From Martyr to Magic

From Martyr to Magic

By Shannon CairneyParentingKids & Family
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From Martyr to Magic episodes

  • EP.27 Why Moms need hobbies - navigating life as a new mom, finding your joy, and riding dirt bikes with Angelisa Edwards from Braap Babes

    Hi - and welcome to today's episode. I'm so excited to have this amazing human and one of my best friends on the show today, Angelisa Edwards from Braap Babes. She has been with me from almost the start of raising kids as well as my motorsports journey. Trying out new hobbies, getting into motorsports (sledding and dirtbiking),  figuring out who we are after having kids, and having a whole heck of a lot of fun while doing it. Life is never boring with Ange.

    Angelisa comes from a snowboard background which she talks about. And transferred her love and passion into sledding and now adding dirt biking as well. After finding a severe lack of inspiration and women riders to sled with, she created her community Braap Babes to help build a support network of women to ride with. She has now expanded into dirt biking as well. Creating fun, community and encouragement.


    She talks about her passion for the sports and community. How motherhood affected her and how she started to bring joy back into her life. Tips and tricks to balancing family and your hobbies.  And dont' forget she also has a podcast - Braap Babes Throttle talks (I will also link below) I'm going to listen to her Vision Journal & goal setting one shortly. CHECK IT OUT!


    She is inspiration and and OG badass. Check her out below and I hope you enjoy todays podcast. Let me know your feedback on IG @frommartyrtomagic


    And check Angelisa out on all of the below:

    IG - @angelisaedwards

    IG - @braapbabes_official

    YOUTUBE - Angelisa Edwards

    Tik Tok - @angelisaedwards

    Podcast - Braap Babes -Throttle Talks

    Other women she shouted out:

    @crystallovesmoto

    @megsbraap

    @stephsweezy

    1 hr
  • EP.26 New Year Resolutions. You set the goal, now what?
    Well this is 2/52 for my goal of podcasting once a week for 2023. And what this weeks episode is all about. You set the goal. It felt magical. Now what? Now it’s the boring, the tasks. The “I don’t feel like it now”. How can we motivate ourselves but also be kind to ourselves? It’s a marathon, not a sprint and we’ve got all year. Find me on IG @frommartyrtomagic and let’s continue the conversation. I would love to hear what you think. Xo Shannon
    11 min
  • EP. 25 Happy New Year, Happy 2023, goals and reflections
    Hi beauties, just short and sweet today. Wishing you all an amazing start to the NEW Year. Please let me know what topics and or and interview requests as I start to plan out the year. Also what are your goals for 2023? Let me know. Keep the conversation going on IG @frommartyrtomagic and I’ll talk to you soon xoxo Shannon
    12 min
  • EP.24 My wish for you.

    Hi Beauties,

    It has been awhile. I hope you have been enjoying your summer. I was going through a bunch of recordings from the last year or two and decided to post a few of these episodes as a part of a summer series.

    I hope you have been soaking up this summer energy. I have been in major chill mode. I'm calling it "BE HERE NOW" summer. Just going with the flow. And just in the last day or two have felt creative or like creating content or episodes again. So I roll with it with little to no pressure.

    Would love to hear what you think about this episode.

    And look out for a rebrand coming SOON. I need to update my intro, as I'm now @frommartyrtomagic on IG - and have changed the vibe quite a bit.

    So keep your eyes peeled.

    So much love,

    xo Shannon

    9 min
  • EP.23 Journal your heart out, how writing it all down can be the key to unlocking it all

    Hello beauties. Today I'm talking about one of my most favourite things in the whole world. Journaling. It might seem like something you did as teenager (dear diary, . . .) and not a thing you have time for as an adult but I honestly think this can be the key to unlocking so much.

    Journaling is having a conversation with yourself. Asking yourself questions, writing down your thoughts or just free writing with no intention other than to just get things out and see what lands on the page. You might surprise yourself.

    Free writing - can be a really simple way to get things out and get out of your own way. To stop filtering and just write. Set a timer for 10, 20 minutes and don't let your pen leave the page. Write whatever nonsense comes out. Just write. Shoe, blue, poo whatever comes up and you'll notice after awhile it will probably start to flow.

