August 06, 2025

Five Ways Church Members Hold the Church as a Financial Hostage

22 minutes

Do you know any church members who have made demands based upon their financial giving to the church?

Okay, that’s probably a rhetorical question because most of you readers certainly have experienced that discomfort. I asked a number of church leaders to share with me how this “hostage taking” usually takes place. Here are the five most common responses:

“If you don’t do what I want, I will stop giving.”

“You better be careful; I do pay your salary.”

“I am going to give all my money to _____________.”

“Build what I want, or you’re not getting my money.”

“I am starting a designated fund for my project.”

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Chaney & Associates

The Church Advisory Podcast

Upward Sports

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The Hope Initiative

Church Answers Membership

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