Fat Chicks on Top

Guest: Shalimar (Leatherperson, Mental Health Professional, Therapist)

Shalimar (leatherperson, mental health professional, therapist) joins Auntie Vice to chat about their journey in kink and in mental health. They apply their skills from social work to building healthy, welcoming spaces for queer kink community. We discuss gender, trauma, sober spaces, learning, compassion and more!

Sites and Socials:

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thekinkyhooker/

Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/kalishali

Fetlife: KaliShali

Guest: Tamara Winfrey-Harris

Tamara Winfrey-Harris is a writer, speaker and dedicated champion for all women and girls. She serves as president of Women’s Fund of Central Indiana, a special interest fund of Central Indiana Community Foundation that convenes, invests and advocates so all who identify as women or girls in Central Indiana have an equitable opportunity to reach their full potential no matter their place, race or identity. 

Tamara is the author of the award-winning The Sisters Are Alright: Changing the Broken Narrative of Black Women in America (Berrett-Koehler Publishers 2015); Dear Black Girl: Letters From Your Sisters On Stepping Into Your Power (Berrett-Koehler Publishers 2021); and A Black Woman’s Guide to Getting Free (Berrett-Koehler Publishers 2024). 

Tamara is co-founder of Black Women’s Writing Society, a monthly virtual space for Black femme creatives in Indianapolis. She is also a registered yoga teacher and reiki master, who focuses her work on the healing and well-being of her sisters. 

Sites and Socials:

https://www.tamarawinfreyharris.com/

Other Links for this Episode:

Women’s Fund of Central Indianna: https://www.womensfund.org/

Rolf Gates Yoga: https://www.rolfgates.com/pages/training/2019-COMMUNITIES%20RIZING-200-hour-vinyasa-yoga-teacher-training/

Bookshops

LoudMouth Books https://loudmouthindy.com/

Indy Reads: https://indyreads.org/

Charis Books: https://www.charisbooksandmore.com/

Bookshop.org: https://www.bookshop.org

Bluestockings Book Collective: https://bluestockings.com/

Red Emma’s: https://redemmas.org/

The Strand: https://www.strandbooks.com/

Guest: Shedao (leatherperson, kink educator)

Shedao, bootblack and kink educator, joins Auntie Vice to talk about their journey into kink, polyamory, and becoming a kink educator. We chat about finding a kink identity and builing Black kink community. We chat about moving from hierarchichal relationships to solo polyamory.

Sites & Socials

Instagram  @Shedao_tkyo

Fetlife

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Guest: Mx. Pucks A'Plenty (burlesque performer, creator of FatCon and FatLesque conferences)

Ms. Pucks A'Plenty, founder of FatCon and ranked the 17th most influential burleque performer in the world, joins Auntie Vice to talk about their gender journey, fat joy, and community. We talk about being a queer, high-femme, nonbinary, diabled, and Black burlesque performer. How they came to understand their intersecting identities and find community.

We discuss the creation of FatCon and how fat community brings strength, joy, and power. We discuss the fat tax, fashion, and how body size shapes the experience in the kink world.

Sites and Socials:

LinkTree

Instagram 

Fatlesque

FatCon

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Pontoon Take-Over June 1, Rollins Lake, Colfax, CA

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Guest: Dr. Nick McGlynn

Dr. Nick McGlynn, Senior Researcher and Lecturer at Brighton University, is a geographer with a focus on LGBTQ spaces. His new book Boundaries and Bodies in UK Bear Spaces looks at how the bear community creates spaces, how their corporeal geography aligns with ideas of desirability and community, and how fatness in GBQ men shapes narratives and representation.

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Brighton University Site

Bodies and Boundaries of UK Bear Spaces

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Lost Spaces Podcast re: Wicked Grounds

Let's Get Wet! event link and info

DomCon

London Alternative Market Retreat

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In this episode, Auntie Vice responds to listeners questions about body fluid flavors, strap on harness suggestions, the origin of her name, and more! She also discusses Pride, LGBTQ+ event access, and other issues.

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Sportsheet Thigh Harness

Sportsheet Double Thigh Harness

XL Packer Harness

Brief Strap-on Harness

Candy Apple Lube

Pear Flavored Lube

Rollins Boathouse Take Over

Nevada City Pool Party

LGBTQ+ Sleep Over

This episode has explicit content about larger bodies and hucow play.

Guest: Luna KM, creator of SubmissiveGuide.com, writer, and content creator

Luna KM from Submissive Guide joins Auntie Vice to chat about her submissive journey. What began as a personal blog blossomed into the SumbissiveGuide website, Kink Network on Discord, and Patreon channel. Her journey is reflective of many folks discovering BDSM From early forays online to small in-person meet-ups, to connecting with a community of folks who love and support you through your journey, ,Luna covers it all!

Sites and Socials

SubmissvieGuide.com

Patreon

Twitter 

Books, Journal Prompt Collections, and Guides

Other Things Mentioned in this Episode

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns Molly Devon and Phillip Miller

Gor

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Guest: Joan Price (author, educator)

Joan Price has been writing about aging and sexuality for the last 20 years. Her books are some of the best informed volumed about sex after 65! She joins Auntie Vice to discuss everything from menopause to circadian rhythms and arousal.

Sites and Books

JoanPrice.com

Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex After 60

Naked At Our Age

Sex After Grief

Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50

Other Things Mentioned in this Episode

Hook-up Horror Stories Podcast with Demi Wylde

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Guest: Tabitha Britt (Journalist, Creator of DoYouEndo.com)

Endometriosis affects 10 percent of all AFAB persons (and some men). It is a painful and often debilitating disease. Tabitha Britt knew she had endometriosis for 14 years and still struggled to get doctors to believe and treat her. This is unfortunately the same experience millions of people have. So Tabitha started DoYouEndo.com to allow folks to connect, find information, and community.

She joins Auntie Vice to talk about the pitfalls of the medical system when it comes to treating AFAB folks, the stigma around endometriosis, the misinformation out there, and the social media bans and blocks on any medical information helpful for all things associated with women and periods (oof!).

Sites and Socials

DoYouEndo

 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/do.you.endo/ 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DOYOUENDO/ 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/doyouendo 

Endometriosis Foundation of America: https://www.endofound.org/ 

Dr. Seckin (highly recommend!): https://drseckin.com/ 

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Endometriosis Awareness Month

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Guest: Anton Fulmen (writer, educator)

Anton Fulmen joins Auntie Vice to chat about coming into his kinky desires of consensual dominance. He is the author of Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook, joins Auntie Vice to talk about dominance, consensual power exchange, and kink from the cis heterosexual male perspective. They cover how to navigate desire, privilege, learning, and tending to the dominant soul.

Sites & Socials

Website: https://www.consensualdominance.com/

Heart of Dominance

The Dominance Playbook

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Other things mentioned in this episode:

Please Scream Quietly by Julia Fenhell

Hurts So Good by Leigh Cowart

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