To assess your own spiritual life, examine the fruits of the Spirit, such as charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, forbearance, gentleness, faith, modesty, self-control, and chastity. These fruits are indicators of the maturity of your faith and relationship with God. Consider how these qualities manifest in your life and how they impact others. Do they flourish abundantly and benefit others in their Christian journey, or do they need nurturing and growth?