"Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor." (Romans 12:10, ESV)

Perhaps because this is the holiday season, I am more intentional about staying in touch with friends, both far and near. I think of friendship as a gift from God and cannot imagine a life without friends.

A small group of church friends started what has become an annual tradition. Before Christmas we make plans to get together. We call it a party, but it's nothing fancy and there's no real agenda. It is simply a time of fellowship and friendship. The food is whatever each chooses to bring. For a couple of hours we snack, talk, and share what's happening in our lives. I've noticed that no cell phones are visible. There's no texting or scrolling. We take time to listen to each other without distractions. It's a simple, enjoyable, relaxing evening.

Simple Times Together

Because of busy lifestyles and perhaps a limited budget, it's easy to feel we do not have the time or the money to invite others into our home. Or we feel self-conscious that our home just isn't "nice enough" to entertain others. Yet, a relaxed, low-key time together appeals to most people. Some of the best times together may mean nothing more than having a Coke and cookies or chips on a paper plate along with a good conversation.

It's the fellowship and sharing, not fancy foods and table settings, that makes the time together enjoyable. If we wait until everything is picture-perfect, it probably won't happen.

Fellowship in the Body of Christ

Friendships within the body of Christ are uniquely special. Acts 4:32 describes the early church as being "of one heart and of one soul." They shared a special bond of unity that is not experienced in other relationships outside the church.

In addition to other qualities of friendship, we feel a spiritual bond that deepens the relationship. This person cares for our soul. They love God just as we do. They pray for us and with us. We can trust that their counsel will be based on principles found in God's Word. When we are discouraged, their faith lifts us up. We become each other's support system, something vitally needed when we go through trials and difficulties.

Simple Times of Fellowship

During this holiday season, let's consider ways to open our hearts and homes to someone new. Allow God to direct us to someone outside our usual circle of friends, someone who may be unable to reciprocate our hospitality.

There are numerous ways to include others in our lives. Here are just a few simple (and inexpensive) ways to show someone you care.

Invite someone you would like to know better to meet you for coffee.

Take cookies or another small gift to a shut-in, a single parent, or lonely senior.

Invite someone new at church to go out to eat after service.

Invite a neighbor to take a walk with you or to come over for coffee.

Invite someone to join you in a fun activity or hobby you enjoy.

Hospitality is more than welcoming others to our home. It is when we open our hearts and show them love. There are so many lonely people around us. Ask God to direct you to someone who needs your friendship today. You will both be blessed.

Devotion by Mary Loudermilk