Leon hosts Tom and Fran - both living well with dementia (Tom diagnosed 8 years ago, Fran 6 years ago) - alongside guest Grahame Smith, Associate Professor in Mental Health Innovation, to discuss brain health, neurodegeneration, and practical ways to live positively with dementia. The episode highlights Tom’s detailed painting of a ship in a cove (completed over three weeks) and how learning new skills like painting, carving wood, dancing, or joining a choir can support brain health by building new neural connections rather than relying on old pathways. Fran shares starting paint-by-numbers, how it sparked childhood memories, and a humorous near shoplifting incident while buying art supplies.
Resources & Further Reading:
Meditation & Dementia Research:https://news.med.miami.edu/worried-about-alzheimers-meditate-and-mingle-study-says/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/a-subtle-impact/202506/meditation-could-reverse-brain-aging
SURF (Service Users Reference Forum): https://surfdementia.org/
Alzheimer’s Society: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/
Carers UK: https://www.carersuk.org/
Reddit Dementia Communities: https://www.reddit.com/r/dementia/
Powers of Attorney Info (UK): https://www.gov.uk/power-of-attorney
Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
03:21 Fran Tries Paint-by-Numbers: Memories, Laughter, and Getting Started
06:06 Hands, Movement & Touch: Motor Skills, Dancing, and Staying Active
10:12 Living Well With Dementia: Changing Behaviours, Social Connection, and Support Networks
15:36 Identity, Grief, and the ‘Self’: A Zen/Buddhist Lens + Tech, AI, and Memory
18:20 Subscribe & Community Mission + Living for the Moment (Peter’s Story)
20:01 Mindfulness Myths vs Being Present: Breaking Out of the ‘Box’ at Any Age
23:06 Diagnosis as a Wake‑Up Call: Changing Attitudes & Behavior
24:56 “Is Dementia You?” Identity, Labels, and Redefining Your Life
29:29 Routines for Brain Health: Cognitive Rehearsal (and When to Break the Routine)
32:50 Social Connection vs Sedentary Habits: TV, Tech, and Staying Engaged
36:42 Reminiscence Corner: Overstimulation in Crowds & How to Cope
45:43 Wrap‑Up, Thanks, and Listener Reminder to Do Your Own Research