What happens when the life you're living starts pulling you further from the man you want to be? In this powerful episode of The Climb, host Teko Bailey sits down with Tom Schweihofer—a German civil engineer, father, and mentor—who courageously shares his journey through addiction, shame, and spiritual awakening.

Tom opens up about falling into pornography after marriage, the emotional toll it took on his identity and marriage, and the pivotal moment he confessed his struggle to a brotherhood of men and then to his wife. Through brutal honesty, faith, and community, Tom began to reclaim the man he was always meant to be. This episode is a call to every man stuck in the valley: you don’t have to climb alone.

If you're facing hidden battles, wrestling with shame, or seeking restoration, this conversation will meet you in the fight—and help you take the next step up the mountain.

About Tom Schweihofer

Tom Schweihofer is a civil engineer, mentor, and outdoor enthusiast based in southern Germany near Lake Constance. After years of balancing professional work with inner struggles, he now splits his time between engineering and helping men reconnect with purpose, community, and faith. His story is one of radical honesty, intentional healing, and the power of brotherhood.

About Teko Bailey

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and guide for men walking the path of faith and purpose. Through The Climb, he’s building a brotherhood of men committed to living fully, leading boldly, and climbing with intention.

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