From childhood to legacy, each one shapes who you are and who you’re becoming. Skip one, and it will come back to haunt your marriage, parenting, and purpose.What if the man your son becomes, or the man your daughter dates, depends on what you do next?From emotional toddler to wise mentor, each chair shapes your soul, mind, strength, and heart. Jim reminds us that spiritual maturity isn’t accidental—it’s intentional. Fathers, husbands, leaders: it’s time to stop making excuses and start owning your role. Growth requires leaving behind childish thinking and choosing a life built on love, discipline, and strength. It’s not about guilt. It’s about grace, conviction, and stepping into the life Jesus died to make possible—for you, your family, and everyone counting on you.

Three Chairs, spiritual compromise, Christian parenting, legacy, lukewarm faith, men's ministry, discipleship, generational impact, what chair are you really sitting in, and who's watching you?What if your quiet compromises today are shaping your kids' faith tomorrow?This message hits hard because it matters. Jesse walks us through the story of David, Solomon, and Rehoboam, three generations, three chairs, and one undeniable truth: the posture of your faith today becomes your child’s foundation tomorrow. Whether you’re committed, coasting, or checked out, this message holds a mirror to your spiritual life and calls you to something deeper, realer, better.David was committed. Solomon compromised. Rehoboam was complacent. That decline didn’t happen overnight. It started with one generation easing off the gas. Jesse unpacks how “The Three Chairs” explains not just their story, but ours. It’s not about perfection—it’s about the direction you’re leading your life and legacy. And the good news? You don’t have to stay where you are. You get to choose.

What if your family dysfunction isn’t the end of your story, but the beginning of a new legacy?This is a raw and real story about grace, brokenness, and the power of keeping a promise. Teaching from 2 Samuel 9, this message zooms in on the story of Mephibosheth, a forgotten, crippled man hiding in shame, who’s fetched by a king and given a seat at the royal table. It’s not just about a guy in the Bible, it’s about you. It’s about the lies we believe and the truth that sets us free. If you think your past disqualifies you, this one's for you.Mephibosheth was dropped, forgotten, and hiding in Lo-Debar, literally meaning “no pasture.” But King David doesn’t send punishment. He sends grace. He remembers a covenant and pulls Mephibosheth into a new life, a new identity, and a new seat at the table. That’s what Jesus does for us. We come in thinking we’re too broken, bracing for judgment, and we’re met with lovingkindness instead. You’re not a project. You’re not a lost cause. You’re family now.

What do you do when someone wounds you—and you're left with the fallout?Steven Lee shares a raw, personal story of betrayal and loss, wiring nearly all his savings to a scam artist, and how that wound could have shaped his story. But instead of staying stuck in pain or lashing out in revenge, Steven takes us to the cave with David in 1 Samuel 24, where we learn three ways to respond when life wounds us deeply: Resist the Drift, Respond with Honor, and Release the Outcome to God.This message isn’t just about being hurt. It’s about who we’re becoming in the process. Steven walks through the tension of wanting payback vs. choosing restraint, trusting God even when the outcome doesn’t make sense, and how God uses our lowest moments to build something stronger in us. When pain tries to define us, faith gives us a better script. You don’t have to throw the spear.

Ever feel like your life hasn’t turned out the way you hoped?This message is for anyone living under the weight of unmet expectations. Pastor Ben walks through the pain of disappointment when marriage, parenting, health, or faith just doesn’t pan out, and how it slowly chips away at our resolve. Whether you’ve been let down like Samuel or feel like the disappointment yourself, like David, there’s a way forward that doesn’t end in compromise or giving up. This isn’t about pretending you’re okay, it’s about resilience, redemption, and the raw grace of Jesus.When Samuel was grieving and David was dismissed as a nobody, God wasn’t done. He saw their hearts, and that’s still what He sees today. The same God who anointed the runt of the litter to be king and loved a train wreck like David wants to meet you in your mess. Whether you’ve blown it or been broken, you’re not disqualified. You're a perfect setup for grace. Keep showing up. Don’t quit now.

Ever feel like your family's mess disqualifies you from God's best?Carl kicks off House of Dysfunction by owning the chaos in his own family, from plastic-covered couches to Haitian Thanksgiving drama. But it’s not just laughs. He walks us through the messy, powerful story of Rahab, a woman whose past screamed “disqualified” yet whose faith changed everything. This is a message for anyone who feels like their story is too broken, their choices too flawed. Grace lives in the places we least expect—right in the middle of our dysfunction.Rahab’s story is proof: God doesn’t wait for perfection, He looks for surrender. Her scarlet cord wasn’t just a rescue sign, it was a declaration: grace is in this house. If you're tired of being stuck in generational brokenness, Rahab’s faith shows the way out. This is a raw, honest call to stop playing it safe, tie your cord, and step boldly into a better legacy.

This weekend, we wrestled with one of the most human questions imaginable: what will our bodies, minds, and relationships be like in heaven? Jesse and the team got real about scars—both physical and emotional—and how the hope of resurrection gives new meaning to suffering. With stories like Jackson and Glenn’s, we saw how healing in heaven isn't just physical; it’s deeply relational and redemptive. Heaven isn’t about perfection as we define it—it’s about presence. And when we see Jesus, nothing else will matter.Our earthly struggles with comparison, sickness, and even the American dream reveal a deeper longing: to be fully known, fully healed, and fully united with God and others. In heaven, insecurities vanish. Scars from suffering become symbols of glory. We’ll walk free, restored not only in body but in soul, finally able to say to those who loved us: “I saw it all.” And in Jesus’ presence, even our deepest questions will fade into worship.

What if Heaven is better than you ever imagined—so good you don’t even have the words?This week, we explore what the Bible actually says about heaven, not just myths or cartoons, but a place of healing, wholeness, and unimaginable joy. From the scars we carry to the deepest longings we chase, Jesus doesn’t just promise to make things new; He promises to make them better. Jim walks us through our longing for real fulfillment and why the best moments in life are just a shadow of what’s to come.Heaven isn’t a downgrade from Earth; it’s the full upgrade. Think beauty, intimacy, joy, and peace without limits. You’ll be healed. You’ll be whole. You’ll be fully known and loved by the One who made you. Every scar that tells a story of faithfulness won’t be erased—they’ll shine with glory.

In this deeply moving episode, Pastor Jesse continues our series on Heaven — not as a distant theological concept, but as a living hope that shapes how we live today.We explore the reality of eternity, the nature of judgment, and what Scripture says about the current Heaven, the eternal Heaven, and yes — even a bit about Hell. But more than that, we open up about the personal hopes we carry for Heaven, including a powerful reflection on what it means to feel like our loved ones are still with us, just in a different dimension."What I want in Heaven is just to know He saw that... that even though it doesn't feel like we're experiencing it together right now, we are — just in different dimensions."This conversation is a reminder that talking about Heaven isn’t just about the future — it’s about living with intentionand purpose now. Whether it's how we parent, how we love, or how we forgive, eternity shapes today.

What if facing death is the only way to finally live?Most people spend their lives avoiding the thought of dying—but what if that’s where real clarity comes from? In this honest and hope-filled message, we wrestle with the question “What happens when you die?”—through personal story, Jesus’ final moments on the cross, and the raw truth about heaven and hell. This isn’t scare-tactic religion. It’s an invitation to face reality, find purpose, and live fully now.