Dating after 40 isn’t just about meeting someone new… it’s about reigniting your zest for life and showing off what makes YOU shine. Nancy is here to break down Part 2 of the 5 Pillars for Finding Love: Vibrance, Romance, Creativity, Discovery, and Community. These aren't just concepts—they’re tools to help you create a life filled with connection, passion, and joy.

So many people in midlife face barriers to Finding Love. Some feel drained, overwhelmed, or unsure about where to start. Nancy shares the wisdom she's gained through her own decades of experiences, from transforming your personal health and fitness, to tapping into your creative muse, to discovering new levels of self-awareness. 

When you use these 5 Pillars as your guide, you can create a much clearer path to the love you deserve. You'll  break free from old patterns, invite new energy into your life, and build the confidence to create meaningful relationships. In one of the pillars, Nancy highlights the importance of community—because having a circle that uplifts and inspires you makes all the difference.

Let’s reframe how we approach dating at this stage in life. Love isn’t just something we find—it’s something we build within ourselves first.

Start including the 5 Pillars into practice to boost your potential!

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What does it really take to get ready for love in midlife? How do you shed what’s not working and embrace what’s next? Nancy introduces Part 1 of her personal framework: Five Pillars for Finding Love. This is about more than swiping apps or dreaming of "the one"—it’s about getting ready to manifest true love.

Pillar #1: Vibrance. Reignite your spark and be radiant, in every way you can. Nancy shares how she transformed her fitness and her zest for life after getting stuck in a rut and recovering from an injury. Feeling physically and emotionally strong and confident can be the key to attracting the right connections. Remember: Energy is everything.

Pillar #2: Romance. Nurture your romantic spirit. Too often we forget to prioritize ourselves. Are you treating yourself the way you’d want a partner to treat you? Nancy talks about the power of creating a sensual environment for yourself, celebrating your feminine energy, and keeping your heart and mind open to love. Remember: Love yourself first.

Pillar #3: Community. Love stories don’t happen in a vacuum. Strengthening your connection to your friends and family, and meeting new people whenever you can, will not only make you feel better—it will increase your chances of meeting someone special. Remember: Everyone you love is part of your love story.

Let your experience of dating in midlife be about tending to the life you want to create. The Pillars aren’t just about relationships, they’re about building a foundation of vibrance, romance, and connection that benefit every part of who you are.

And these Three Pillars are just the beginning. In next week’s episode, we’ll be sharing two more!

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Don’t underestimate the power of NO, especially when it comes to dating. If someone is the wrong fit, call it. And if someone ignores, ghosts, or just leaves you hanging, you can reclaim your power with one simple strategy.

Some of the biggest concerns about dating in midlife are how to stay true to yourself, remain in control, and not settle for less than you deserve. In today’s episode, Nancy talks about common dating mistakes, reminding us that they are just part of the story—not the end of the road.

Dating in midlife isn’t a scarcity-based game of musical chairs, so don’t give in to internal pressure to make the "wrong" person "right"—that is the fastest way to self-sabotage on your search for love. Recognize when a relationship isn’t a genuine fit, and remember, if you don’t find anyone this round, there are more chances to come. Think of dating as your opportunity to find connection without the need to settle.

For anyone who’s been ghosted or ignored, Nancy shares how to reclaim your power and shift the narrative. She shares a personal story about learning that “no response” is a decline, and emphasizes that calling it out and having the last word can empower you to move forward without feeling left hanging. Her approach is about empowered self-respect—an essential asset at any stage of life.

Nancy also talks about staying curious and authentic in the dating world. Experimenting with different facets of your personality is great if you stand firm in your values and don’t lose yourself in the process. Flexibility is a virtue, but holding to your core identity is non-negotiable!

If you're ready to invest in yourself and your midlife love story, don’t miss out on Love Camp! Join us for an incredible retreat where you'll connect with like-minded women and discover tools to empower your love life. Whether you're looking for personal growth, friendship, or just a little fun, Love Camp has something for everyone. Spaces are limited—only 10 spots—so be sure to book your spot today! ✅ https://findinglove.co/love-camp-retreat/ 
 

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Nancy shares the story behind her viral Threads post that had over 17k people cheering her on!