    Be unabashed.  Permission to rip or burn the pages or hide your journal someplace safe. You want this to be a place where you ACTUALLY write out your true feelings not filter incase someone else reads it. THIS IS KEY. We need to get to know what we are truly feeling and thinking. Not what we feel is appropriate. This is a way to truly get to know yourself again. SO BE HONEST> Let her rip. Permission to say the things. and burn after if needed. You aren't married to what you right. Maybe it's not even entirely true. Maybe you just felt that in the moment, but do you see what I mean? You get a glimpse into some things you might not even be aware of. That this or that were making you feel a certain way. That you were anxious or jealous because of something that keeps happening. That you feel weird around a certain person. Anywho the options are endless but the point is that it might sound like nonsense or your average complaints and then something comes out that you were not aware of. It's a great way to process your thoughts. 

    If you don't like the open ended free write - ask yourself some questions. How do I feel today? What's going on for me right now? What has been bothering me? Whatever feels like a juicy question to answer. Lean into that.

    Grab a beautiful journal if that helps you want to write. I love the dollar store journal because I write a lot and like to fill them up quickly. Grab a pen that feels good. I love bright colours and smooth flowing ink. 

    And put on some meditation or binaural beats if that feels good.

    This is a practice, not a one and done. Maybe set up a point to write once a week if you are new to it. 

    I find the more I Journal, the more I crave to write when things are going on for me. My one true confident.

    Would love to know what you think!

    Feedback, questions, future podcast suggestions as always reach out on IG @xo.shannonmargaret

    And your shares, likes, subscribes & reviews of the podcast mean the world to me.

    So much love and a lot of writing xoxox Shannon

    17 min
  • EP.22 Your personal STYLE, trying something new

    Welcome back. Happy 2022!!

    I thought I would chat today on something a bit lighter. Personal style. And although this might seem not as important as healing, and goals or things like that. I would beg to differ. I have really embraced my boujee libra roots and accepted and honoured that my style, what I'm wearing, how my house looks affects me on a deeper level. And I'm going to throw it out there that it's probably affecting you too.

    Now this isn't to say that we have to spend a ton or money or any money at all. And I will get into that today on tips and ways to create this without spending, because their are lots.  But just really diving into, how are you showing up. How are you presenting yourself? And mostly for the sole reason of how it makes you feel. I think this is way more important than how others look at you. We need to start with ourselves. If you are wanting to make more money, get a new job, start dating or have your husband desire you more. Treat you like a queen. Well. . . we need to start showing up as that person. 

    And what better way than to dress the part.  Think about it, in movies - if actors didn't dress as the character they were playing, think how less affective that would be. Yet. . I feel like we put it off as selfish, indulgent for ourselves to look and feel good. 

    So where are you not showing up, dressing as the part you are wanting to play?

    If you want to make more money, dress like a boss (not a power suit) but what makes you FEEL like a boss. Like someone who makes amazing money. If you want to be ravished, noticed, adored by your husband. Start dressing in what makes you feel sexy. Start radiating that energy. Giving off those vibes. (again, doesn't need to be scandalous, just a piece of clothing that feels sexy to you, that you feel sexy in)

    And this can carry through to your house too. How does your house make you feel? When you walk in. Does it feel like the house of someone who ___________ (insert your desired feeling).  And it can start with decluttering. Getting rid of things that don't feel aligned. Cleaning. Rearranging.  Thrifting. Again - get creative. This doesn't have to cost money. But also permission if you do want to buy something new.

    Would LOVE to know what you think. Does this resonate? Do you struggle with this? Or does it come easy?

    Where is one area that you could step in up in? Are you intimidated by style or fashion, makeup or beauty?

    @charlygoss is the Calgary stylist I mentioned to does cost effective monthly style outs you can purchase.

    Let me know - DM over @xo.shannonmargaret to continue the conversation.

    And as always - please rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast. 

    Share with a friend if it resonated. And let me know what else you would like to see on here.

