Fierce Marriage

Fierce Marriage

By Ryan and Selena FrederickReligion & SpiritualityChristianity
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  • Becoming a "Family Team" (Jefferson and Alyssa Bethke)

    Family is the first and most important institution created by God, yet we often live by default instead of by design. In today's episode, we spoke with Jeff and Alyssa Bethke about their passion for Family Teams, what that term means, and how to celebrate the importance of being a family through rhythms of rest and celebration.

    For more incredible resources from the Bethkes, go to FamilyTeams.com/get-started!

    We talked about:

    1. Families on mission vs. family AS mission
    2. Seeking unity around important things
    3. How to be a family that "sends" each other out on mission
    4. Taking time each year to plan AND reflect on the past
    5. The art of the Sabbath, and why it should be the best day of your week
    6. So much more...
    7. Thanks for listening!

      Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

      Become a Patron!

      Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

      1 hr 2 min
    8. Pornography (Part 2: The Path to Purity)

      This is the second part of a two-part series aimed at helping couples start conversations around pornography and a pathway to freedom from addiction. In today's episode we shared our personal story of struggling with pornography and discussed ways to find freedom from addiction and healing throughout the process.

      Resources:

      1. TOP Recommendation: Sex Addiction Recovery: Pure Desire (find a group near you)
      2. Pornography (Part 1: The Problem) (Part 1 of this 2 part series)
      3. Accountability questions: Get them here
      4. The Spectrum of Sex (past episode: for establishing healthy expectations around your sex life)
      5. MarriageHelp.org (Find a group near you)
      6. CelebrateRecovery.com (Find a group near you)
      7. Resources Recommended by Listeners:

        Note, these haven't been vetted by us or verified as theologically solid. That's not to say that they aren't, it's just to say please proceed with the Bible as your ultimate guide.

        1. L.I.F.E recovery guide and groups
        2. Brainbuddy app (not Christian, but seems to be biblically motivated)
        3. Echo prayer app (not pornography related but helps us be intentional in prayer daily)
        4. Pure Desire book
        5. Fight The New Drug website
        6. Ransomed Heart Ministries
        7. Restoring the Foundations Biblical healing.
        8. Podcast: "Porn Free Radio"
        9. Podcast: "The Grizz"
        10. Thanks for listening!

          Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

          Become a Patron!

          Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage.

          59 min
        11. Pornography (Part 1: The Problem)

          This is the first part of a two-part series aimed at helping couples start conversations around pornography and a pathway to freedom from addiction. In today's episode we looked at the epidemic of pornography and its harmful effects to the individual, the family, and society.

          Thanks for listening!

          Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

          Become a Patron!

          Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage.

          55 min
        12. Healing from Past Trauma, the Gospel, and Love (Preston and Jackie Hill Perry)

          Today we had special guests Preston and Jackie Hill Perry on the show! Both Preston and Jackie are prolific voices for Jesus in modern culture through teaching, spoken word performances, poetry, and music.

          Jackie's book, Gay Girl Good God is available on Amazon.com or wherever books are sold.

          Connect with the Perrys on social media, YouTube, or at JackieHillPerry.com.

          In this episode, we talked about:

          • Preston and Jackie's story
          • How does the gospel affect how we deal with our pasts?
          • Managing busy lives and maintaining margin
          • How to deal with past trauma in a healthy way
          • How to view sex in a healthy way
          • Given that you're both gifted wordsmiths, how do the Perrys fight?
          • How can we love the LGBTQ community well?
          • Thanks for listening!

            Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

            Become a Patron!

            Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

            52 min
          • Q&A #4: Gender Roles in Marriage, Healing After Betrayal, Preparing for Marriage, and More

            You asked, we discussed! Listen in as we tackled your most pressing questions about gender roles in marriage, healing after betrayal, and more.

            Show Notes

            We mentioned a TON of resources in this episode, they're listed below.

