Control is really a myth. We have very little control. One thing we can control is how we choose to act in

response to what goes on around us. We can try to manipulate others or push hard against the flow,

though eventually others will do what they want and the situation will show you quickly that you are not

in control. Are you willing to let go of your need to feel in control?

Trust is a tricky one, because if we trust ourselves then it is easier to trust others. Though for some, they think they trust themselves yet find they don’t trust others. When in truth the former is true.

If we find it easier to trust others and not ourselves then we are really wanting to blame others for things that are not working out. We give our power away so it is “not our fault” when the outcome is less desirable.

It is so satisfying when we create a plan and set a goal and follow it through to completion. We feel accomplished and proud that we stayed focused and committed. When you take intentional action every day it will take less effort to follow through. You can have this in every area of our lives. There is no limit to how many intentions you have. Start with one and then add when you are ready.

Having an intention to live by is a great way to practice showing up as the person you want to be. In those moments of strain, you can lean on your intention and practice staying true. Sometimes you might retreat back to past behavior, though each day you will get stronger.

What have you learned from the steps we have covered? How has your life shifted or your comfort zone expanded? Has your awareness increased? Have you been more willing to take risks? Have you dug deep and connected to yourself and your values? Have you had compassion for yourself along the way? Have you held yourself accountable to your goals and dreams and stayed present in the moments you have had. Have you surrendered to what is and all the possibilities in front of you? We hope you have connected with the steps.

Have you become more open to the choices around you? Have you started to see more opportunities in front of you on your path? I know if you have, your life has become more exciting. Maybe it has been a little more stressful or you have been unsure of your next steps. This is common as you start to step more out of your comfort zone. Keep practicing detaching from how things will happen and allow them to unfold. You’ve got this. You have been prepared by all the steps before this one.

Being humble is an acceptance that you don’t always know what to do or say. It is a willingness to ask for help or follow instructions. It is trusting yourself and your faith in others as well as your higher power. Being humble is being teachable.

Does knowing how something will work really guarantee that it will work? Does it always go the way you plan? Not in my experience. So, go for it and detach from how something will happen and trust that it will whatever way it will.

I love the month of possibilities, something awesome always happens. When you least expect it, your eyes will open and you will see multiple paths in front of you. How do you decide which one to walk down? Come and find out.

What have you learned about surrender this month? Have you been able to trust, accept, or let go of anything? Have you been able to see the possibilities that surrendering brings into your life? Have you gained clarity on where you need to be and where you are going? Have you been able to have compassion for yourself as you have learned to listen? This can all happen when you are willing to surrender.