It’s tempting to tell a lie—especially when it makes life easier, avoids conflict, or earns approval. But what happens when we allow small lies to become habits in our families? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deeper look at the ninth commandment: “You shall not bear false witness.”

They share personal stories of "white lies," explore how environments normalize deceit, and offer biblical encouragement for parenting kids who lie. From fake IDs to fudging a child’s age for a discount, this conversation uncovers how truth-telling is foundational to trust and love in the home.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why lying is often motivated by fear, shame, or the desire for approval - How “small” lies can create lasting damage in relationships - Parenting strategies to lovingly confront dishonesty without shame - Why full confession—not partial—is the only way to rebuild trust - How to keep communication open and be a “safe place” for truth

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Next week, we take a deeper look at the 10th commandment, “You shall not covet.” What does it mean to guard your heart in a world filled with comparison and craving? Join us as we explore how contentment leads to joy and freedom in family life.

Do not lie. It’s the ninth of the 10 Commandments—but how do we teach this principle to our children in a world where lying is often celebrated? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share biblical principles and even humorous stories about honesty, confession, and the battle for truth in our culture and in our homes.

We’ll unpack what it means to bear false witness, how even small acts of deceit impact our relationships, and why truth-telling is a spiritual battle rooted in the very nature of God. From playful games like “two truths and a lie” to microwave deception and missing candy, this conversation gets honest about lying—and how to raise a family that values truth.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why lying is more than just telling a falsehood—it’s about deceit, omission, and distortion

- How our culture normalizes and rewards dishonesty, and what to do about it as Christian parents

- The biblical roots of truth-telling and how it reflects the character of God

- Why Jesus calls Satan “the father of lies”—and how lies keep us captive

Featured Resources:

Shine by Amy Rienow — Discover God’s heart for you in this 8-week Bible study for women. Learn how to replace the lies of the world with the truth of God’s Word. Available in print and online video course: https://visionaryfam.com/shine

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Next week, we’ll continue our conversation on the Ninth Commandment and get practical. How do you deal with lying in your kids? How can you create a home where truth is expected, lived, and celebrated? Join us for Part 2 of “Do Not Lie.”

Greed leads to stealing—even stealing from God. In this powerful continuation of our 10 Commandments series, Rob and Amy Rienow explore the deeper heart issue behind the command, “Do not steal.” You’ll discover how discontent, entitlement, and everyday compromises can damage relationships and spiritual growth within the home.

With stories from their own family, biblical teaching, and practical parenting insights, Rob and Amy unpack the connection between greed, contentment, and generosity. Learn how to disciple your children away from a culture of “little white stealing” and toward a life of honesty, trust, and stewardship.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- How greed and discontent are at the root of stealing - Why “little white stealing” matters in family life - How to guide your kids when they steal—confession, consequences, and restitution - What it means to rob God in tithes and offerings—and how to avoid it - Tips for building a home culture of contentment and trust

Featured Resources:

Visionary Family Camp at Cedar Bay — Join us for an unforgettable week of multi-generational discipleship in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. Last spots available! Register now: https://visionaryfam.com/camp

Family Mission Trip to the Dominican Republic — Help provide clean water and the gospel to families in need. Support or learn more here: https://visionaryfam.com/dr

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Next time, we continue our journey through the 10 Commandments with “Do Not Bear False Witness.” What does truth-telling look like in a culture full of spin and exaggeration? Don’t miss it.

Our most important mission as parents is to do all in our power to help our children safely Home to Heaven. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob Rienow is joined by special guest Lee Ann Mancini—author of Raising Kids to Follow Christ—for an honest conversation about parenting, discipleship, and eternal priorities.

