In Episode 25 we talk fatherhood, leadership and being the role model they need.

I don’t want my kids to follow in my footsteps.

I don’t want them to be me.

I want them to go further. To burn brighter. To live bolder than I ever did.

Isn't that what fatherhood is about? No boundaries to growth and opportunities. Just you in their corner giving them the encouragement they need to pursue their dreams.

This episode is about the mindset, the environment, and the leadership that creates that future.

This week we talk:

Why your kids don’t need to follow your path but they need your example

That we owe it to them to create an environment where they solve problems, take risks and trust themselves

The role of masculine leadership inside the home Courage, consistency and letting them see the real you

How to teach resilience without rescuing

Why your fire matters more than your perfection

This matters because:

As dads we don’t lack time.

We often lack clarity and conviction.

Our children are watching how we fight, how we fail, how we get back up… not how polished we look.

Your job isn’t to protect them from struggle. It’s to model what strength looks like in the storm.

Because they’re not copying your wins.

They’re copying your courage.

This week: Let them see your fire, effort, grit, setbacks and progress

Stop rescuing and start creating space for them to problem-solve

Teach through moments, not lectures

Encourage boldness over comfort and encourage them to embrace challenge

Tell me in the comments: Are you transforming into a leader worth following?

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There’s a point in fatherhood where you realise you’re not living, you’re just coping. Routine keeps you afloat… but it also keeps you stuck.

This episode is about the moment I stopped surviving and started choosing for myself, for Teri, and for the boys.

This week we cover:

This matters because:

This week:

Let me know in the comments: Are you living aligned to the goal, or just coping better than you used to?

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If today was your last full day, would you be proud of how you showed up? Would your kids know what you stood for, how you loved, and the kind of man you were trying to become?

This episode of Answer Me This is a reset.

A mirror.

And a challenge to every dad to stop drifting and start leading on purpose.

This week we look at:

And this matters because:

This week focus on:

Morning intention: One word that defines how you’ll lead today.

Evening reflection: What moment made you proud or where did you drift?

Presence practice: Be where your feet are; the phone can wait.

Reset ritual: A breath, a pause, a touchpoint, all before you enter the room.

I want you to answer this: Would I be proud if this was the last version of me they saw?

Comment below: If today was your last day, what would your kids remember most? Share this episode with a dad who needs a reminder to slow down and show up.

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You can carry the load and still miss what she’s really carrying.

In this episode of Answer Me This, we explore what true partnership looks like when life gets heavy: not just protecting, providing, or solving… but seeing her.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence.

This week we talk:

The difference between carrying her load and carrying her heart.

Why fixing too quickly can silence her voice.

How emotional leadership is the key and not just rescue.

Teaching your kids love through how you love and respect their mother.

This is why it matters:

Our partners carry invisible loads; the mental lists, the emotional weight, the guilt, the constant balance between identity and motherhood. When we rush to fix, we rob them of the space to process, to feel, to breathe. Your role isn’t to remove her storms it’s to stand in them with her.

This week try this:

Listen longer: Resist the urge to solve; reflect what you hear.

Offer safety first: Comfort before clarity.

Affirm often: Remind her she’s seen, valued and capable.

Model love openly: Let your kids witness affection, respect, and empathy.

Choose consistency: Presence beats perfection every time.

Comment below: What’s one thing she needs to hear from you this week?

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This week we're focused on your partner and mother of your children. It's about how we, as fathers and partners, often miss what she really needs because we’re too focused on fixing, providing, or proving we care.

This week we talk:

And this why it matters:

This week I want you to:

Pause, reflect and listen: Before you fix, listen. Ask what she needs right now.

Let her know: Tell her you see the effort she’s making and you’re grateful.

Focus on connection: Hold her without agenda. Presence over plans. Let her feel seen and heard. Shout it from the rooftops: Celebrate her in front of your kids and let them see love modelled.

Write it down: A short note or letter of gratitude can shift everything.

Comment: When was the last time she felt chosen, not just included?

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Every day, the world tries to parent our kids for us through screens, noise, and distraction.

This episode of Answer Me This is a dad's line in the sand. This is about refusing to hand over their confidence, their happiness, and their belief in who they are.

This week we cover:

Why modern comfort is stealing our children’s courage.

The hidden cost of “convenience parenting.”

What leadership at home really looks like in 2025 and how you make the difference.

How to raise grounded, confident kids in a world that’s lost its compass.

This week matters because:

Our kids are born bright, strong, and full of potential and then the world starts chipping away at that power.

