First tee jitters are a shared experience for golfers at every level, yet many players don’t understand why they happen or how to handle them. In this episode of Links for Life, Tommy Thompson and Joe Wise explore the reality of first tee nerves, why they show up even in casual rounds, and why trying to eliminate them often makes things worse.

Through personal stories—from casual rounds to tournament play—Tommy explains that nerves aren’t something to overcome, but something to play through. He introduces a simple framework centered on acknowledging nerves, slowing the body through intentional breathing, and giving extra attention to the think box before stepping into a normal, unchanged pre-shot routine. The episode emphasizes that managing nerves is about regulating the body, not overthinking the shot, and that first tee shots can actually become some of the best shots of the day when approached with clarity and consistency.

Key Takeaways

• First tee jitters happen to everyone, from beginners to experienced tournament players
• Nerves often come from caring, wanting to do well, or trying to impress others
• Trying to fight or eliminate nerves usually makes them stronger
• Acknowledging nerves helps reduce their power
• The goal is not to remove nerves, but to learn how to play through them
• The think box is where extra time should be spent preparing the body, not overthinking the shot
• Slowing your breathing helps calm tension, regulate tempo, and improve focus
• Once you enter the play box, your pre-shot routine should stay exactly the same
• Rushing to “get it over with” often leads to poor first tee shots
• With proper preparation, first tee shots can be some of the most focused and solid shots of the round

00:00 First Tee Jitters and Why They Happen

02:59 Personal First Tee Stories and Early Golf Experiences

05:50 The Psychology Behind Nerves and Performance

09:12 Learning to Play Through Pressure

12:07 Why You Shouldn’t Fight Nerves

14:53 Breathing Techniques to Calm the Body

17:51 The Think Box and Pre-Shot Preparation

20:50 Why First Tee Shots Can Be Your Best Shots

28:02 Final Thoughts on Managing Nerves and Letting It Fly

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