Lee Ann shares powerful biblical wisdom, personal stories, and practical encouragement to help you lead your children toward a lifelong relationship with Jesus. From spiritual training in the womb to guiding adult children with prayer instead of pressure, this episode will inspire you to parent with eternity in mind.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- Why spiritual discipleship begins before birth and continues for life - The difference between discipline and discipleship in parenting - How to lead older children and teens even if you “missed” the early years - Encouragement for parents struggling with fear, guilt, or regret

Featured Resources:

Raising Kids to Follow Christ by Lee Ann Mancini — A powerful resource to help parents and grandparents instill lasting faith in the next generation. Available wherever books are sold or at: https://raisingchristiankids.com

Visionary Family Community — Join families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation: https://visionaryfam.com/community

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Join us next time as we return to our 10 Commandments series with part two of “Do Not Steal”—focusing on practical parenting tips to cultivate honesty, contentment, and a heart of generosity in your home.

Do not steal. It’s about far more than shoplifting—it’s a foundational principle that shapes families, communities, and entire nations. In this episode, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments series with a deep dive into the eighth commandment, exploring its powerful relevance to everyday life and family culture.

From Paw Patrol pups to the moral roots of private property, Rob and Amy share stories and insights that reveal how this commandment applies far beyond the obvious. Whether it's returning a forgotten grocery item or addressing issues like cheating, plagiarism, and entitlement, the Bible gives practical guidance for building lives of integrity.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- Why “Do not steal” is about more than just theft - How Christian values shape law, justice, and community trust - What theft looks like in everyday parenting moments - How to help kids build integrity in a culture of shortcuts

Featured Resources:

Shine by Amy Rienow — A Bible study for women seeking to embrace God’s heart for them. Great for small groups or personal devotions: https://visionaryfam.com/shine

Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to following Jesus and passing faith to the next generation: https://visionaryfam.com/community

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Next week, Rob and Amy continue their discussion of “Do not steal” with practical tips on how to cultivate honesty and integrity at home. Don’t miss it!

One of the most important ways we can love our children is to help them prepare for a future marriage. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments series with a third conversation on the commandment: “You shall not commit adultery.” But this time, the focus shifts to how parents and grandparents can proactively prepare kids to honor God in their relationships, avoid sexual pitfalls, and move toward lifelong, Christ-centered marriages. These principles apply even if God calls our child to be single. 

Our culture pressures teens to date early, act independently, and hide romantic relationships from their parents. But God calls families to walk together. In this episode, you’ll hear practical wisdom on building heart-connected conversations, resisting early dating pressure, and fostering an environment where we can walk with our teens in pursuing God's plan for their lives.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- How to prepare your kids for marriage starting in childhood - Why early dating can harm future relationships - What it means to “not awaken love before its time” - How to build ongoing conversations about sexuality and dating - Biblical encouragement for kids who have made mistakes—and their parents

Featured Resources:

Visionary Family Community — Connect with Christian families around the world committed to following Jesus and raising kids for Christ. Join us: https://visionaryfam.com/community

Let There Be Fish — A perfect devotional gift for graduates who love fishing! Combines Bible truths and fishing stories to share the Gospel. Available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C51V6NQS/ 

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We turn to the 8th Commandment: “You shall not steal.” What does this mean beyond taking someone else’s property? Find out next week as we explore how this commandment applies to integrity, generosity, and our hearts.

A faithful Christian marriage doesn’t happen by accident. In this special 250th episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share candid stories and biblical truths about protecting your marriage from temptation, emotional affairs, and pornography. Adultery doesn’t start with a moment—it starts with a drift. Learn how to guard your heart, invest in your spouse, and pursue God-honoring intimacy in today’s culture.

