Fat Chicks on Top

Guest: Boss Boar, kink educator

Boss Boar is a kink educator who specializes in teaching about pressure points, fear play, humilation, and degredation. He joins Fat Chicks to talk about tapping into the dark side of desire, finding out what that means for him, and how to engage in more advanced forms of kink play.

We also have an extended conversation about consent, creating safety in our communitys, and the responsibilities of kink educators and leaders when it comes to admitting we messed up.

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Socials and Websites

BossBoar on Fetlife.com

BossBoar.com for information, classes, and bookings.

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Please consider completing an academic research survey about sexual fantasies by Galen Fous. The anonymous survey can be accessed here: https://galenfous.com/pem/ 

Sites mentioned in this episode:

www.ForbiddenTickets.com Ticket site by kinky folks for kinky folks with both in-person and online events.

www.Black-Thorn.orgKink education group and public play space in Oakland, CA.

www.LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com Auntie Vice's blog with more information about the sexual fantasy survey

WickedGrounds.com  San Francsico based coffee and kink shop

TheSexShed.com  High-end sex toy shop and blog. Use CODE: Rebecca10 for 10 percent off all merchandise

Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator

Mir Green joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the intersection of kink identities, queerness, and politics. Tune in to find out how they organized the community to keep Starbucks from building in the Leather District in San Francisco, grouwing up queer in a 3-stoplight town in the dessert, the importance of community, and crushing the patriarchy. This episode will leave you wanting to rise up and fight the power!

Socials and Websites

WickedGrounds.com

ForbiddenTickets.com

Wicked Grounds Patreon

Blog recommended by Mir We Hunted the Mammoth

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Please consider participating in the Psychological Dynamics of Sexual Fantasy survey. Dr. Rachael Needle is exploring the psychological dynamics of sexual fantasy. This is an anonymous survey for academic research. Click the link to start: http://galenfous.com/pem

Guest: Dr. Liz Powell, Ph.D. and Therapist

Dr. Liz Powell specializes in LGBTQ+ and nonbinary/trans therapy. They join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about collective trauma, COVID, healing, politics and more! We also touch on crappy tv including a joint love of Empire and The L Word.

Socials and Website

DrLizPowell.com

DrLizPowell.com/merch

Twitter and Instagram @DrLizPowell

Indigogo Campaign

Guest: Jimanekia Eborn, healer, sex educator, visionary

Jimanekia Eborn joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about her work in sexual healing and education. She runs and is in the process of expanding the Tending the Garden retreat for sexual assault survivors. We talk healing and how various identities interact with the theraputic process. Then things get fun and we chat being bisexual, dating, and passion.

Social Media and Websites

TraumaQueen.love

@Jimanekia on Instagram and Twitter

Guest: Dulcinea Pitagora, aka The Kink Doctor

Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more!

Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and connection. So. Much. Fun.

Dr. Pitagora now works as a therapist and academic in NYC. They talk about a journey of gender affirmation, healing and kink, and much more. We also touch on their great kink reading list! Check out the links below.

Sites and Social Media

www.linktr.ee/KinkDoctor

@KinkDoctor on Twitter and Instagram

Reading List: https://bookshop.org/shop/DAP-LCSW-PLLC

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Guest: Terry Dornak, Therapist and Activist

Terry Dornak joins Fat Chicks to talk about bisexuality, activism, therapy, and FUCK FLORIDA. We have an extended conversation about the various legislative attacks on the LGTBQ+ community.

She hosts the podcast Hello, Wonderful! Check it out on most streaming services.

Social Media and Sites

@TerryDornak on Twitter and Instagram

http://www.chicagopsychotherapy.com

http://www.gulfcoastpsychotherapy.com

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Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor

Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay.

Sites and Social Media:

www.LadyAtivan.com

www.TheCBTDive.ca (podcast)

www.AffectiveConsult.ca (counseling site)

@LadyAtivan on Twitter and Instagram

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Auntie Vice  will be on the panel at the Nevada County LGBTQ+ Summit in Grass Valley, CA on June 13th at 6PM. The Summit will consist of a panel discussion with audience Q&A followed by a networking reception. 

Tix: $10

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Guest: Jet Noir, Burlesque dancer

Jet Noir joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about burlesque, inspiration, living in iconic cities, and being raised in a sex-positive family in Detroit in the 1980s.

As a Black, cis-male dancer, Jet has a different journey and experience with the art form that the other artists featured in the Erotic Performer series.

One of my most interesting interviews!

Social Media:

Linktr.ee/JetNoir

Shows:

June 18th, Moist: An All-Black Caberet, Oasis Cafe, San Francisco

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Guest: Dabby Longlegs, burlesque and drag performer

Dabby Longlegs, burlesque, drag, and pole performer joins Fat Chicks to talk about working as a trans performer. Dabby delves into their gender affirmation surgeries (top surgery, hystorectomy), coming into their body, and performing.

Dabby talks about being raised in a conservative, religious family; how it shaped their identity; shame; and learning to come into themselves.

Social Media:

Enlightened Living (podcast) https://lnns.co/Pr4IKoFTb1e

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dabby-Longlegs-Artist-Choreographer-and-Sensual-Empowerment-Coach-586501878698944/

TikTok @Dabby.longlegs

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Check out this month's promoted podcast Hello Wonderful on all streaming service.

Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer

This week we continue with Erotic Performer Month. Rae Luna is a nonbinary burleque and go-go dancer based in San Francisco, CA. They talk about embracing thier body, how to seduce yourself, being Brown and how that influences their performances and so much more!

Rae has performed at Twisted Windows, an even created and hosted by previous Fat Chicks guest Shay Tizano, at Bondage-a-go-go in San Francisco, and with Om Nom Nom Nobinary Burlesque.

They also discuss growing up mixed race, not knowing their father's culture, being soaked in the white cool-aid and coming to terms with their identity.

Social Media:

_Omoonrae_ on Instagram and Twitter

Upcoming Shows:

July 8th Om Nom Nom Nonbinary Burlesque at Amaro's in San Francisco, CA

https://www.facebook.com/OmNomNomBurlesque/

July 22nd No Cover Caberet at The Skylark in San Francisco, CA

https://dothebay.com/events/2021/6/18/the-no-cover-cabaret-tickets

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nonbinary, fat, fatness, erotic performer, burlesque, go-go dancer, Twisted Windows, Wicked Grounds, Arab, mixed race, Seattle, self-love