00:00 Introduction

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Have you ever felt like you need a "permission slip" to try a different creative path, even when you’re already "successful" in another? In this episode, I’m talking with award-winning screenwriter Leslie Rasmussen, who spent years in the high-pressure world of comedy writing for iconic television shows like Roseanne, The Drew Carey Show, and Sweet Valley High before pivoting to her true passion: writing novels.

If you are an exhausted perfectionist who feels stuck in a specific professional lane or fears that your creative spark has a deadline, Leslie’s journey from the TV writer's room to the "Wild West" of fiction will show you how to reclaim your own narrative. Most creative advice tells you to pick a lane and stay there or to follow a rigid corporate productivity system. But on this podcast, we believe in messy, joyful creativity for people who are tired of the pressure to perform. We focus on the life force of your work—not just the output.

Episode breakdown:

0:00 Transitioning from TV scripts to fiction

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In this creative pep talk, I'm sharing a personal confession: I realized I was in the middle of nearly burning myself out because I forgot to let myself have enough fun. We live in a culture that wants us to prioritize working all the time and forget that joy is a necessity, not a luxury. I’m sharing the $0 Joy Gift—the tiny, simple things like a piece of classical music or a laugh over $10 aluminum foil—that can save your soul when you feel your creative spark is being drained dry.

Most burnout advice tells you to "just crush it" or optimize your schedule. But on this channel, we believe in messy, joyful creativity for people who are tired of the pressure to perform.

My Promise to You:

🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ll never tell you that you have to "earn" your joy through high performance.

🤷🏻‍♂️ I won’t ask you to ignore your need for play to fit a rigid corporate system.

😁 I will never treat your need for a creative sanctuary as a failure of discipline.

What we’re exploring in this episode:

✨ The Irony of Burnout: Why it’s so easy to give advice and so hard to remember to take it.

🎶 The $0 Joy Gift: How tiny things—like a piece of music or a laugh over $10 aluminum foil—can save your soul.

🧠 The Aptitude Trap: Why being "analytical" can sometimes lead you down a rabbit hole of exhaustion.

💖 The "Importance" Reframe: A reminder that your creativity matters because you matter.

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Paul Pape is a creative problem navigator, TEDx speaker, and author known as “Santa for Nerds.” Over the past 20 years, he has built a reputation as the specialty artist companies like Disney, Universal, and Nickelodeon call when they need something that doesn’t exist or their internal teams can’t build. Working from his Nebraska studio, Paul creates custom collectibles, props, and prototypes with tight deadlines and exacting standards.

Paul is the creator of Gamify Business and author of The Creative Player’s Handbook to Business, which translates intimidating business concepts into gaming language that creative minds actually understand. Through his books, workshops, and coaching, he helps entrepreneurs build sustainable businesses without sacrificing their creative souls, proving that the “starving artist” stereotype is outdated and unnecessary.

Paul first appeared on Follow Your Curiosity in September 2024, and I invited him to come back to tell us about his new Gamify Business program. Paul talks with me about how he recognized the need for a more creative metaphor for entrepreneurship; the danger of losing touch with your passion as your creative business grows; how the focus on what’s NOT possible, plus the constant need to ask permission—even as a adults—can get in our way, and a whole lot more. If you’ve ever been intimidated by the idea of starting a business, especially as a creative, this episode is for you.

Episode breakdown:

00:00 Introduction.

04:10 Using Dungeons and Dragons to explain creative business roles.

08:18 Leveling up business skills with gaming metaphors.

12:00 Business isn’t selling out; creatives deserve a livable wage.

16:05 Building the book through stories and personal experience.

20:13 Learning entrepreneurship by adapting methods to suit yourself.

24:10 Gatekeeping of business concepts and simplifying with new language.

28:47 Kids embrace entrepreneurship because they haven’t been told no.

32:27 Making a fool of yourself helps growth and confidence.

37:08 Confidence from passion attracts opportunities and like-minded people.

41:57 The tipping point: when passion becomes a draining job.

46:53 Failing is natural; our schooling overemphasizes perfection.

51:25 Coaching, permission, and feeling proud support creative entrepreneurship.

56:29 Rediscovering fun and permission helps creativity thrive.

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“I am here to help people get their power back. I don’t want people’s power.”

Whether you know it or not, you have immense creative and personal power. But in a society that often tries to take that power away—or tells you that you should give your power to a "guru"—it’s easy to feel invisible in your own life.

In this video, I explore why creativity is actually the fastest path back to yourself. While traditional tools in psychology and psychotherapy are valuable for understanding our past, messy and joyful creativity focuses on your aliveness in the present. This channel is a sanctuary for those who want to reclaim their agency without the pressure of productivity or performance.

