Finding Hope

Addiction.

We’re not talking about the typical roles like mom, dad, or sibling. We’re talking about the roles we adapt in order to survive the chaos, pain, and uncertainty that addiction brings into a family.

These roles may help us cope in the moment—but over time, they become unhealthy for both us and our loved one.

The good news?

Once we can identify these roles, we can begin to break free from them and step back into who God truly created us to be.

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What happens after your loved one gets sober? In this episode, Darcie joins Amy to talk about the reality families face once sobriety begins. While sobriety is a huge step, it is still normal to feel anxious and worried. We discuss how addiction affects the brain, why healing takes time, and what healthy communication and boundaries look like during recovery.

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On today’s episode, Darcie joins Amy to talk about what self-care truly means—not the version culture promotes, but the kind that sustains your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health. We discuss recognizing when your wellness tank is full, half-full, or empty, and practical ways to refill it through boundaries, self-awareness, and healthy habits.

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On today’s episode, Darcie is back, and we’re diving into one of our favorite lessons from Finding Hope—Parallel Feelings.

After hearing testimony after testimony from people in recovery and from loved ones, we began to notice something surprising: both groups often experience many of the same emotions, but respond to them in very different ways.

In this episode, we unpack the parallel feelings and traits of those who love someone struggling with substances and those who are battling addiction themselves. As we name the similarities, we discover that awareness isn’t meant to bring shame—it gives us the opportunity to pause, extend grace, and choose healthier patterns. Understanding these parallels can soften hearts, break cycles, and move us one step closer to healing for everyone involved.

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On today’s episode, we’re joined by Hope is Alive staff member Courtney Davis. Courtney shares her role at Hope is Alive and how addiction has personally impacted her life.

Together, we dive into a question many families wrestle with: Is addiction a brain disease, or is it a choice? Courtney walks us through her research on addiction and the brain, helping bring clarity to a topic that is often misunderstood.

Whether you’re personally affected by addiction or supporting someone who is, this episode offers wisdom, facts, and understanding.

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As a new year begins, many of us think about fresh starts, goals, or resolutions—but does a new year really bring lasting change?

In this episode, we reflect on a powerful quote from Shane Pruitt "A new year doesn't make a new you, if you keep living the way you've always lived. A new you only happens when you let an eternal God take over, and He changes how you live." This is especially true for those loving someone struggling with addiction.

We talk about what real change might look like—meeting your own needs, taking a courageous step to attend a Finding Hope meeting, or simply learning more about what Finding Hope is all about.

If you’re longing for rest, healing, or a fresh start, we also invite you to sign up for this year’s Finding Hope (FHRetreat.com) or Hope After Loss retreat (HALRetreat.com).

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The holidays can be filled with stress, expectations, and triggers—especially when addiction has impacted your family. In this episode, I’m joined by Shane Edwards, one of our incredible Finding Hope leaders from Kansas City, to talk about how we can move from simply surviving the holidays to truly thriving.

We’ll cover: Managing expectations to reduce stress and disappointment Setting and respecting boundaries (even during the holidays!) Letting go of control and trusting God’s plan Finding support instead of isolating Choosing joy and creating new traditions

This holiday season, give yourself permission to slow down, breathe, and remember the true Hope this holiday season.

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In this episode of the Finding Hope Podcast, host Amy LaRue sits down sit down with officer Mark Woodward from the Oklahoma Bureau of Narcotics. Mark shares his expertise on the latest drug trends and gives insight into the work he does to combat substance use in our communities.

But this conversation goes beyond the statistics. Mark opens up about what personally brought him to Finding Hope and why he is passionate about supporting families affected by addiction.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone wanting to better understand the truth about drug trends and steps you can take now if your loved one is struggling with substances.

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In this episode of the Finding Hope Podcast, host Amy LaRue sits down with Darcie Stephens to unpack the Serenity Prayer—discovering what’s in our control, what’s not, and how to surrender it all to God.

We’ll explore its history, biblical roots, and three key truths: • Serenity to accept what we can’t change • Courage to change what we can • Wisdom to know the difference

Whether you’re loving someone struggling with addiction or simply navigating life’s chaos, this episode offers peace, courage, and clarity.

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In today’s episode, Amy is joined once again by Darcie Stephens as they share highlights from our Run For Hope event, then dive into the healing practice of journaling.

Learn more about upcoming Finding Hope Retreats at FHRetreat.com and Hope After Loss Retreats at HALRetreat.com

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