Narcissists typically avoid, deflect, or deny accountability to protect a fragile ego and maintain control, often viewing responsibility as a threat that triggers extreme shame or guilt.

They commonly use tactics like gaslighting, blame-shifting, rewriting history, and DARVO.

(Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender)

All to avoid accountability and consequences.

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Never use death as a excuse to cover lying to a customer.

This really applies to any professional, business or personal relationship.

Using a sensitive subject like death to cover up a lie is generally considered a severe breach of trust... integrity. Especially if you are a business/owner.

Instead...*Be honest*

Express transparency over excuses for lying.

Spending quality time is important for both of us. The simple things in life, happy memories👇❤️

Effects of cancer, that literally robs you of calories and a body you once knew. I generally wear loose clothes now to help hide the continued weight loss, cachexia👇😶

Yes, taking my time a second-time-around with a new bank. Safely, anyone can assume, that I learned my fair share (lessons)... the first time around.

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Trust in banks and realtors is strained in 2026 due to high affordability walls (price-to-income ratios at record high) and a payment shock from 6%+ mortgage rates.

Banks face fragile trust due to increased cyber threats, AI-driven fraud, and ongoing bank mergers, while realtors navigate a slow-moving market with tight supply and high demand.

Everyone is out looking for the best interest of 1 person...

Themselves.

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Parents who engaged in gross negligence, failing to care for their children during sickness in infancy or adulthood, often continue to absent themselves when those children are sick as adults, sometimes driven by guilt, shame, or an ingrained pattern of avoidance.

Research suggests that this behavior is not necessarily a sudden realization of guilt, but often a continuation of neglectful or uninvolved parenting styles (also known as apathetic or detached parenting) where the parent prioritizes their own comfort over the child's needs. 

Parents who neglected their children may feel deep shame or guilt when faced with the consequences of their actions (i.e., their sick adult child), leading to avoidance as a way to manage their own emotional discomfort.

Neglectful parents often lack emotional involvement and empathy, treating children as a "burden" rather than a responsibility. If they failed to respond to the child's needs in the past, they are unlikely to develop that capacity later, especially during taxing events.

Neglectful parents frequently come from families where they were neglected themselves, often lacking the tools to provide care, or they may be emotionally "blind" to the needs of others.

These parents may "numb" themselves or use detachment as a survival mechanism, preferring to stay away rather than confront the reality of their child’s vulnerability, which may make them feel inadequate or unloving.

Neglectful, sometimes called "narcissistic" or self-absorbed, parents often prioritize their own needs and view caring for a sick adult child as a stressful, unwanted imposition.

Adults raised in these environments often learn to rely only on themselves and may struggle with the "resentful love" dynamic, where they crave care from their parent while simultaneously experiencing the pain of abandonment.

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This was left, intentionally👇

By the same stranger who lived like this, because I got tired of the non-stop verbally blatant disrespect👇

He felt by living in his car... he would not have to be responsible for attending to a house. Hey! His words not mine. Then, he realized it's not such a great life, when you turn around and not take care of your car. Then, it literally dies on you. Last time I checked, a car needs to run on oil.. tune-ups and some TLC.

When you tell me stories, years ago... that make no sense. I remember every single word, because they made no sense. Then, you tell me the real version of what happened. By doing so this week... you freely gave me closure, clarity and that undeniable sense of, indifference. 

Eventually, when someone literally calls themselves out for using you. All for convenience, a want and need. When I took being married, seriously. It's no wonder you preach to me and others. "It wasn't a marriage." 

That's only because you never treated it like one... nor your prior marriage. Instead, all you did was use women at your disposal. We weren't the only ones... there were others.

Your lies are about as fake, and inconsistent as your so-called, apologies. How does one apologize... then repeat the same narcissistic charmer/Peter Pan behavior over and over and over and over again?. There is ZERO sincerity, and ZERO believability.

Let's talk about, abandonment. You abandoned the marriage so many times over the years. I lost track. You also abandoned the animals, in time of need and also someone else. Knowing I was working on abandonment in order to emotionally heal from my past. Abandonment. To do so, made you one of the cruelest individuals I have ever known. Actually, you are. 

Maybe when karma and the universe collide. YOU will find Big Bertha. One just never knows. However, I am confident that a few of us women sure DO hope so!.

No folks... the attorney wasn't wrong. They are 1,000,000,000 right! 

You will never, EVER be friends with your ex. They are an ex for a reason. Because you took a relationship, marriage seriously. And in turn, they took it and you... as a joke.

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Will need to get current photos/front of property as well... however, you get the point, photos taken back of property last month👇 

New roof/fire engine red🔥👇

Now... for what it looked like BEFORE all the repairs, remodeling and EVERYTHING ELSE in between👇

A new photo, without a mailbox surfaced a year ago. The garage door got replaced from this prior photo as well rest of large picture windows👇

1028 days is most definitely not less than a year. Finding the correct history on the property explains, alot👇

My pre-qual expires this weekend... although I have yet to be under contract. I have ACED knowledge of the real estate market! My credit score also took a nice leap!!👇

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*Podcast correction-"My" father was in the military... not Eric's

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homes.com 

👆the biggest nightmare for any realtors... designed for "buyers"...

Motto:

"We've Done Your Homework"

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Signs an ex- is sabotaging a home from being placed for sale include:

-Intentionally making the house dirty when stopping by

-Creating extra work for you

-Giving unreasonable excuses for not carrying their weight

-Causing damage to the house

-Delays on any repairs or repairs with contractors

-Sleeping during hours that require sunlight for exterior work to the house

These behaviors are often intended to delay, punish, or avoid the home from selling.

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I'd much rather wait to celebrate any holiday... when the vibes are positive!

🐣And...🐰

The mood is cheerful & light!

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Both products in reference to this podcast episode👍👍👇

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Once you listen to the podcast. These photos will make sense👇

👆This is what is left of both the website and 2 blogs... over 20+ years of my life.

I didn't get a chance to save 1 thing.

The company instead... only left a quick message on only "their" company site. A mere 3-hours, then "quickly" took it down.

No one, of over 21 million website owners, even had time to blink!. Whether alone, no one even got an email or letter of notice in the mail.

Faith in mankind... you figure that one out.

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