Fire Family Collective Podcast | Real Talk for Fire Wives & Partners.

In this conversation, Amanda and Suzy discuss the challenges and rewards of being a partner to a first responder. They explore the importance of community support, the balancing act of work and family life, and the emotional resilience required in their unique circumstances. Suzy shares her experiences as a librarian and a fire spouse, emphasizing the significance of having a support network and the value of literature in navigating their lives. They also touch on the impact of their partners' careers on their family dynamics and the resources available for both adults and children in the fire family community.

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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In this conversation, Amanda and Katie Kada discuss the unique challenges and misconceptions faced by fire families. They explore the realities of being a first responder spouse, the importance of self-care, and the impact of parenting on personal well-being. Katie shares her journey of prioritizing her health through the '75 Soft' program and the joy of rediscovering reading. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of maintaining relationships and finding connection amidst the busy lives of first responder families.

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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In this episode of the Fire Family Collective Podcast, Amanda and Ashley Pridgeon discuss the unique dynamics of being part of a firefighter family. They explore Ashley's experiences growing up as a fire kid, the challenges of parenting with a firefighter spouse, and the importance of mental health resources for first responders. The conversation emphasizes the need for community support, the reality behind the romanticized image of firefighters, and the significance of intentional family moments. They also highlight the importance of attending firefighter events together to strengthen bonds and support systems.

Takeaways

• Growing up as a fire kid shapes perspectives on family dynamics.
• Intentional moments with children create lasting memories.
• It's important to check in with spouses after tough shifts.
• Mental health resources are crucial for first responders.
• Community support helps navigate the challenges of fire family life.
• Romanticizing the firefighter image can overlook the reality of the job.
• It's okay to ask for help and accept support from others.
• Teaching children resilience is vital in first responder families.
• Attending firefighter events can strengthen family bonds.
• Open communication about feelings and needs is essential. 

Support the show

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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In episode 54 of the Fire Family Collective podcast, Amanda speaks with Stephanie and Dan Lievense about their experiences during the Eaton Fire in January 2025. Dan is a Los Angeles Fire Department firefighter; Stephanie is a marriage and family therapist. The conversation delves into the emotional and practical challenges faced by firefighters and their families during emergencies, the importance of community support, and the lessons learned about trust and preparedness in fire families. The guests share their personal stories of fear, resilience, and the critical role of support systems in navigating the aftermath of the fire. Chris Stine, President of the Los Angeles Firemen's Relief Association also talks about their efforts to support LA fire families during and after devasting LA Fires in January 2025.

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#firefamily #firespouse #firefighter #fireservice #relationships #marriage #parenting #mentalhealth #lafd #lafra #eatonfire

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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In this episode, Peter McKenzie and Amanda Ellis discuss the transition of the Firehouse Roundtable podcast to the Fire Family Collective, focusing on the importance of community and support for families of firefighters. Amanda shares her personal journey of feeling isolated as a new firefighter's spouse and how connecting with others in similar situations has been transformative. They explore the vision for the Fire Family Collective, including mentorship programs and upcoming resources aimed at supporting families. The conversation emphasizes the need for connection, understanding, and shared experiences within the firefighting community.

Host: Capt. Peter McKenzie (ret.) of Ventura Fire Foundation Inc.

Guest Host: Amanda Ellis

Link: Request Access to the Fire Family Collective  

Connect with Ventura Fire Foundation on social media: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

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Support the show

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Support our Mission. 👉 https://bit.ly/Donate2FFC

Connect with us on Instagram. 👉 https://www.instagram.com/firefamilycollective/

Listen on the go:
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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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Guest host Amanda Ellis talks with three other fire spouses, Stephanie Kay, Maggie Hernandez, and Anna Young, about the Ventura Fire Foundation's newest initiative, the Fire Family Collective. To be launched in January 2025, the Fire Family Collective is a supportive digital community for USA fire families offering resources, education, and connection. The Collective will  empower fire families to overcome adversity, strengthen their relationships, and foster a sense of belonging within the fire service community. The discussion on this show taps into many topics the Collective will focus on, including parenting, relationships, and mental health.

Host: Capt. Peter McKenzie (ret.) of Ventura Fire Foundation Inc.

