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Be intentional. It's that simple. There's nothing else to really say on the matter, lol. Just be honest and BE intention. Be CLEAR with your intentions and find LIKE MINDED people with your same intentions. Stop being weird and let's put an end to this toxic crap moving into 2026. 

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It took me years to realize the difference between being a low maintenance person, and i was actually proud in the way that I moved in certain relationships (friendships in particular). Checking in on your people, regardless of how often...is the BARE. MINIMUM! It's the LEAST you can do as a friend/loved one. Reaching out to check in on someone and to see how they're doing. How their life is going is the genuine bare basic tasks that one can do as a friend and loved on. Understand that to be low maintenance doesn't not mean you reach out every 8 months, have a quick chat, and then go ghost on each other for another 2 years. Low maintenance means that you do not ask for, nor do you require a lot to be present in their life and to play your role. You can show up by just calling them and sitting on the phone/FaceTime. You can make the time to grab a quick coffee and chat about life. Don't get complacent in BARELY showing up for the people in your life. It truly does not require a lot to be there for someone.

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Venting is a key factor of truly processing your thoughts and your feelings. Yes, you should be wary and mindful to who you talk to. But venting should not be criticized as this automatically horrible thing that we do. As humans, we have to be able to get emotions out and express them. Yes,  again. be wary and mindful of who you talk to....but if you need to talk...do it. Whether it be on consistent friend, a therapist, whoever it may be.

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Being intentional is something I feel like we just don't do as a society, and I really wish it was put into practice more. I believe that when you move with intention, and then everything you do coincides and is aligned with that intention? There is little to no room for toxicity and negativity. Granted, you can't control what people do, how people feel, or how they choose to interpret your words and actions. HOWEVER, you can ALWAYS be clear and HONEST with your intentions and everything else will work out the way it's supposed to. 

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Welcome to season 4, Y'all! I look forward to creating more content and exploring more of the ideas that I have in the future. There's a lot to come that I want to implement with this podcast and I look forward to seeing how it all plays out!

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We're far too grown to going through life playing games and not being clear about what we want and what our intentions. Be honest, be open, be real, SET CLEAR EXPECTATIONS. 

You will avoid a lot of issues and drama by doing so. 

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Perception is key. However, it is not the "Gospel."  Understanding that every one's perception is different, while also maintaining the respect of someone else's perspective and perception of something. Someone's perception is their reality, and it's important to acknowledge that, while still also recognizing your own. 

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Communication is a highly important necessary skill that can often time be overlooked and misunderstood. While it has become a topic of conversation much more recently, it seems that most people don't understand that its not just communication itself. Its easy to talk to say something to someone, but talking to them in a way that is clear, precise, and properly conveys the message that you are intending to receive. That is where EFFECTIVE communication comes into play. You can talk to someone until your blue in the face, but if you aren't adequately conveying your message, then talking to them is pointless. Effective communication is the skill that needs to be practiced. 

In this episode, I dive more into the importance of effective communication, and what it means to me. 

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Be honest and upfront. Stop bullshittin people. We all know that words have weight and that our words mean a lot. So just be honest and be real. If a person or situation is NOT FOR YOU...then say that from the jump. But also, live those actual words. If you say you are not ready for something, then don't ACT and BEHAVE like you are ready for something. 

Honesty is 100% free. It may be hard to give and take sometimes, but its free. So, just be honest, and be real. 

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Process your feelings. Sit with them. Acknowledge them. Own up to them. FEEL them. 

Life is so much easier and healthier that way.

There's not much else to say on this topic, lol. Stop the toxicity and BS and process your feelings.

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