    Xo Shannon


    20 min
  • EP.21 Be kind to yourself, Celebrate all that this year has brought and looking towards 2022
    I want to be your #1 HYPE woman and just remind you of how AMAZING you are. To help you look back over this last year and see all that you’ve accomplished, gone through and lessons learned. Don’t forget to CELEBRATE it all. And mostly be kind to yourself. It starts and ends with you. Be kind. Show yourself some love & gratitude. And if you can pay some forward too. I hope you have an amazing end of the year. Thank you so much for following along. Let me know any feedback or episode/guest requests for 2022 & wishing you all the best you magnificent human you!! xo Shannon https://www.instagram.com/xo.shannonmargaret/?hl=en
    12 min
  • EP.20 Mental Health, Postpartum depression, Motherhood and healing with Emma Heukelom
    Trigger warning. Mental health:
    Depression, Postpartum depression (PPD), anxiety, eating disorder, suicide, self harming.
    Join Emma and myself on a very candid, very real conversation on motherhood and mental health. On the things that aren’t always spoken about. And Emma’s particular journey, through mental health as a teenager and then how it came back again through motherhood.
    Emma is warm, kind, fun, open & an intuitive human. A nurse, reiki practitioner & mother of 2 daughters. Emma helps to normalize the conversation and also give us practical tools on what has helped her. Including a self reiki practice that you can do a home.
    Follow Emma @the.oilynurse
    Book mentioned is Energy Medicine by Jill Blakeway
    She is also booking in person and virtual appointments- if you are interested in reiki or want to learn more. Definitely reach out to her.
    Her medical/research background as a nurse, gives her such a great understanding to energy work and helps make it easy to understand and practical while also being open to it all, and knowing some of it just is because this universe is a powerful being.
    Feel free to reach out to Emma or myself with feedback, comments etc. We love to hear what you think.
    And if you liked todays episode - don't forget to share it with a friend, on social and like/review on ITUNES.
    You are the bees knees.
    xo Shannon @xo.shannonmargaret
    1 hr 46 min
  • EP.19 From the Brink of divorce, and back. Part 1 of my relationship story on how we saved our marriage. And learned to love ourselves again.

    Hi! You guys the podcast is BACK! The start of season 2.  I have some super exciting rebranding in the near future.

    But today's episode is something very near and dear to my heart.  I share how I struggled in my marriage after having kids. How I felt stuck. Lost. Didn't know who my husband was or where that guy that I fell in love with went. It was hard and I struggled to get back. And most of all, I felt so lonely in this process. So if this can help anyone then my work is done. Whether you are meant to stay together or move apart. I promise you - as cliché as it sounds, working on yourself really will be the game changer and the thing you get to take with you forward no matter what.

    I would love to know what you think. What your experience has been. Was this helpful? What are you still struggling with? Connect with me over on IG @xo.shannonmargaret   

    And Part 2 - will be following where I invite for the first time, my hubby, Lee - on the podcast. Scary. And vulnerable, but mostly exciting. It's always nice to get both points of view.

    BIG love always,

    xo Shannon


    1 hr 16 min
  • EP.18 Female pleasure, empowerment & how to have the SEX you want with Melissa B

    Welcome to today's show.

    I can't wait for you to dive in.  Melissa is a women's sensual empowerment mentor and really just wants to help everyone improve their sex lives,  increase their pleasure and normalize erotic conversation.

    I don't know about you but I think most of us could use a little or a lot of this.

    Her warm and easy going nature (and great laugh) help women have these sometime hard or stigmatized conversations and she backs everything with her wealth of knowledge and personal embodiment.

    You can find Melissa on IG @uninhibited.woman

    Her blog - with more in depth knowledge, conversations and product reviews https://awomanoffireandwater.space/

    Please like, share, review the podcast as always!!

    And send me any feedback, requests or anything else. Always love to hear IG @xo.shannonmargaret

    Xo Shannon


    56 min

About From Martyr to Magic

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A place for conversations to help us navigate life so we feel a little less alone, and of course, remind us to drop the Martyrdom and step back into our MAGIC. I'm a mother, a creative, a serial entrepreneur. I thrive on connection, growth and a good ole soul chat. Welcome to the show and hope you enjoy it.