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The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully.

Today’s question is: “I really don’t know how to ask this - but I don’t know how to connect with my kids. I’m barely ever with them because of my long work hours. Besides asking them how they’re doing, and checking to see how they’re doing in school, I really don’t know what to talk with them about, or to play with them. Any help you can provide would be appreciated.”

Visit freetobemindful.com/podcast/135  to listen to the entire episode - quick, short and to the point… perfect for busy parents! Or you can check out the video on my YouTube channel!

Referenced Video: freetobemindful.com/podcast/131



Hope this helps! If you have any questions for the Consult a Counselor series, you can email me at [email protected] or DM me.

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As children we engage in endless amounts of play. Somewhere along the way we trade in our words for the language of play, and consequently lose in the benefits that play can bring into our lives. 

This episode shares the various forms of adult play, the physical and emotional benefits of play as adults, and some ways to integrate play in our everyday lives. 

Tune into this podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman for this real-talk conversation on platonic relationships, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

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I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully.

Today’s question is: “My high excelling middle schooler scored in the 70s on a test so as a consequence I took the phone away, because I know “Tik Tok is life.” Now of course she hates me. Is this the right thing to do?”

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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Love languages are a fantastic tool for communication, and by understanding them, we can nourish our relationships with the people we “do” life with.


This special guest episode explores what the five love languages are, and demonstrates how they play into our relationships. By being mindful and intentional with our time, energy, and ways we show gratitude, we can create positive, safe spaces for the relationships in our lives to flourish.

Tune into this podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and special guest and educator Vanessa Paula for this real-talk conversation on ways to incorporate love languages as a communication tool, practice mindful living for our self-care, and a short meditation at the end.

Ep122: Understanding the 5 Love Languages
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast/122

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I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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DISCLAIMER
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully.

Today’s question is: "How do you get a quiet/shy child to open up more? I ask my son about his day and it's crickets!"

Have a question for the Consult a Counselor Series? Email at [email protected].

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Upcoming Social Skills Group for New Jersey residents!

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“Tools to Help Kids Navigate Mistreatment”
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“Talking to Your Kids Without Losing Your Cool Guide” https://www.freetobemindful.com/talkingtokids

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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Navigating friendships as an adult can present challenges. Whether we have varying identities and interests or are in different phases in life, it’s essential to take a step back to reflect on what our friendships mean to us, and how we can create a healthy space for them alongside our other priorities.

This episode dives into ways we can show gratitude toward our loved ones, make time for the relationships in our life, and exercise flexibility for our social connections, whether they’re old or new.

Tune into this podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman for this real-talk conversation on platonic relationships, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

Referenced Podcast Episodes:
Middle School Drama
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast/129

Understanding the 5 Love Languages
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast/122

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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DISCLAIMER
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully.

Today's question is: "This middle school drama has me nuts. My daughter’s circle of friends always has some drama happening, and somehow, she’s always at the center of it. What can I do to help?"

Have a question for the Consult a Counselor Series? Email at [email protected].

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💚 Coaching & Community for Latinx Therapists: https://www.latinxpracticecollective.com

 🛍️ Shop My Favorites: https://shopmy.us/shop/counselorvdejesus


ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL
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Struggling with the balancing act of high expectations?

When we set high expectations for ourselves, we also need to incorporate healthy boundaries and mindsets. This episode shares tips to help us create a work-life balance to manage our personal growth, find areas of improvement in a positive means, and embrace forgiveness and letting go.

Tune into this podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman for this real-talk conversation on self-care, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

You're invited to the Amiga Moms [Virtual] Mindful Meetup on Tuesday, January  24th at 8:30PM EST, open to all 21st Century Moms. Spots are limited - register today!
https://www.freetobemindful.com/amigamoms-events

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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DISCLAIMER
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully.

Today’s question is: “How I wish my kid could set a new year resolution to stop whining and actually clean her room! LOL”

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

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The New Year typically brings upon the want or need to make some changes. However, there are important things to consider before implementing any change, if we are to be successful. This episode shares tips to help us prioritize our focus for the new year, in hopes to reach our goals.

Join in for this real-talk conversation on personal growth, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

Read my 2022 Year in Review Here!

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ABOUT ME
I'm Vanessa, the therapist who helps high-achieving adults become the best version of themselves, not just at work, but in the rooms that matter most. I host the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, named the #1 Latino Mental Health Podcast in 2026 by Feedspot. 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL
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DISCLAIMER
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