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A 50th birthday celebration turns into a full-blown debate about nicknames (when is it time to “just call her Erin”?). We talk big party gratuity etiquette, and debate whether restaurants should clearly say when tip is already included.

We break down USA men’s hockey winning gold in overtime — 46 years after 1980 — and the heartbreak of getting the game spoiled by a text before watching it. Plus, the dream prediction that actually came true.

We talk parenting in the digital age — device boundaries, sleepovers, and standing firm when phones try to sneak back in.

Frankie shares about recent migraines and caffeine triggers, chaperoning Axel’s field trip to the Natural History Museum, and the gratitude of building a life with a normal circadian rhythm after decades of chaos.

Jess shares about hockey mornings at 6 a.m., senior nights at the Mammoth facility, and yes… HomeGoods rankings across the valley.

And we update the effort to gather information for a potential Parkinson’s environmental cluster investigation in Tammy’s old neighborhood — because some things are bigger than us.

It’s funny, reflective, slightly ranty, and very much a “this is our life right now” kind of episode.

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Episode 3 this week — and this one goes deep.

We start with a powerful reframe:

Addiction isn’t weakness. It’s an attempt to self-regulate.

Neurobiology shows addiction mimics emotional connection, romantic love, and bonding.

So, what if addiction is really the desire for connection?

We talk openly about:

Then we shift into something just as powerful:

Love.

Not the roller coaster.

Not chaos disguised as passion.

Not silence that means “brace for impact.”

But nervous-system safe love.

The kind where silence in the car feels peaceful.

The kind where someone stays.

The kind where repair happens.

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This second episode of the week goes everywhere — in the best way.

We start with a powerful conversation about emotional monitoring — what happens when you grow up regulating everyone else’s moods just to survive. We talk nervous system overload, generational trauma, forgiveness, therapy, and how unprocessed emotion can become physical illness.

Then we pivot into something bigger.

Tammy’s Parkinson’s has officially been confirmed as not hereditary, which points to environmental causes. With multiple cases clustered around 4800 West and 3500 South in West Valley, Frankie shares how they’re compiling information to bring to the health department.

And because this is Frankie & Jess…

We also talk about:

• Why so many people still have Christmas lights up

• Minky Couture pillowcases that technically count as décor

• Open mic night in Daybreak (stand-up, banjos, poets, dads being brave)

• A quote about how kids reveal how their parents talk about you

• And the weird smells that transport you straight back to childhood

Sulfur refineries. Wave pools. Detroit highways. Memory is wild.

If you grew up near 4800 W / 3500 S in West Valley and have Parkinson’s — please reach out.

Community matters. Stories matter. Awareness matters.

🎧 Listen now.

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This week’s catch-up episode covers everything — because life doesn’t separate it for you.

While Frankie was in Moab celebrating Tammy’s 54th birthday, a 3.6 earthquake hit West Valley. Jess felt like her house was on a wave machine.

We talk Moab, Dead Horse Point, and the haunting legend behind its name.

Then the tone shifts.

On the drive down, Frankie got the call he knew was coming — his Aunt Pat passed away at 82. We share the hilarious stories (the “blue hands” emergency that was actually wet jeans… the restaurant send-backs… the almost-abduction misunderstanding) and the deeper moments about aging parents, phone buddies, and what it feels like to start losing the people who shaped you.

We also reflect on Jon Absey's funeral — ten years to the day Frankie lost his dad — and how grief seems to stack as you get older.

And then there’s the Savannah case.

The Ring footage delays. The conflicting reports. The blood/no blood confusion. The theories. The questions. The frustration with how long it takes to retrieve critical digital evidence. We talk about how hard it is to know what’s real anymore — and how unsettling it feels when a story just doesn’t add up.

This episode is funny.

It’s heavy.

It’s frustrating.

It’s human.

It’s life happening all at once.

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Some days are still scary.

We didn’t just “walk away” from the machine without fear. We were terrified. And some days we still are. But at some point, you have to go for it anyway.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Leaving corporate security

• Riding the waves of grief and different seasons

• The tension between providing for your family and actually being present

• How ego can disguise itself as “I’m doing this for my family”

• Different forms of compensation that aren’t money

• And why time — not income — might be the real currency

We share how life looks completely different than it did four years ago. The missed games. The early mornings. The stress that quietly crept into relationships. And what it means now to be intentional — especially when health, family, and time feel fragile.

We also talk about:

• The pressure corporations create

• The fear of “launching” kids

• Why time feels like it speeds up

• And a story about someone in his 20s who recognized burnout before it wrecked his life

At some point you have to ask:

How much is enough?

