Forever Love

Forever Love

By Saphire Lily MtongwizaSociety & CultureRelationships
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Forever Love episodes

  • Just Be Upset About It

    Be angry and do not sin - Ephesians 4:26

    The mental gymnastic we go through to avoid a perfectly healthy normal emotional experience, are endless. But it doesn't have to be that way. In fact, if you will simply allow yourself to feel a negative emotion and be upset you will bounce back to your regular self.


    In today's episode, we're going to talk about the dangers of avoiding negative emotions and what to do instead. If you don't like feeling scared, angry, lonely, sad, or discouraged then this episode is for you!

    Get the full show notes here: 

    https://www.proverbs2426.com/blog/2022-05-070

    37 min
  • Changing Your Mindset

    If you're ready to grow spiritually and emotionally as you pursue your God-given desire for marriage, listen to this!


    If you've been with me for a while, you know that one of my favorite things to do is coach privately. Coaching is my jam and I absolutely adore my clients. I have the honor of witnessing their growth and development and I get to use my superpowers which are 1. Identifying and exposing lies and 2. metaphors. (You'll see what I mean)

    In today's episode, I get to share one of my recent coaching sessions with you. This is so much fun because it was a breakthrough session for my client Debbie in which she understood some key elements in her journey in a whole new way.

    Listen in on our conversation and see what parallels you can draw from your own life.

    For all the details and relevant links from this episode head over to the show notes here:  https://www.proverbs2426.com/blog/2022-04-069 

    1 hr 3 min
  • How do I trust him?

    How do you trust your husband when you're not together?


    In today's episode, I want to share with you how we made the very difficult decision to spend such a significant amount of time on opposite sides of the world. 

    I'll share with you HOW I avoid getting such down the negative vortex of worst-case scenarios, and more importantly, I'll explain WHY I choose to trust him. 

    While I'm definitely doing something that is way outside my comfort zone, it doesn't mean that I'm making myself miserable. In fact, the insights and mindset shifts I'm about to share with you will help you embrace your God-given desires no matter how scary the circumstances might seem.


    I can't say I know what it's like to experience the anguish of being cheated on firsthand, but I can assure you that I have gone there in my mind and I know it's an extremely unpleasant place to be.

    What I do know is this...
    We have a God-given ability to manage our minds and recognize our thoughts for what they are. They're just thoughts. And sometimes they're straight-up wrong.

    That's why I'm so excited to let you into my head as I answer one of the number one questions I've been getting lately. "How do you trust a man when you're apart?"

    For more details, check out the full show notes at Proverbs2426.com 

    51 min
  • Loving More

    Are you afraid of loving harder?


    If so, you're not alone. We all have a tendency to believe that loving more, or loving harder also means that we will increase our experience of pain and heartache. But unlike many, I believe that it's always worth it!

    Today, I am sharing about my latest transition from Africa to Canada and what it means to love someone more when they are far away. I'm going to share with you the love letter I wrote myself on my husband's behalf and why I recommend you try it too.


    This is a personal episode because I miss you and wanted to reconnect and let you know where I'm at now. I hope you can glean some words of wisdom that will serve you on your journey towards forever love.

    I would love to help you achieve your God-given desire for Christ-centered love and marriage. To hire me please go to https://www.proverbs2426.com/private-coaching

    38 min
  • Interracial Relationships

    In this episode, my husband and I discuss the blessings and challenges of interracial relationships.


    We will be answering some questions and hope that our dating and marriage experience will encourage you on your journey. 

    Learn more at www.proverbs2426.com

    47 min
  • Digital Distractions

    I know that’s your dream right, not to use dating apps, but to meet that special someone organically, preferably in church, and to know that God has placed him in your life, right on time.

    But what if your online activities and digital devices are sabotaging your ability to connect and enjoy that serendipitous moment.

    Well, that’s why I want to invite you to join our 31-day dating (without the apps and digital distractions, challenge.


    Join Here>>
    https://www.proverbs2426.com/offers/v54Gmqn2

    31 min
  • Dating (Without The Apps) Challenge

    In this episode, we are addressing some of the problems that can occur in your journey towards marriage when tech becomes an obstacle.


    That's why I am inviting you to join me in March for a 31-day digital detox so that you can show up for relationships and make meaningful connections in the real world.

    Register for the challenge here>>
    https://www.proverbs2426.com/offers/v54Gmqn2

    Let's talk about what happens when we spend 11 hours/ day connected to various screens and why you might be feeling addicted to your phone. These behaviors have an impact on our ability to socialize, sleep, regulate our mood and so much more.