The post was a photo of Nancy on her wedding day a few years ago. At 57, she decided to wear a beautiful, fluffy, white dress. In the caption, she said, there's no age limit to feeling like a princess.

The post sparked such an amazing response from women everywhere who shared photos of themselves in their dream wedding dresses—everyone cheering each other on.

In today’s show, Nancy talks about why celebrating your midlife love story matters. No matter your age, you should feel free, bold, and happy to express yourself in a way that feels true to YOU.

Nancy gets real about what it took to “say yes to the dress” and defy all those little voices saying, “Is that age appropriate?” or “Why wear a wedding gown for your second marriage?” She shares her thoughts on breaking through stale societal expectations that tell women to downplay their celebrations or slow down as they get older. Spoiler alert: we don't have time for that!

This episode is about more than just a wedding dress. It’s about joyful self-expression, giving yourself permission to live boldly, and shouting YES to what makes you feel amazing—at any age. Whether it's dressing the way you want, dating the way you want, or just living with more freedom, Nancy is here to remind you: it’s never too late to rewrite your story and live it on your own terms. You don’t need to ask for permission. You don't need approval. Life is too short to wait for someone to give you the green light. So, what’s stopping you from celebrating your journey? Tune in and get inspired to go after the life you deserve.

If you're ready to invest in yourself and your midlife love story, don’t miss out on Love Camp! Join us for an incredible retreat where you'll connect with like-minded women and discover the tools to empower your love life. Whether you're looking for personal growth, friendship, or just a little fun, Love Camp has something for everyone. Spaces are limited – only 10 spots – so be sure to book your spot today!

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Finding your community, dating app alternatives, and prioritizing YOURSELF above all else – if you’re feeling lost and isolated in the dating-after-40 scene, this episode is for you. Listen in for three ways to reclaim your power as you look for love in midlife. 

Nancy answers questions from listeners, starting with the ONE thing she would have done differently when she was dating in her 40s and 50s: she wished she had connected with other women who were juggling careers and parenting while looking for love after divorce. Feeling alone can be tough, but if you take the time and effort to surround yourself with the right people, you can shift your dating story from daunting to empowering! The support of like-minded women can lift you up and remind you that you’re not alone in this.

Next question: “What if I absolutely do not want to use dating apps?” Nancy shares some great alternatives to dating apps, stressing that dating means aligning with your values and preferences. So, if you detest online dating, don’t use it! Dating in midlife doesn’t have to be an all-or-nothing approach. From joining social groups to investing in your personal growth, you can absolutely meet new people in a way that feels good for YOU. 

Final question: “How do I show up in the dating scene if I’m just not feeling my best?” Self-care is key, and Nancy knows how important it is to nurture your well-being to attract the love you deserve. Tune in to learn about her personal self-care practices and how they can help you shine in the dating world.

If you're ready to invest in yourself and your midlife love story, don’t miss out on Love Camp! Join us for an incredible retreat where you'll connect with like-minded women and discover the tools to empower your love life. Whether you're looking for personal growth, friendship, or just a little fun, Love Camp has something for everyone. Spaces are limited – only 10 spots – so be sure to book your spot today!

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Has a breakup or divorce left you feeling lost, like lasting love is just not in the cards for you? In Episode 46, Nancy talks about ways to rediscover yourself after a major life change, rebuild your confidence, and open your heart again after walking through the fire of heartbreak.

Nancy shares her own story of self-work, self-love, and dating after divorce. She talks how she found the strength to embrace love again. Tune in for some real talk on healing and being open to new beginnings, even when the future feels scary and uncertain.

Nancy shares the tips she used for getting back into the dating scene as a newly single mom of two. She opens up about how she dealt with her fear of rejection, disappointment, and vulnerability. This episode is packed with insights on how to:

- Let go of past relationship strife and worries.