Guest Host: Amanda Ellis
Guest: Stephanie Kay
Guest: Maggie Hernandez
Guest: Anna Young
Link: Request Access to the Fire Family Collective  

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Text the show - feedback, guest suggestions, etc.

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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A deep conversation with Chief David Rhodes, a 38-year veteran of the fire service and editor-in-chief of Fire Engineering magazine. They explore the differences between the public and private sectors, the challenges of bureaucracy and generational differences within the fire service. Chief Rhodes shares insights on the importance of training, the cultural shifts in the fire service, and the significance of outside involvement in professional development. The discussion also touches on the Georgia Smoke Diver Program, risk management, and the need for adaptability in firefighting tactics. The episode concludes with reflections on the importance of relationships and collaboration in driving change within fire departments. With guest co-host Derrick Bean.

Host: Capt. Peter McKenzie (ret.) of Ventura Fire Foundation Inc.

Guest Host: Engineer Derrick Bean of Ventura City Fire
Guest: Chief David Rhodes of Fire Engineering Magazine
Link: Georgia Smoke Diver
Link: Register for Webinar  

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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Derrick Bean, a Fire Engineer, Girl Dad, and new member of the Foundation's Board celebrates the show's 50th epsiode with guest host Joe Booth. Derrick shares his unique journey to becoming a firefighter, including his multicultural background and experiences in various fire departments. The conversation delves into the importance of diversity in the fire service, the role of fire cause investigation, and the challenges of balancing family life as a firefighter. Derrick also discusses his recovery from a significant injury and the support he received from his community. The episode concludes with insights on encouraging future generations to consider firefighting as a career and the current challenges in recruitment within the field.

Host: Joe Booth, Executive Director of Ventura Fire Foundation Inc.

Guest: Engineer Derrick Bean of Ventura City Fire
Link: Register for Webinar  

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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In this conversation, guest hosts Amanda Ellis and Stephanie Kay talk with marriage and family therapist (and fire wife) Tiffany Atalla about parenting as a firefighter family and navigating the challenges that come with it. The discussion includes fostering understanding and connection with children, empowering kids to be independent and resilient, and maintaining a united front as parents. Overall, the conversation provides practical tips and insights for effective parenting in the firefighter family. They also touch on the concept of the 'family canoe' and the different roles and dynamics that come into play when a first responder returns home. The conversation highlights the value of affirming and supporting each other as partners and parents, and the importance of seeking help and building a support network. They also discuss the challenges of navigating relationships with non-first responder parent friends and offer insights on finding balance and empathy in those relationships.

Guest Host: Amanda Ellis
Guest Host: Stephanie Kay

Guest: Tiffany Atalla, LMFT of Best Solutions Therapy
Link: Register for Webinar  

Connect with Ventura Fire Foundation on social media: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

Support the show

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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Brian Waters, LA County Fire Department captain and owner of Code 3 Invest, talks with Peter about his journey in real estate investing. They discuss the importance of diversifying income sources, the risks of relying solely on a firefighter's salary, and the benefits of investing in real estate. Brian shares his personal experience with investing in rental properties and explains why he believes it is a more secure and profitable investment strategy. They also touch on the topic of 457 retirement plans and the potential drawbacks of heavily investing in them. Brian discusses the correlation between the fire service and the business world, emphasizing the importance of investing in real estate and starting a business. He explains his current business, which focuses on coaching and mentoring first responders on how to buy rental properties out of state and set up tax structures to save money. Waters and Peter also discuss strategies for reducing W-2 income taxes and the benefits of real estate investing.

Hosts: Capt. Peter McKenzie (ret.)  
Guest: Captain Brian Waters, Los Angeles County Fire Department / Code 3 Invest
Link: Donate a Vehicle
Link: Register for Webinar  

Connect with Ventura Fire Foundation on social media: Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

Support the show

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Listen on the go:
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Spotify: https://spoti.fi/45IIRDl

Watch on Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrNC3faooGcHBr1dHm_FVYBsPQ7XAtBtd

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The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests of the Fire Family Collective Podcast are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of their affiliated fire departments, agencies, employers, the Fire Family Collective, or the Ventura Fire Foundation.

All content shared on this podcast is for informational and personal perspective purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. 

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Copyright of Ventura Fire Foundation 2026.