Gaslight Me Sweetie ™️

We are normalizing cheating now? That’s wild.

My mans I lived with would wake up next to me, say good morning beautiful to me & then leave the room & text 5 different women “good morning beautiful”

My mans had a best friend who’s a girl & I had a weird feeling about it but I am not the jealous type. He FaceTimed me laying in bed with his bestie friend when he went to visit her at college & then months later they got married.

TRUST YOUR INTUITION!!!

Unhealed people will not heal if they don’t want to. Narcissists don’t see that they are doing anything wrong. They are going to say & do the right things. They are going to gaslight you. They are going to make you feel crazy.

If someone cheats on you, it’s a character flaw on them. Leave them. Get away from them. Maybe they change a few years down the road??? But you cannot dwell on that. You need to keep moving forward. But if someone cheats on you, THEY DO NOT RESPECT YOU! If you respect yourself enough, you won’t stay. You’ll know your worth. You’ll find better. But you cannot find better if you stay.

We hold on to people way too long. We give people so many chances. We ignore the red flags. We always see the good in people. When we know it’s time to go, GO.

Trust your intuition.

You need to go NO CONTACT. Take those 90 days & life will get easier. It won’t be easy the first couple of days & weeks, but as time goes on you’ll feel less connected to them & more connected to yourself.

If that person doesn’t text you, call you, reach out to you after yall just hung out why are you hanging out with them again? Why do you respond to the “wyd” or “wya” texts? They don’t care about you. They don’t want you. They just want to use you.

THIS WEEK IS ABOUT SELF RESPECT & DISCIPLINE. Have yall grasped this concept yet?

Mercury retrograde did its thing. How are y’all feeling right now? I know it was a time. I know it felt like forever. But you know what you got through it once again and the best is yet to come.

It is so important to focus on you in this season. We have only four more months left of 2024 and it is so crucial right now to think about you. Your old life, your past life, it’s gonna cost you your new life, if you do not act now. You are destined for more. You cannot grow in darkness. You need to grow in sunlight and you need to grow around people who are watering you. I told you guys I am cliché. But those sayings, those cliché sayings are the most realist sayings that you can use for yourself.

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Unfortunately the people you think are the closest to you & you think want to see you win aka your blood isn’t always the case.

Tune in to hear about how a family member told me to get off my high horse, get off my pedestal, & come back down to earth all because I didn’t want to drink alcohol.

Tune in to hear about a family member who called me a piece of sh*t for their own built up anger for me leaving the family unit & traveling, living in different cities & expanding my knowledge.

They won’t say it sober. They’ll be so proud of you when they are sober. But when they are drunk, they are a totally different person fighting their own demons.

Remember, today & everyday you are doing great sweetie. Keep going!

To get discipline, you first need to have respect for your self. Without self respect, you will always lack discipline.

When your alarm goes off in the morning, do you get up or do you snooze? You set that alarm for a reason, it’s the intention for your day. So respect yourself enough to get up at the time you told yourself you’re going to get up!

When work is over & it’s time to go to the gym, do you go or do you skip because you’re not feeling so great? You’re tired? It’s been a long day? How about your respect yourself enough to go. Because you have goals you set for yourself & you’re not going to achieve them by NOT going!

When you keep the promises you made to yourself, life gets easier, bc you don’t put up with other people’s BS. But until you practice self respect consistently, your life won’t be as great as your destined for.

JUNK FAST ➡️ GOD ➡️ CLARITY

There is power in your words. SO much power in your words. Say your “I Am” Statements. Be grateful. Mediated. Manifest. Anything you say will happen, both positive & negative. If you make your words positive your life will get better. Gradually. Leave the negative behind! The negative words & negative people you need to leave behind. Cut ties with! You have a vision. You have to have a little delulu to get to where you want to be. Speak everything into existence. It’ll happen. Trust me.

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There is a reason why you’re lacking motivation today. You are waking up every single day doing some thing that you don’t enjoy doing. It’s time to change that. Today is the day to change that.

Today’s exercise is for you to grab a piece of paper and write down the pros and the cons of something. Whatever has been on your mind whatever has been bothering you write down the pros and cons of that topic. If the cons outweigh the pros you gotta get it together. Switch it up. Change it up. And the drastic Leap. I promise you that leap will be one of the best leaps that you will take in your life. Money will come back to you effortlessly abundantly an expedited Lee if you focus on your passion and your gift vs. creating revenue.

Q: JJ when are you going to have guests? A: every Thursday moving forward!

GMS WELCOMES GAB LIB!!! We talk all things entrepreneurship, routine, discipline, motivation, our fitness journeys, & going after what you want to get what you want. Gab & I were college psych majors which took a turn in our professional career. We haven't seen each other in 5 years, but haven't skipped a beat. Gab dead lifts 225+, has had 2 businesses at only 27 years old, was the OG Instacart at 15 years old, 'speaks Russian', will be visiting all 7 continents by age 30, & retiring by age 40. You get to choose your circle y'all. Chose those that BUILD you up, not TEAR you down. 

I love you so much, Gab! Thank you for being here today & I can't wait to have you on again. #ROADTO1MILLION +

Follow Gab's business page: @woofandco_bygab

XO, JJ