What happens when someone with dementia cycles 27 miles and discovers they have "the face for a trombone"? Join hosts Leon, Tom, and Fran as they continue honest conversations about living with dementia, featuring special guests Dawn and Meryl.
Tom shares medication updates following a scan after his fall, whilst celebrating his recent 27-mile cycling achievement. The episode explores the challenging diagnostic journey, with guests describing initial misdiagnoses of depression or menopause before receiving accurate dementia diagnoses.
Dawn and Meryl discuss Dawn's Posterior Cortical Atrophy (PCA) - the same rare dementia affecting Terry Pratchett. This condition impacts visual processing despite normal eyesight, affecting driving, reading music, and spatial awareness.
Musical therapy features prominently as Dawn and Meryl share their trumpet and trombone learning journey, with audio clips from their brass band performances demonstrating how new skills remain possible and therapeutic post-diagnosis.
The conversation addresses practical challenges including lost independence, driving restrictions, noise sensitivity, and daily tasks taking longer. Partners discuss maintaining equal relationships rather than carer dynamics, whilst finding humor in difficult situations.
Throughout, the tone remains hopeful, emphasising that dementia changes lives but doesn't end them. With community support and adaptation, people can pursue interests, learn skills, and maintain meaningful relationships.
Resources Mentioned:
Support Organizations:
- Alzheimer's Society: www.alzheimers.org.uk (0330 333 0804)
- Men in Sheds Association: www.menssheds.org.uk
Medical Resources:
- NHS Dementia Information: www.nhs.uk/conditions/dementia
- Memantine medication - discuss with GP
Technology & Daily Aids:
- Amazon Alexa: www.amazon.co.uk/alexa
Cultural Resources:
- Van Gogh Museum: www.vangoghmuseum.nl
- Van Gogh Immersive Experience: www.vangoghexpo.com
Books:
- Terry Pratchett novels
- Van Gogh letters
- Fiona Phillips' Alzheimer's books
Activities:
- British Association for Music Therapy: www.bamt.org
- Cycling UK: www.cyclinguk.org
Specialist Support:
- Rare Dementia Support: www.raredementiasupport.org
Episode Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction & Welcome
00:14 - Tom's New Medication & 27-Mile Cycling Achievement
02:23 - Garden Party Reflections & Alzheimer's Society Support
05:01 - Challenging Public Misconceptions About Dementia
13:08 - Diagnostic Journey Challenges & Medical Advocacy
19:38 - Introduction of Dawn & Meryl: Valentine's Day Diagnosis
25:19 - Dawn's Occupational Health Nightmare & GP Support
43:19 - Understanding Posterior Cortical Atrophy (PCA)
50:02 - Daily Life Changes & Technology Adaptations
1:04:32 - "Don't Get a Puppy" - Practical Advice for New Diagnoses
1:25:52 - Community Support & Sedgemoor Group Reflections