My Promise to You:

• 🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ll never tell you that you are "broken" or need to be "optimized".

• 🤷🏻‍♂️ I won’t ask you to give your power to a "guru" or follow a rigid system.

• 😁 I will never prioritize a "crush it" mentality over your need for a safe haven.

What we’re exploring in this episode:

• The Power Illusion: Why "power-over" is usually an illusion and how to tap into "power-with" instead.

• The Political is Personal: Navigating a world where authoritarianism and "guru culture" try to claim your agency.

• Creativity as Self-Relationship: Why playing with colors or words is a radical act of reclaiming your own decisions.

• Reclaiming Your Aliveness: How to use your creative power to make a difference in your community.

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Dr. Kelly Flanagan is a clinical psychologist whose writing and speaking have resulted in an appearance on the TODAY Show, as well as features in publications including Reader’s Digest  and Success Magazine. He’s no stranger to Follow Your Curiosity, having been on the show twice before to discuss his first book, Loveable, and his first novel, The Unhiding of Elijah Campbell.

He chose to write his forthcoming non-fiction book with input from his online community, and the result is The Road Less Triggered: Turning Conflict into Connection with a Single Choice, which will be released on March 3.

Kelly talks with me about how he chose to include others in his process and how it influenced the book, why we keep hearing so much about regulating the nervous system, what it means to be open hearted (and how to tell if your heart is closing), and more.

Episode breakdown:

00:00 Introduction.

04:41 Community input shaped the book’s content and direction.

09:35 Feedback engagement valued more than just positive or negative notes.

14:13 Embracing vulnerability and doubt as growth opportunities in writing.

19:22 Walking and voice recording spark creativity and problem-solving.

24:13 Conversation and real-life application deepened the book’s insights.

29:19 Open-heartedness means accepting reality fully, not being a doormat.

34:46 Noticing and reopening a closed heart is a daily practice.

39:46 Nervous system dysregulation is widespread and fueled by social media.

44:30 Catching body’s early warning signs helps stop defensive behavior.

49:59 We intuitively know open versus closed heart through bodily sensations.

54:38 Creativity requires reconnecting with body wisdom and staying open-hearted.

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You don't have to earn your own kindness. This episode is a look at why radical self-compassion is the creative lifestyle shift your exhaustion has been asking for.

If you’ve been treating self care like a "treat" for good behavior rather than a necessity for your wellbeing, you aren't alone and you aren't broken. In this episode, I explore why radical kindness is a vital act of resistance for exhausted perfectionists struggling with the pressure to perform.

Most mental health and self-help advice tells you to "just crush it" or optimize your way out of burnout. But on this podcast, I provide a sanctuary for messy, joyful creativity that focuses on your aliveness, not your productivity.

My Promise to You:

What we’re exploring today:

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Hi, everyone! I've been traveling, so I'm re-upping what's probably my favorite interview of all time (which is saying a LOT). It's a conversation I think a lot of us probably need right now. If you haven't heard it before, you're in for a treat. If you've heard it before, I promise it's worth a second listen. Either way, enjoy!

Original release date: January 31, 2024

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Tim Myers does a bit of everything: he’s a writer, songwriter, storyteller, visual artist, and senior lecturer at Santa Clara University, where he teaches writing. We got together to talk about the nature of creativity, which Tim calls a “sacred mystery,” including everything from the way our childhood creativity is changed by the culture as we become adults, the necessary role of play in the creative process, the transcendent experiences of awe and wonder and how they fuel us, the wisdom of following your gut, and a whole lot more.

Episode breakdown:

01:39 Kids are instantly creative, often play traditionally.

06:50 Creativity influenced by nature, nurture, educators.

15:50 Importance of creativity in education and society.

21:22 Differences between play in childhood versus "professional" adults.

24:56 Nancy switched to teaching, advisor, and writing lit mag.

30:49 Encouraging exploration of language and creative thinking.

37:04 Parents see child, lifetime of giving love.

40:35 Zen story about finding wonder in life.

45:27 Believing in progress through challenging circumstances.

50:34 Art, festivals, play as a primal need.

56:21 Semantic split between "religion" and "spirituality."

01:01:14 Falling in love based on unique personal idiosyncrasies.

01:07:23 Experimenting with writing schedule structure.

01:13:45 Craft is in choosing words for impact.

01:19:22 Writers and feedback.

01:25:00 Tim struggles with generalist vs specialist identity.

01:26:31 Passion for storytelling and visual art emerges.

01:35:38 Weekly writing schedule reduces overthinking and focus on perfection.  

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