t hear from him for awhile and then all of a sudden he has stepped out to London London, writing great works, fulfilling his hopes of becoming a famous author….The problem? His wife and children are nowhere to be found. It seems this writer of great love dramas, left love for his ambitions and hopes. And this illustrates how someone can miss the plot so to speak. Can make other priorities over the one thing that should be a priority…
And that is more often than not ourselves and our pursuits as the priority.
It wasn’t just in Shakespeares age, we now live in an age of that is “in the midst of a suffocating self-love in our modern and postmodern culture. The Bible is clear that our real hunger is to know the one true God revealed in its pages. Only in doing so will we satisfy our cravings for security (faith), find the purpose for which we exist (hope), and be able to live free from slavery to self (love).”
“Instead we have substituted other things for the three cardinal virtues such that “instead of dependence on God for our lives (‘faith’), we have substituted a mental assent to historical data that leads to making ‘decisions’ about God. Rather than trusting in God’s promises for our future (‘hope’), we have fallen back on a wishful thinking that is informed by our desires for heath and wealth. Hence, although called to consider the needs of others more important than our own needs (‘love’), we seek money, sex, and emotional gratification at any cost.” So we can fake the others but not love….
LOVE IMAGES GOD
- IN HIS TRINITY
Our version of love is sad, solitary and unsatisfying as depicted in this pop song:
Gonna love myself, no, I don’t need anybody else
Gonna love myself, no, I don’t need anybody else
(Hey) (I love me)
Gonna love myself, no, I don’t need anybody else
Gonna love myself, no, I don’t need anybody else
(Hey) (I love me)
Yet we have a high and rising rate of suicide in this generation. It is cleat our self love doesn’t work. And it doesn’t work because it isn’t love. It is narcissism.
Love actually can only exist in the Christian worldview….You have polytheism and its competing Gods, Monad gods like in certain monotheisms where God cuts a solitary figure all alone and essentially needs humans in order to love. Only with a triune eternal God can you have a co-equal love out of which he can unselfishly flow and model what his agape love is as expressed in Patience, kindness etc.
IN HIS Nature
Carson reminds us that while Scripture tells us “God is love” (1 John 4:16), “it is difficult to imagine how they could have said that God is faith, or that God is hope.”
IN HIS CROSS
As 1 John 3;16 says: ‘By this we know his love, that he laid down his life for us.”
“Love is therefore the greatest of the three, because by it the human race has been renewed.”
On the cross…God was being patient with you bearing with your sin…kind to you in to judging you directly, joyful for you as he endured the cross to purchase salvation….
LOVE MAKES US LIKE GOD
Love alone makes us like God. “For love is of God; and everyone that loves is born of God, and knows God,” 1 John 4:7. Also v. 12: “If we love one another, God dwells in us, and his love is perfected in us.” Especially v. 16: “God is love; and he that dwells in love dwells in God, and God in him.”
When we are patient, etc we participate in the very life and reality of God.
The Pursuit of Love
This is the one application point that Paul makes at the culmination of all his eloquence describing the love of God and the love we are to live in as his people….
He literally says RUN, RUN, RUN after love….set your heart on it, purpose you will have it, seek every opportunity to practice it
He uses a word that is used in the Bible that go after or persecute Christians…its with that kind of intensity…
It’s the same kind of picture we see in Luke 15 in the parable of the prodigal sons…The Father runs after both the sons…the cold, dead moralistic church going older son, and the hedonistic rebellious rude and disrespectful younger son…THE FATHER RUNS. God has run after us in Christ…HE runs after you now no matter where you are at…You need to know and feel that…
This is why this is so important…Love is the only real thing…
Tim Anstine Quote from First Wednesday about the REALLY REAL
“We have been invited into a miracle…The first two chapters of Genesis are an invitation into the miracle the Trinity is doing….
The crazy thing…Define the really real. What is the really real, at the end of the day what is real…You can’t say space…space is something not nothing. IT is an incredible energy well, the fabric of space itself is energy…You can’t say atoms…You look at me and all you see is electrons, that isn’t reality…
What is the really real….? The interplay of the Trinity. Before there was time before there was space before there was energy, chemistry and physics…you had the perfect interplay between the father son and spirit, in perfect love, in perfect joy, in perfect contentment…and in perfection they said let us make man in our image. In order for you and I to be here today he had to speak in the fabric of mathematics and space and energy and time and atoms and molecules. I believe what Gen. 1 & 2 are is an invitation to say here is the interplay of the LOGOS.
The universe did as we know it today did not function until the end of day 6. If you look at the beautiful omnitriun perfectum (there’s perfection in three). You look at the way the original Genesis…Look at the two triads of that first section of Genesis.
