We say "everything happens for a reason" almost when every bad situation turns out to be fine. But what happens when they don't? Should we keep holding on to this phrase only to keep ourselves better and forget how it affects others? Often, we forget the many layers of this seemingly innocuous and well-meaning phrase that, if we decide to dig deeper, is actually very problematic. In this episode, Meaghan Lamm explores the invisible privilege of this phrase and how it can really do more harm than good. Even as the current time seems to call for us to hang on to this phrase, it still helps to be more empathetic of how situations affect us differently. At the end of the day, no one deserves to have bad things happen to them, even if it means to learn something.