- Rebuild your sense of self-worth and confidence.

- Embrace the adventure of finding love again in midlife, without fear holding you back.

Whether you're newly single or have been out of the dating game for a while, this episode will inspire you to take that first step to opening your heart and finding love again.  

It’s YOUR time to reclaim your power and find a supportive community to help you step into your next chapter! Join me at Love Camp — a transformative women’s-only retreat in Montana this spring. Together we’ll boost your confidence and clarity, and help you attract the love you deserve.

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Do you feel like there’s a hidden part of you that’s keeping you from finding love? Maybe you’re avoiding deeper connections or struggling to show your true self. Don’t worry, you’re not alone! Nancy Bruce chats with the fabulous Junie Moon, a global love mentor and Certified Shadow Work® coach, about the magic of self-awareness and authenticity in relationships.

Enter the world of shadows! Junie shares what it means to embrace those hidden aspects of yourself that can mess with your love life. Trust Junie — she knows that reclaiming these aspects are the best way to open the floodgates to let genuine connection and attracting the love we desire.

Together, they explore the challenges of dating in midlife, and how to recognize your own triggers and foste self-compassion. Junie highlights the power of constructive conflict in relationships, revealing how navigating disagreements can strengthen bonds and build trust.

Plus, Junie opens up about her personal journey with Shadow Work, sharing how she overcame fears and insecurities that once held her back from love. If you’ve ever wondered how to stop self-sabotaging or felt like your inner critic is ruining your dating life, this episode is for you!

“The universe loves to give us what we need to learn.”

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Ever find yourself chasing the idea of love instead of focusing on how a healthy relationship should actually feel? 

Dr. Laura Berman joins Nancy in this episode to help you dig deep into what you really need in a partner—beyond the movie-worthy romance or the qualities you used to look for in your 20s. It's time to redefine your vision of love and find clarity on the connection that will truly light you up in midlife.

Dr. Laura is the renowned sex, love, and relationship therapist who played a huge role in helping Nancy break through her own blocks to find love in her 50s.

Dr. Laura teaches Nancy her "100%" concept—how both people bring their full selves to a relationship, for better or worse. And if you’ve been stuck in old relationship patterns that no longer serve you, this episode will help you break free and stop sabotaging your own chances at love. 

Whether you're looking for a romantic partner who’s also your best friend, or just seeking clarity on what you truly value when it comes to love, Dr. Laura is the perfect guide.

Get ready for a heart-to-heart on what real, lasting love looks like, and how to create it. Plus, find out why doing the inner work is key to attracting a partner who’s ready to grow with you.

“You won’t be able to attract someone who’s willing to grow and change unless YOU are.”

Visit Dr. Laura Berman's website and explore her upcoming memberships—Love Collective and Grief Healing Collective.

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Episode 43: Thriving in Midlife Dating

What’s the secret to thriving in the midlife dating world? In this episode, Nancy reveals her Top 3 Pieces of Dating Advice that will empower you to navigate love and dating in your Third Act with confidence and clarity.

1. Patience is Key:

Many people jump into the dating pool eager for a connection, but it's common to feel disappointed after a series of first dates. Nancy emphasizes the importance of patience, encouraging listeners to give each date a fair chance to blossom, rather than rushing to judgment.

2. Radiate Confidence:

 Feeling good about yourself is crucial. The energy you radiate directly influences the type of partner you attract. By prioritizing self-care and focusing on your health, you elevate your confidence and become more appealing to potential matches.

3. Expand Your Circle:

 Building a diverse social network enriches your life and opens doors to new experiences and connections. Nancy shares her personal journey of joining a writing group, which helped her forge meaningful friendships and discover joy at any age.

Dating isn’t always easy, but with a little patience, self-love, and new friends, you're on the right track to finding that special someone. Take your time, feel good about yourself, and keep your circle wide—love might be just around the corner.

Tune in to Episode 43 for valuable insights and actionable tips to enhance your midlife dating experience!

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