Fearless Generations

Control is really a myth. We have very little control. We can control how we choose to act in response to what goes on around us. That is about all we really can control. We can manipulate others or push hard against the flow, though eventually others will do what they do and situation will happen how they will happen. Are you willing to let go of your need to feel in control?

Trust is a tricky one, because if we trust ourselves than it is easier to trust others. Though for some, they think they trust themselves yet find they don’t trust other. When in truth the former is true. 

If we find it easier to trust others and not ourselves than we are really wanting to blame others for things not working out. We give our power away so it is “not our fault” when the outcome is less desirable.

How have you done being intentional this month? Have you been practicing your intention so you can create the shifts you are wanting for yourself and your life? We know as you do you will find that you will more easily trust yourself. Your self-doubt will decrease and your satisfaction will increase. You will slowly become that person we know you can be.

It is so satisfying when we create a plan and set a goal and follow through to completion. We feel accomplished and proud that we stayed focused and committed. We took intentional action every day to get it down. We can have this in every area of our lives. There is no limit to how many intentions you have.

When we make a commitment to ourselves and then do nothing, it causes us to start to disbelieve that we are capable. When we start being intentional with our actions, we create confidence and are ready to take more and bigger risks. We no longer doubt that we are committed.

Having an intention to live by is a great way to practice showing up as the person you want to be. In those moments of strain, you can lean on your intention and practice staying true. Sometimes you might retreat back to past behavior, though each day you will get stronger.

What have you learned from the steps we have covered? How has your life shifted or your comfort zone expanded? Has your awareness increased? Have you been more willing to take risks? Have you dug deep and connected to yourself and your values? Have you had compassion for yourself along the way? Have you hold yourself accountable to your goals and dreams and stayed present in the moments you have had. Have you surrendered to what is and all the possibilities in front of you? We hope you have connected with the steps.

Have you become more open to the choices around you? Have you started to see more opportunities in front of you on your path? I know if you have, your life has become more exciting. Maybe it has been a little more stressful or you have been unsure of your next steps. This is common as you start to step more out of your comfort zone. Keep practicing detaching from how things will happen and allow them to unfold. You’ve got this. You have been prepared by all the steps before this one.

Being humble is an acceptance that you don’t always know what to do or say. It is a willingness to ask for help or follow instructions. It is trusting yourself and your faith in others as well as your higher power. Being humble is being teachable.

Does knowing how something will work really guarantee that it will work? Does it always go the way you plan? Not in my experience. So, go for it and detach from how something will happen and trust that it will whatever way it will.