Marriage isn’t just about avoiding disaster. It’s about building joy, unity, and strength over time. Discover practical wisdom on social media boundaries, how fantasy shapes emotional detachment, and why investing in your spouse’s needs protects both hearts. If your marriage feels stuck or threatened, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- How emotional affairs begin and how to guard against them - Why pornography doesn’t disappear after marriage - The connection between temptation, fantasy, and dissatisfaction - How to talk to your kids about protecting marriage in a digital age - Hope and biblical encouragement for couples struggling with betrayal or disconnection

Featured Resources:

Visionary Family Conference — Join us for a weekend that strengthens your faith and family. Upcoming events in Iowa, Michigan, and Wyoming. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events

Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community

Jesus the Reigning King — A family devotional to help your household grow in faith after Easter. Available on Amazon and in English/Spanish: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1497471818/ 

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Join us as we continue our conversation on the 7th commandment and how it applies to our kids and families. 

Jesus said, “What God has joined together, let no one separate.” In this powerful episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep and honest look at the Seventh Commandment: “Do not commit adultery.”

They unpack the biblical foundation for marriage, examine the real-life consequences of adultery on individuals, families, and society, and share how repentance and healing are possible through Christ. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or walking alongside someone who has experienced unfaithfulness, this episode will offer biblical clarity and hope.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- Why adultery is more than just a private sin—it’s a violation of covenant and community

- How modern culture tries to redefine and diminish the seriousness of adultery

- The difference between emotional and physical unfaithfulness—and how both impact marriage

- How to begin the process of healing if adultery has entered your marriage

- What Scripture says about purity, fidelity, and the sacredness of the marriage bed

Featured Resources:

Visionary Family Camp — Spend an unforgettable week with your family in God’s creation. All generations welcome! July 19–25 in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. Register by June 1: https://visionaryfam.com/camp 

Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community

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Next week, we continue with Part 2 on the Seventh Commandment as we explore Jesus’ words about lust and how to protect your marriage from temptation in a sex-saturated culture.

“I hate you.” If you’ve ever heard those words from your child, you know how painful and jarring they can be. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment—“You shall not murder”—and how Jesus reveals that anger and hatred in the heart are spiritual expressions of that same sin.

They unpack what it means for parents and children to struggle with anger, bitterness, and hatred—and how we can proactively disciple our families toward healing, grace, and reconciliation. This is a timely conversation for any parent dealing with emotional outbursts, strained relationships, or the heartache of children turning away.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- Why anger and hatred are spiritual violations of the Sixth Commandment

- What to do when your child says “I hate you”

- How the words we use—like “idiot” or “hate”—reveal the condition of our hearts

- The cultural danger of justifying hatred in the name of righteousness

- A biblical strategy to help children (and parents) find freedom from anger

Featured Resources:

Free MP3 Seminar — Helping Your Child Find Freedom from Anger: https://visionaryfam.com/freedom

Visionary Family Camp — Join us at Cedar Bay, July 19–25. Register by June 1: https://visionaryfam.com/camp

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Next week, we take on the Seventh Commandment—“Do not commit adultery”—and talk about how to help our children and teens pursue purity in a world filled with temptation.

Do guilt and perfectionism sometimes hold you back as a mom? In this special edition of Family Vision, Amy shares a powerful conversation with D6 podcaster Jeremy Lee. They dive deep into the common spiritual battles moms face, including the pressures of perfectionism and guilt, and how the enemy uses these struggles to attack our hearts and relationships with our children. Through biblical wisdom and personal stories, Amy offers practical advice for breaking free from these burdens and embracing God’s grace in our parenting.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

- How guilt and perfectionism can sabotage your parenting and relationship with God

- Why moms often feel like they’re “bad moms” and how to overcome this lie

- The importance of being real and embracing imperfection in your motherhood journey

- Amy’s personal journey with guilt and her advice for other moms

- The power of letting go of control and trusting God’s plan for your family

Featured Resources:

Not So Perfect Mom — Amy’s new book on navigating the challenges of motherhood with grace and authenticity. Available on D6 Family or Visionary Family Ministries.

Family Worship Guide — Download the free family worship guide: visionaryfam.com/grace

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Next week, we’ll continue our series on the 10 Commandments by diving into “Do Not Murder” and Jesus' teaching on anger and hatred. You won’t want to miss it!