Guest: Cathy Reisenwitz, Sex & the State substack newsletter

Cathy Reisenwitz, sex worker and writer, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about masculinity, Evangelicalism, loneliness, and more! When I discovered her newsletter, Sex and the State, I had to have her on the show. She has a lot of amazing insights into structural barriers to success, access to servicers, sex work, masculinity, and America. I love how she breaks down large systematic issues into critical discussion pieces.

Sites and Socials

Newsletter: Sex and the State on Substack

Website: https://cathyreisenwitz.com/

Twitter, Instagram, and OnlyFans @CathyReisenwitz

Guest: Ed Waters, podcaster

Ed Waters, host of Dead America Podcast, joins Auntie Vice to talk about growth, change, and masculinity. After incurring a life-altering disability, Ed Waters found himself seeking out assisted suicide. Learning to see masculinity as something more than than just brute physical strength saved his life. Through this journey, he found connection with a wide array of people including unhomed folks, previously incarcerated people, and his own wife.

Socials and Website

Dead America Podcast https://deadamerica.website/

Instagram @DeadAmericaPodcast

Twitter @FairCircle3

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7LlIblu9NZr6MEjqtU0k_Q

Guest: Bindiya Schaefer, author

Bindiya Schaefer grew up in the UAE and India. She worked as a tech journalist before switching to tech advertising. This provided a natural transition into writing science fiction. Her debut novel, Corinth 2642 AD is a futuristic murder-mystery. She explores race relations, gender, and more through this work. Her next project, a YA novel, seeks to explore Indian joy (something she finds missing from much of literature).

She is in an interracial relationship and she and Auntie Vice chat about the experience of being in interracial relationships.

Website

BindiyaSchaefer.com

Guest: Ruan Willow, writer and podcaster

Ruan Willow, host of Oh F*ck Yeah! podcast and author of over a dozen erotic novels joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat erotic writing, what it has taught her, and how it helped lessened her own shame.

Sites and Socials

Oh F*ck Yeah! Podcast

Erotic Novels on Amazon

Twitter

Sexy Pics and Audio

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Guests: Mac and Hillary, founders of FreeTheKink.com

Mac and Hillary, a couple living openly in a 24/7 power dynamic, join Auntie Vice to chat about power dynamics, kink, family and more! They explain Gorean kink. They discuss how these dynamics fit with their daily life as business owners and raising 4 children. Finally, they discuss founding FreeTheKink.com.

Website

FreeTheKink.com

Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator)

Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you!

Socials and Websites

Sugarbutch.net

AutoStraddle

DS Playground

Spicy Writing Seminar

@MrSexsmith on Twitter and IG

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10/15  8 PM at Gold Vibe Kombuchary, Grass Valley, CA

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Guests: Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller, authors, podcasters, sex educators

Cooper and Lyndzi join Fat Chicks on Top to chat about their soon-to-be released The Pegging Book. We chat about it's origins, the cultural implications of pegging, some how-to's and more!

Socials and Websites

ThePeggingBook.com

CooperSBeckett.com

Polyamory Uncensored

@CooperSBeckett on Twitter

@Lyndzi on Twitter

Guests: Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening, kink and polyamory educators, authors

Dan and Dawn join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about living as a polyam couple who practices power exchange. Dan serves as the leader of the couple and Dawn the follower while both have outside relationships with both kinky and vanilla folks. Having practiced polyamory and power exchange for more than 20 years, Dan and Dawn provide insight about these types of relationships, the pitfalls, and tools to make your polyamory less stressful.

Their new book, Hearts and Collars, covers what they have learned in 20 years as a couple. The book is filled with both stories and tools for others who may wish to pursue this relationship style.

Social Media and Sites

EroticAwakening.com (website)

Twitter @Dananddawn

Instagram @EroticAwakening

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Guest: Demi Wylde, podcaster, writer, blogger

Demi Wylde joins FCOT to chat about how he harnessed his creativity and redirected his live to embrace his passion. We chat poetry, podcasting, gay dating, living with HIV, and much more!

Sites and Socials

DemitriWylde.com

Books Bitter Blue Pill

           All Was Nothing in a Time of Champions

Twitter @DemitriWylde

Instagram @DemitriWylde

Podcast: Hook-up Horror Stories

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