            Misc. Resources

            1. Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
            2. Our devotional bundles for growing in your marriage: 40-Day Prayer Journey, 31-Day Pursuit Challenge
            3. Newlyweds

              1. Past Episode: Navigating the Early Years of Marriage (Jeremy and Audrey Roloff)
              2. Qapital App, for saving money intentionally (get $20 for signing up with our link, limited time only)
              3. A Mingling of Souls by Matt and Lauren Chandler
              4. Fierce Marriage by Ryan and Selena Frederick
              5. Priorities and Staying Connected
                1. Download Family Vision worksheet
                2. 5 Habits of a Healthy Marriage, FREE eBook
                3. Accountability Questions
                  1. Get them here
                  2. Gender Roles in Marriage

                    1. A Beautiful Design, a sermon series of the Village Church
                    2. Jesus, Justice, and Gender Roles by Kathy Keller
                    3. “What Are Biblical Roles for Husbands and Wives?”, The Gospel Coalition, brief video
                    4. Healing After Betrayal

                      1. Dave and Ashley Willis Episode
                      2. Out of the Dust (Chris and Stephanie Teague)
                      3. RefineUs.org (Justin and Trisha Davis)
                      4. Sex Addiction Recovery: Pure Desire
                      5. MarriageHelp.org (Find a group near you)
                      6. Thanks for listening!

                        Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                        Become a Patron!

                        Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                        1 hr
                      7. The Hearts and Feelings of Women

                        Emotions are important, but they're not ultimate. Feelings are just feelings, and they shouldn't determine or change important parts of life, correct? In this episode, we talked about the hearts and feelings of women, in a candid discussion about emotions and their role in life, faith, and family.

                        Thanks for listening!

                        Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                        Become a Patron!

                        Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                        56 min
                      8. Navigating the Early Years of Marriage (Jeremy and Audrey Roloff)

                        Jeremy and Audrey met under during a very unique situation. More than 2.3 million people watched as Jeremy and Audrey Roloff shared their vows and committed their lives to each other on TLC's hit show Little People, Big World.

                        Listen in as we talked with them about their first five years of marriage and how they learned that true love is something you choose to live out each day through your actions, decisions, and sacrifices.

                        More resources from Jeremy and Audrey!

                        • New Book: A Love Letter Life
                        • Podcast: Behind the Scenes
                        • Blog and other resources: TheRoloffs.com
                        • Also make sure to find them on IG and FB!
                        • Thanks for listening!

                          Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                          Become a Patron!

                          Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                          43 min
                        • The Hearts and Feelings of Men

                          One of the biggest problems faced by modern men (and their wives) is the numbing and inoculation against feeling true emotions. For some, even when they do feel clearly, it's equally as challenging to articulating those feeling in a healthy way.

                          In this episode, we talked about the hearts and feelings of men, how wives can help their husbands process them. We ended the episode calling men to feel deeply about things that truly matter.

                          Thanks for listening!

                          Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                          Become a Patron!

                          Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                          57 min
                        • Accountability in Marriage (What it Is and What it Isn't)

                          Accountability in marriage is so much more than asking if and how you've sinned in the past week. It's about spouses embracing their role in each others' tangible walk with Christ. In this weeks episode, we talked about what accountability isn't, what it is, and how to ask questions that get to the heart of the matter.

                          Mentioned: Get the accountability questions

                          Thanks for listening!

                          Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                          Become a Patron!

                          Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                          57 min
                        • Building an Emotionally Safe Marriage (Dr. Josh and Christi Straub)

                          Josh and Christi are the real deal. Highly educated, faith-filled, and articulate communicators. In today's special interview episode, we talked about what it takes to have an emotionally safe marriage. We discussed the "fight, flight, or freeze" response to trauma in your marriage, as well as our tendency to gloss over or forget to utilize 'emotion language' as couples.

                          We enjoyed our conversation, and we trust that will too!

                          More resources from Josh and Christi Straub:

                          • Book: What Am I Feeling? (Their NEW, awesome children's book)
                          • Podcast: In This Together
                          • Blog: JoshuaStraub.com
                          • Online Parenting Community: 226Parenting.com
                          • Thanks for listening!

                            Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question!

                            Become a Patron!

                            Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

                            50 min

                          About Fierce Marriage

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                          Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace…

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