Falling in love can be exciting, exhilarating, and dizzying.Falling in love can be exciting, exhilarating, and dizzying.  In the midst of these amazing feelings, you may sometimes feel like you're losing track of your boundaries, which can put you at risk.  For people working to change their habits and behaviors, fading boundaries can sometimes make them fall back into bad patterns.  Dr. Kathryn Foster has been a marriage and family therapist for over 27 years and has seen clients at all stages of love.  She shares how you can live in the moment of love and still feel safe and grounded without disconnecting from your partner or falling back into bad patterns.