Your job is to help them fulfil that potential and rise above the distraction and noise of the outside world.

They don’t just learn from what we say, they absorb how we live, how we handle pressure, and how we love. If we don’t lead, the world will.

This episode is your reminder to take the front foot again and to lead with strength, empathy, and courage.

Your action this week:

Reclaim your role: Decide what values you’ll never outsource.

Audit your influence: How do your habits teach them to handle stress?

Lead through consistency: Small, daily actions, not big speeches.

Model resilience: Let them see you recover, not just perform.

Create friction intentionally: Show them discomfort builds confidence.

💬 CTA Comment: What’s one thing you refuse to hand over to the world?

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Dads, admitting you’re struggling is only the first step.

Staying on track, rebuilding trust, and leading your family with purpose? That’s where the real work begins and that's what really takes the effort.

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Fatherhood in Focus, I share the exact mindset, habits, and accountability steps that took me from rock bottom in 2020 to becoming a present, engaged, and resilient father again.

I learned the hard way and it almost cost me my relationship with my kids and my wife. Fatherhood is relentless but it doesn't have to leave you gasping for air.

This week we'll cover:

✅ Why acknowledgement isn’t enough and what to do next

✅ How to rebuild trust with your partner after you’ve fallen short

✅ The daily habits that keep you consistent when motivation fades

✅ How to silence your biggest critic and lead from the front

✅ The crucial difference between self-care and selfishness for dads

Whether you’re a new dad, expectant father, or deep in the grind of modern parenting, this episode is your blueprint to take your power back, reconnect with your role, and create the impact your kids will remember.

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You can build something incredible; the career, the home, the dream and still lose yourself in the process.

The moment I realised “doing it all” was costing me everything that mattered.

How burnout blinds dads to their real purpose.

Rebuilding from exhaustion: what clarity, presence, and purpose look like in practice.

What happens when you redefine success around connection, not achievement.

Your children don’t just need a provider. They need a dad who’s awake and alive in the moment. 

Audit your week — what’s taking energy away from your home life?

Protect presence — block non-negotiable connection time (bedtime, walks, laughter).

Reframe provision — see providing not as doing more, but as being more available.

Comment below: What’s one area where you’ve been “building” but losing sight of what matters?

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If you disappeared tomorrow, what would your kids carry with them? It’s not the house, the holidays, or the hustle.

It’s the moments. The warmth. The presence. The truth is, you’re building your legacy every single day with every reaction, every word, every moment you choose connection over chaos.

🎧 In this episode, we go deep into:

What legacy really means for modern fathers and how to live it now, not “one day.”

The truth about pain, vulnerability, and why hiding it doesn’t protect your kids, it isolates them. How to teach your children resilience, empathy, and joy by living it in front of them.

Why emotional honesty is the cornerstone of the legacy they’ll carry long after you’re gone.

💬 The question isn’t “What will you leave behind?” It’s “What are you living right now that’s worth remembering?”

Dad, this week I want you to:

Define your blueprint. Write down 3 values you want your kids to feel, not hear through your behaviour. Model emotional honesty.

Share one real story of failure or fear with your kids this week and how you worked through it. Choose joy as a compass.

Each night, ask yourself: “Did I model what I want them to become today?”

Legacy journaling. End your week with one reflection: What moment this week will they remember if I wasn’t here next week?

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Dads, your silence is costing you more than you think. In this raw, unfiltered episode of Fatherhood In Focus, I pull back the curtain on the hidden battles so many of us dads face, mental health struggles, burnout, shame, and the fear of speaking up.

Drawing from my own story of nearly losing everything, I'm challenges you to confront the truth: That staying silent doesn’t protect your family but it distances you from them.

As a dad, regardless of your experience or situation the more you carry, the harder fatherhood gets and every time you choose to shut down you push them away. That's the cold hard reality of modern fatherhood - You have a choice, you either face your demons, seek support or you fight on alone and risk losing everything. I chose to push them away and it wasn't until I was faced with losing my wife and boys that I finally owned up to the pain the and the pressure.

This week we cover:

✅ Why emotional honesty is the foundation of fatherhood.

✅ How shame and perfectionism silently erode your influence.

✅ The small steps that rebuild trust and connection with your kids.

✅ Why vulnerability isn’t weakness but your superpower as a dad. Whether you’re a new dad on paternity leave, a husband feeling the strain, or a father silently battling burnout, this is your chance to reflect on the influences impacting the way you show up as their dad.

Remember: 💬 Your kids don’t need the perfect you, they need the real you. Start the conversation.

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