And what are you really doing it for?

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Shara Park spent nearly 18 years at KSL — the station she dreamed of working for since junior high. She thought she’d retire there.

She didn’t.

In this deeply honest conversation, we talk about:

• Being known as “the blonde from Channel 5”

• The 24th of July parade moment when she thought, I made it

• Losing confidence… and finding it again

• The mental fog of morning shows and breaking news

• “Fun Shara” vs. “Working Shara”

• The Walmart gingerbread house moment when she chose herself

• Her daughter’s quiet shift after she stepped away

• And the freedom of being able to say, “Yes, I can braid your hair.”

This conversation isn’t about bitterness.

It’s about breathing again.

It’s about realizing your career is something you did — not who you are.

And it’s about choosing your family when you finally get the chance.

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This episode covers… everything.

We start with what was supposed to be a “quick dog tangent” — which turns into a full breakdown of allergies, senior dog coughs, brand-new furniture rules, and the now-legendary Stupendous couch showdown.

(Christy, you can fast-forward. We’ll let you know when it’s safe.)

Then we shift into life lately:

• A friend who bought the cabin after hearing Frankie say, “It’s an investment in your family.”

• Why sometimes being “broke” means you’re building something meaningful

• Dance class, product launches, hockey moms and elite teams

• Super Bowl gatherings that are more about community than the score

• Frankie’s inner conflict during Utah vs. Detroit

• And why gathering — win or lose — is really the whole point

It’s messy, funny, honest and full of real life.

Thanks for being part of ours.

🎧 New episode of the Frankie & Jess Podcast out now.

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Jon Absey joined the Frankie & Jess Podcast twice, and both conversations are available in their entirety.

🗓️ January–February 2024

Jon’s first appearance was a two-part conversation where he shared his life story, his 25 years as the Utah Jazz Bear, and the personal journey behind one of the most iconic mascots in professional sports.

🗓️ May 2025

Jon returned for an incredibly honest and moving conversation, opening up about his cancer diagnosis, how he was facing it, and what life looked like in that moment.

All episodes can be found in full on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

We’re grateful to have shared these moments with Jon Absey, the forever bear of the Utah Jazz.

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In this episode of the Frankie & Jess Podcast, we welcome Ed Harrold—breath coach, author, and creator of Breath AS Medicine—for a conversation that unfolds slowly, intentionally, and right where it needs to.

Ed shares his journey from growing up on the East Coast to eventually finding his way to Utah, drawn by space, nature, and the ability to finally breathe—literally and mentally. What began as a love for movement and athletic training eventually led him to a deeper realization: slowing down the body and breath unlocked something far more powerful than pushing harder ever did.

We talk about rock bottom as a starting point, ego and competitiveness, sensitivity as a strength, and how breath became the shortcut that helped Ed rebuild his life. He breaks down the science behind breathing—why mouth breathing signals panic to the brain, how nasal breathing calms the nervous system, and why the speed of your breath often mirrors the speed of your thoughts.

Ed also explains the difference between stress-based breathing practices like Wim Hof and more functional, everyday breathwork you can actually use in real life—at work, in traffic, or standing in line. We dive into brainwave states, the role of the lungs in regulating emotion, why slowing your inhale can help you become the “CEO of yourself,” and how simple awareness can shift how you show up in the world.

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This episode is part science, part story, and part reminder that maybe what we’re all really searching for… is space to breathe.

Take a breath—and listen.

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We begin by honoring and remembering their dear friend Jon Absey, the original Utah Jazz Bear, who passed away peacefully in his sleep after battling pancreatic cancer. Jon was only 58 years old, and to know him was to love him. He was one of the kindest, most selfless people you could ever meet, and his impact on this community runs deep. We reflect on who Jon was, the love he gave so freely, and the sadness of losing someone far too soon.

From there, the conversation turns personal as we talk about tattoos—why Jess has several, why Frankie only has two, and the deeper meanings behind each one.

We also discuss the concerning and ongoing situation involving Savannah Guthrie’s mother, Nancy Guthrie, who has gone missing in Tucson, Arizona. At 84 years old and of sound mind, the circumstances surrounding her disappearance are troubling, especially as her home has become a crime scene. We talk through what’s known so far and why it’s weighing so heavily on so many people following the story.

And yes—we also touch on some lighter moments, including thoughts on the Grammys, because sometimes that’s how real conversations go: grief, concern, reflection, and moments of pop culture all living in the same space.

🤍 For Jon. Always loved. Always remembered.

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