    I would like to offer you an opportunity to take a break from it all and make some important decisions about the role tech plays in your life. Get off the dating apps for a moment and see what happens when you show up for love intentionally and effectively.

    Inside the 31-day challenge, I will be giving you a guided path to manifesting a relationship with clear intentions and Holy Spirit-inspired direction. Plus I will be supporting you with short, daily audio lessons, journal prompts, meditations, and more. It's a beautiful bundle of ways to explore your journey towards love without the interference of notifications, alerts, and more.



    1 hr 4 min
  • Your Best Year Ever!
    What does it mean to have your best year ever?
    For me, it means; experiencing as much growth as possible, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally, and embracing all the discomfort and growing pains along the way.

    In this episode, we are going to explore the topic of letting go of the thoughts that we think sound nice, like "I'm a naturally happy and optimistic person" because they no longer serve you.

    It was my birthday this past Sunday, and I want to share with you my journey over the past 10 years of having a major u-turn, getting sober, and becoming a personal development junkie. 


    I've learned some important lessons, but I still struggle with some heavy stuff. It's important for you to know that in the midst of achieving your dreams you can still experience a nightmare of emotions that scare you so much you will want to run back home and hide under the covers. 

    That's why today we are going to talk about:

    • How to identify thoughts that don't serve you
    • Why some affirmations don't work and what to do instead
    • What my definition of my best year ever looks like
    • Why Walmart is the epitome of my comfort zone
    • And much more!
    • This is a really personal episode and it's hard to share some of this stuff publicly, but I believe that if I am honest about my hardships, it creates more space for you to be honest about yours as well.

      Make sure you subscribe to the Podcast because the next few episodes are going to be epic.

      We are going to talk about committing to dating and taking action whether it's online or in the real world, and I have a very special challenge for you that will help you start seeing some major progress especially if you've been struggling to get the ball rolling. 


      Plus, I will be talking about interracial relationships, this is an episode I will probably invite my husband to join us for, but I would love to start that conversation now. Please join me in our Facebook community and send me a message if you would like to discuss this topic. I've got some funny stories to share and some really helpful insights you won't want to miss.

      Do you want me to personally help you achieve your God-given desire for marriage? 


      If you're ready to take the next step and commit to doing the work as long as it's in alignment with the will of God, I can help you start a healthy relationship, transition through the various phases, and ultimately enjoy a Christ-centered marriage. You can be a Godly wife and I want to help you succeed.

      Book your free coaching consultation to get started >>
      https://www.proverbs2426.com/
      30 min
    • Amplifying Positive Emotions + Bonus Meditation

      This weekend my first client got married! Watching her walk down the aisle and say her wedding vows was so much more emotional than I ever could have anticipated. The emotions were extremely powerful and I knew immediately that I want to create the same result for thousands of other women, and more importantly, that I could.


      In today's episode, I have two very special things to share.

      The first is how to amplify a positive emotion and use it as fuel to co-create your God-given desires.
      The second is a guided meditation from our Free Self Love Challenge.

      If you haven't already joined us for the challenge you can do so here>> https://www.facebook.com/groups/christiancoachingforsinglewomen

      I am so excited to share this episode with you because I know that it will be the boost of motivation and inspiration you need. When you're ready, I would love to welcome you to coach with me and take the same journey towards a Godly marriage. Head over to Proverbs2426.com to book a free coaching consultation today

      https://www.proverbs2426.com/private-coaching

      41 min
    • Planting The Intention To Get Married

      There are only 3 reasons why you’re not already married and in this episode, I am going to share with you what those reasons are and why it’s so important to understand them if you want to honor your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage.


      If you’re anything like me, you probably struggle with holding space in your heart to believe you can achieve something and surrender it to God.

      That’s why it’s important to plant the intention. Make the decision that you’re going to do something and then get out of the way.

      This can be tricky. How do you plan to do something and at the same time, surrender it and get out of the way?

      That’s why in addition to sharing with you the three reasons you’re not on track with where you want to be in your journey towards marriage, I’m also going to show you how to plant the intention that you are going to get married without any of that pushy energy.


      This episode is full of ah-ha moments, so remember, sharing is caring. Forward this to other single Christian women you know who also want to enjoy a healthy Christ-centered marriage with an equally yoked partner. And let’s show the world what Godly love really looks like.

      To book your Free Coaching Consultation go to >>
      https://www.proverbs2426.com/private-coaching

      30 min

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