Figuring S**t Out

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It's normal, espeically in todays day and age, to feel like we have to handle and deal with all of our problems by ourselves. We feel like we can only let people in when things are going well. Or when we have something to celebrate. When things are only going right in our lives. But that's so far from the truth. Most of us don't go to others because we feel like we don't have anyone we can actually go to. Or we feel like we're going to "be a burden" or we're "bothering" people if we reach out. I've come to learn and understand though that we have to work hard to change that mindset and perspective. You can't say that you are alone and you don't have anyone to turn to, if you in face NEVER turn to the people in your life. If you don't reach out and let those around you know that you need them, in whatever capacity that may be...then how can you honestly say you have to go through things alone? There's a difference between genuinely NOT having anyone you can go to, and CHOOSING not to reach out to the people in your life. 

Fact of the matter is, we all have demons to fight, trauma to face, and baggage that we are all carrying. (and hopefully, working to unpack, lol). But the most important thing we have to understand when it comes to having people in our lives that love and care about us, is that we have to give them opportunity to show up for us. If you need someone to talk to; call or text them. If you need someone to spend time with to help get your mind off rough times, let them know and make the plans. 

Let people show you that they want to, and can, show up for you. Especially before you just decide that you're living in this world completely alone.

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Welcome back for Season 3 of The Figuring Sh*t Out Podcast! This has been a fun journey and something that I have enjoyed creating and doing! Come along on the next season of the podcast and dive into more fun and interesting topics! I plan on growing this podcast and part of that process means trying new things and figuring out what works and what does not. 

I hope you all enjoy this next chapter of the FSO Pod :)

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The world is constantly changing, evolving. It's important for our mindsets to change with them. While some things do remain relevant, not everything can be handled the way that they may have been in the past.

Come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that seems to be one of the biggest debates to date : the newer generation(s) vs. the old(er) generations. 

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You can't justify everything. Take accountability, own up, learn, and grow. 

It's not that hard.

Come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that so many of us never even take the time to think about : justification.

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Understanding and knowing the people you have in your life can make things that much easier. Learn the people who matter to you, and show up for them accordingly. It's truly not that hard.

So, come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that so many of us never even take the time to think about : knowing the people we say we love and care about.

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Show up for the people in your life. If you care about someone, if their place in your world holds any amount of significance....just show up.

Come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that so many of us don't understand the significance of : showing up.

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I believe the world can be a better place if we all came from a place of genuine empathy. It goes a long way. Be mindful of how you react and move through life, but be empathic to those around you and in your life.

Come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that we don't understand the importance of: empathy.

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Emotional Intelligence is key. I don't believe that we truly understand what emotional intelligence is, nor i do believe that it is practiced. Learn about it, develop it, master it. 

So, come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that so many of us don't practice : emotional intelligence.

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Often times we are so engrossed and focused on our own lives, that we forget to make time for the other things that matter. Hobbies, friendships and bonds outside of our romantic partners, other goals. We become so one track minded about what we have directly in front of us, that we forget that the rest of the world is happening around us. I've come to learn that it's important to be able to create the space and time for all the different priorities you have, regardless of the significance.

So, come and sit with me while I give my unasked for opinion about a topic that so many of us never even take the time to think about : balance.

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Thank you so much for joining me on this exciting new journey! Starting a podcast has been one of my biggest goals for years now, and it was about time that I made it happen for myself. If you stuck around and listened to me talk my shit, I truly appreciate you! I hope that something I said can resonate with anyone, and if it did, I hope you continue to follow me on this new adventure of mine!

Live love. Love life. Be kind. 'Till next time! :)

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