Every Manโ€™s Battle Podcast

From Beating Yourself Up to Befriending Your Younger Self: Practical Tools for Real Change


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๐Ÿ“ป ๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃโ€™๐™จ ๐˜ฝ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™ก๐™š ๐™‹๐™ค๐™™๐™˜๐™–๐™จ๐™ฉ โ€“ ๐„๐ฉ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ž ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“ ๐’๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ๐“๐„๐’In Part 2 of the Key Elements of Transformation series, licensed counselors JJ West and Doug Barnes draw on Gabor Matรฉโ€™s insight that the real question is not โ€œWhy the addiction?โ€ but โ€œWhy the pain?โ€ They show how sexual acting out is a flawed attempt to soothe unaddressed childhood wounds, and they model a compassionate, curious way of revisiting those stories instead of piling on more shame.Youโ€™ll learn:Why slowing down, journaling, and tracing your last relapse backward in time helps identify emotions, thoughts, and needs that drove the behavior.How JJโ€™s and Dougโ€™s own stories of public shame and insignificance still echo in adulthoodโ€”and how compassionate reโ€‘parenting of their younger selves changes their responses today.Practical first steps for processing acting out (journaling, naming needs, seeking legitimate ways to meet them) and why doing this work in communityโ€”through groups like Sustained Victory and other menโ€™s sexual integrity meetingsโ€”is essential for lasting transformation.๐ŸŽŸ Use code ๐„๐Œ๐๐๐Ž๐ƒ to save $100 when you register for the Every Manโ€™s Battle Intensive, and ask about scholarships so finances donโ€™t keep you from the help you need.๐Ÿ“ง ๐๐Ž๐๐”๐’ ๐‚๐Ž๐๐“๐„๐๐“ ๐…๐ŽR EMAIL ๐’๐”๐๐’๐‚๐‘๐ˆ๐๐„๐‘๐’Want extra content to encourage your integrity, delivered via email each month? ๐Ÿ‘‰ Email [email protected] with โ€œBonus Contentโ€ in the subject line to receive exclusive Every Manโ€™s Battle Podcast resources.โ€‹Have questions or feedback, or want JJ and Doug to address your specific struggle in a future episode?๐Ÿ‘‰ Email [email protected] with โ€œPodcast Questionโ€ in the subject line.โ˜Ž๏ธ Need prayer, a counselor, or help finding a group?๐Ÿ‘‰ Call 800โ€‘NEWโ€‘LIFE or visit NewLife.com for counseling, groups, and faithโ€‘based sexual integrity resources.๐ŸŽŸ ๐’๐๐„๐‚๐ˆ๐€๐‹ ๐Ž๐…๐…๐„๐‘ โ€“ ๐„๐•๐„๐‘๐˜ ๐Œ๐€๐โ€™๐’ ๐๐€๐“๐“๐‹๐„ ๐ˆ๐๐“๐„๐๐’๐ˆ๐•๐„ ๐Œ๐„๐โ€™๐’ ๐†๐‘๐Ž๐”๐๐’If youโ€™re tired of beating yourself up after each relapse and ready to learn why you keep going back, the Every Manโ€™s Battle Intensive is a crucial next step. This 3โ€‘day, inโ€‘person workshop combines teaching, story work, smallโ€‘group interaction, and practical tools so men can address both behaviors and the pain beneath them.After the weekend, Sustained Victory and other New Life menโ€™s sexual integrity groups offer the ongoing support, accountability, and compassionate community needed to keep processing wounds, needs, and triggers in real time.๐Ÿ’ต Concerned about cost? Scholarships are available because New Life does not want finances to be the reason you stay stuck. When you call 800โ€‘NEWโ€‘LIFE, ask about assistance for Every Manโ€™s Battle and ongoing groups.Use code ๐„๐Œ๐๐๐Ž๐ƒ when you register to save $100 on your Every Manโ€™s Battle registration.๐ŸŽง Discover more ways to listen watch:๐Ÿ‘‰ Every Manโ€™s Battle Podcast hub: https://newlife.com/podcasts/every-mans-battle/๐Ÿ‘‰ New Life LIVE other podcasts: https://newlife.com/podcasts/#EveryMansBattle #SexualIntegrity #Transformation #GaborMate #ChildhoodWounds #CompassionateInquiry #Journaling #SustainedVictory #NewLifeMinistries
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