All right, back at it. We’re talking about transformation; coming out of falsehood, lies, and everything connected to them; into walking in truth, living in truth, embodying truth, and becoming the most authentic, real version of yourself.
To do this, we must confront what is false with honesty. That means we must stop lying and recognize the areas where the flesh still reigns in our lives. Before going further, let me define what I mean by flesh. It’s a biblical term, not one you’ll often find in psychology. In psychology, you might see parallels with “false self” or “old self.” Paul speaks of this when he tells us to put off the old self and put on the new.
The flesh, then, is our fearful, inherent nature; what Scripture sometimes calls iniquities; things passed down generationally. Even modern brain science confirms trauma and pain ripple across generations, influencing families for at least a hundred years. So, the flesh is the fear-based inheritance we all share, which is why Scripture declares that all men are liars, just as it says all have sinned.
The second aspect of the flesh is conditioning. We are raised by people operating out of their own false selves, and we absorb their coping strategies. These condition us with behaviors that often cause pain. So, the flesh is both nature and nurture, and transformation requires confronting both.
Paul points this out when addressing the early churches. He observed divisions, strife, and lack of love, calling these symptoms of carnality. He asked, “Are you not carnal and walking as mere men?” His gospel was about union with divine life, transcending fleshly immaturity to walk in love. Yet the believers he addressed showed stunted growth.
And this is where we all begin. Nobody becomes a Christian and instantly has it all together. We start immature, learning how to walk in love. Early faith is shaky, inconsistent, and often full of hiding and pretending. Paul rebuked some believers by saying, “By this time, you ought to be teachers, but you still need someone to teach you the elementary principles again.” They were stuck in prolonged infancy, not maturing in love.