In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, Rachel King takes a deep dive into the murky waters of spousal support, also known as alimony. Spousal support is one of the most debated issues in divorce cases, and it’s surrounded by myths and misunderstandings. From the duration of payments to factors that influence spousal support, Rachel sets the record straight. Whether you’re on the paying or receiving end, this episode will provide the insight you need to make informed decisions.

Key Takeaways:

- The difference between short-term and long-term marriages in determining spousal support.

- Common myths about spousal support, including whether you must continue working.

- How spousal support can be modified based on life changes like retirement, remarriage, or a change in income.

- Why financial independence is essential, even in divorce, and how to prepare for it.

- Real-life case examples that demonstrate how spousal support is calculated and contested in court.

0:00 Introduction to Spousal Support

00:29 Welcome to Gavels Down, Voices Up

01:09 Understanding Alimony and Spousal Support

02:04 Factors Influencing Spousal Support

03:59 Controversies and Real-Life Cases

09:51 Misunderstandings About Spousal Support

12:21 Practical Advice and Conclusion

Learn more about Rachel King:

Website: https://rachelkingattorney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelawyerking/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rachelkinglaw

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#spousalsupport #divorce #separation #financialindependence #childsupport #court #myth #marriage #love #California #attorney #RachelKing #LawyerKing #alimony #podcast #law #legal #legaltalks

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In this powerful Veteran's Day episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, host I sit down with her husband, Army Veteran Daniel Olszko, to offer a rare, personal look into how military marriages survive the test of distance, deployment, and reintegration. Together, we reflect on our 18-month separation during Daniel’s deployment in Iraq, exploring how we navigated the unique challenges that come with being a military couple.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into the emotional and psychological hurdles faced by military families, as Daniel and I share candid stories of their struggles and successes. Whether you’re a military spouse, service member, or just curious about the impact of military life on marriage, this episode offers real, actionable lessons for strengthening relationships under pressure.

Key Lessons You’ll Learn:

1. How to maintain trust during long-term separations – Discover the strategies Rachel and Daniel used to stay connected despite being thousands of miles apart.

2. Managing the emotional rollercoaster of pre-deployment and post-deployment – Learn how couples can prepare for and recover from the psychological strain of deployment.

3. Setting boundaries for emotional intimacy while deployed – Understand why Daniel agreed to Rachel’s request not to confide in other women, and how boundaries can protect your marriage.

4. Navigating the difficult process of reintegration – Hear about the challenges of re-adapting to life together after extended periods of separation.

5. Overcoming jealousy and fears of infidelity – Learn how Rachel and Daniel tackled insecurities and built stronger trust after deployment.

6. Balancing personal freedom and shared responsibilities after deployment – Gain insight into how military couples can readjust to household duties and finances post-deployment.

Join us for this heartfelt and eye-opening discussion, and take away valuable lessons on love, resilience, and commitment in military marriages.

00:00 Introduction to Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:37 Military Marriages: A Personal Story

01:49 Deployment Challenges and Separation

03:48 Reintegration and Post-Deployment Struggles

07:59 Advice for Military Couples

18:51 Fun Stories and Reflections

23:13 Current Ventures and Closing Remarks

Learn more about Rachel King:

Website: https://rachelkingattorney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelawyerking/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rachelkinglaw

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#veteransday #militarycouple #militarywife #longdistance #deployment #divorce #separations #finance #veteran #militaryspouse #infidelity #military life #service #rachelking

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In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I’m breaking down the three essential steps you need to know before heading into child custody mediation. If you’re navigating the stressful waters of custody and visitation disputes—especially in California, where mediation is mandatory—you won’t want to miss this. I’ll show you how to approach court-ordered mediation confidently, whether you’re in a high-conflict co-parenting situation or seeking standard custody orders.

In this episode, you’ll learn more about:

1. Reaching an Agreement: It’s always better to reach a mutual agreement during mediation rather than leaving the decision up to a judge. However, only agree if you’re comfortable with the terms; never settle under pressure.
2. Present Yourself Professionally: How you present yourself in mediation matters. Be respectful, avoid interrupting, and use neutral language like "our child" instead of "my child" to appear more collaborative.
3. Understand the Mediator's Role: The mediator is neutral but will make a recommendation to the judge based on the session. Presenting yourself in the best light can influence the mediator’s report.
4. Provide Solutions: Don’t just voice concerns—offer clear, actionable solutions for the mediator to consider. This ensures your perspective is heard and the mediator doesn’t have to guess.
5. Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expect emotional challenges during mediation, especially from the other parent. Stay composed and focus on presenting your case logically, rather than getting pulled into arguments.
6. Focus on Long-Term Relationships: While mediation and custody disputes can be stressful, remember that your relationship with your child will extend long after the court process. Keep your focus on building a strong foundation for the future.