There is a triad of form. form, form, form….There is a second triad of fill, fill, fill…
The language there is so amazing, because I can’t paint unless I speak in the canvas to existence…speak in the brushes, and speak in the paint. First three days, speaking in gravity, speaking in chemistry, speaking in atoms, the he starts to paint…and what he paints is unbelievably beautiful. And then the ultimate is that he rests on day 6 knowing that you and I would be right here right now and have this relationship with him. Thats the interplay of the really real, knowing that you and I would be here right now, worshiping him…”
faith and hope are the grace virtue that are conduits for the reality of love…
BUT Love is the relational reality!
So we are to run after this relational reality that mirrors and images our God.
Here are some ways to apply this as we close….this is what we run after.
The text tells us to run after it in regards to unity around the gifts of the Spirit. Look we are approaching what could vibe a contentious chapter. You may think we teach it right, you may disagree. And while that is not unimportant, it is secondary. There are godly and good bible interpreters on the spectrum of interpretation about tongues and prophecy, but there is something more important. We would be just repeating he Corinthians prideful mistakes if in the coming weeks we have strife and disunity over the views of the gifts that are presented or that we are personally convinced of. The fact is we are going to have divergence of belief in this church on this topic. There is no way to avoid it…So what do we do? WE LOVE! Constantly shocked that we can hear a sermon on love and then create further disunity rather than unity - what Paul is attempting to do among the Corinthians. He is attempting to unify their polarized opinions and fragmentation as a body that is from the root of pride. That is evident and clear in the entire book…
Listen to this quote from Don Carson as we set our hearts to run after love as we talk about theological views with a lot of emotion and experience and baggage attached to them.
When we get to heaven, we won’t be debating who was right….Our eyes will meet as our common faith and hope in Christ come to fruition and we will remember….MAN I LOVED YOU EVEN WHEN WE DISAGREE AND NOW WE GET TO BE HERE TOGETHER!
And that same view could be said for any conflict.
RUN AFTER LOVE IN EVERY CONFLICT. - Proverbs 10:12 “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers over all wrongs. If that is in church life, or in family life….Run after it….you can disagree, it’s just that you are looking to make that other person look better, to bless them, to help them, not to look for a reason to argue. There is an issue, there is a problem and you deal with that as a team looking to help one another…with the steadfast commitment to love one another no matter what.
Run after Love in your marriage and family life. Guys our wives are not just a side distraction. Paul says we ought to love our wives like Christ loved thee church. Run after making time with her…You are imaging the Trinity, you are experiencing realness as you learn to talk and share together and to commune with God together…Moms and das, kids and teens…Build a fellowship within your family that is really real. Don’t just look parents at what annoys you in your kids, but celebrate the relationship and time you have…kids don’t fall into the trap of our age that says that being with your family is boring - you need to pursue other more exciting things…learn what is real now and enjoy it ….express together as a family the love and kindness and gentleness that IN eternity you’ll look back on and say we got to experience that together in the midst of a broken world and we just get to continue now…
Run after Love by living and serving together as a body….That’s what Paul has been getting at in this whole section…He’s told them they are gifted to serve…now serve together in love…I loved that we got a chance to do this yesterday at the Spring cleanup! Look at some of these pictures….It’s not so much about what we accomplished, but that we have been together and loved one another…Serving is just a context to run after what is really REAL!!!
In eternity I will forever remember that after this picture was taken GLENN leaned in and gave his wife a big kiss….Or I’ll remember how Robert and Bill laughed as they put me to shame in getting my job done for me so quick!
We need to make more time, not less to be together. All of our pursuits are great, all of our lives with our families and living out our faith individually are great…but what an amazing joy that we can serve together now as a body and practice doing what is the really real for eternity….
Run after love by continuing to realize that Jesus loved you and died for you while you were an enemy of God….Look for people who don’t like you, who don’t like that your a Christian and run after them. Show How great Your father is…Image Him in his love, show them what is really real.
IF YOU AREN’T A CHRISTIAN….I AM INVITING YOU INTO THE GREATEST THING, THE ONLY REAL THING IN THE UNIVERSE. The Love of God as given in Christ on the cross for you to be guilt free, shame free, to have know you are loved by a patient father who only has kind thoughts towards you and wants your best, who will give you good gifts and more than that spend eternity loving on you as you trust and hope in all his goodness for you….Come to God through Jesus. Stop trying to get what you need by loving yourself…Receive the Love of God through Christ!
Let me pray for us a prayer that Amy Carmichael the great missionary prayed as we close.
Give me the Love that leads the way The Faith that nothing can dismay The Hope no disappointments tire The Passion that'll burn like fire Let me not sink to be a clod Make me Thy fuel, Flame of God