If child custody mediation feels overwhelming, don’t worry—this episode will give you the tools to navigate it successfully and come out stronger. Let’s dive in!

00:00 Introduction to Child Custody Mediation

00:52 Welcome to Gavels Down, Voices Up

01:28 Understanding Court-Ordered Mediation

02:31 Key Tips for Mediation Success

05:10 The Role of the Mediator

08:44 Providing Solutions in Mediation

12:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

14:35 Conclusion and Call to Action

Learn more about Rachel King:

Website: https://rachelkingattorney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelawyerking/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rachelkinglaw

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#divorcemediation #familylaw #negotiationtips #emotionalmanagement #legaladvice #divorcesupport #mediationstrategies #rachelking #gavelsdownvoicesup #confidentiality #settlementagreements #mindfulness

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Is there anything more stressful than high-conflict litigation during a divorce? In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I delve into the world of mediation in divorce, offering practical strategies to navigate this challenging process. Discover how to successfully negotiate a mediation settlement and end the divorce battle with a mutually satisfactory agreement.

In this episode, you’ll learn more about the following:

• The importance of identifying and prioritizing your deal breakers
• Preparing the necessary documentation for mediation
• Maintaining control and reducing emotional and financial costs
• Utilizing mindfulness and emotional management techniques
• The benefits of confidentiality and flexibility in mediation
• Ensuring agreements are formalized in writing

Whether you're at the beginning of the divorce process or somewhere in the middle, this episode equips you with the tools to reach the best possible agreement early on. Tune in now to learn how to take control of your divorce, minimize stress, and move forward confidently into the next phase of your life.

00:00:00 - Introduction to Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:02:00 - Importance of Mediation in Divorce

00:06:30 - Identifying and Prioritizing Deal Breakers

00:12:45 - Preparing Documentation for Mediation

00:18:15 - Maintaining Control and Reducing Costs

00:22:30 - Mindfulness and Emotional Management

00:28:00 - Benefits of Confidentiality and Flexibility

00:32:15 - Formalizing Agreements in Writing

00:37:45 - Final Thoughts and Tips for Successful Mediation

Ready to navigate your divorce with confidence? Join me in this insightful episode and take the first step towards a well-negotiated settlement that benefits your future.

Learn more about Rachel King:

Website: https://rachelkingattorney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelawyerking/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rachelkinglaw

#divorcemediation #familylaw #negotiationtips #emotionalmanagement #legaladvice #divorcesupport #mediationstrategies #rachelking #gavelsdownvoicesup #confidentiality #settlementagreements #mindfulness

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Divorce isn't just a legal battle; it's an emotional rollercoaster. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, we delve into the emotional complexities of divorce and offer practical tips to navigate this tumultuous journey. From real-life stories to actionable advice, we cover it all to help you emerge stronger on the other side.

Join me as we talk about the following:

1. The emotional highs and lows of the divorce process
2. Why therapy, legal support, and a strong support system are crucial
3. The importance of grieving the loss of your spouse
4. Mindfulness and meditation as tools for emotional stability
5. How physical activity can help manage stress and anxiety
6. The benefits of journaling for emotional clarity and growth

Whether you're facing a divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights to help manage the emotional upheaval and move forward with confidence.

Ready to take control of your emotional well-being? Tune in now to learn how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of divorce and come out stronger on the other side!

00:00:00 Introduction to Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:01:30 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Divorce

00:04:15 The Importance of Therapy and Support Systems

00:06:45 Grieving the Loss of Your Spouse

00:10:30 Mindfulness and Meditation: Real-Life Story of Jane

00:18:20 Physical Activity: Real-Life Story of Tom

00:26:30 Journaling: Real-Life Story of Lisa

00:35:00 Questions to Assess Emotional Fragility During Divorce

00:40:00 Tips for Redirecting Emotions in Court

00:45:00 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelawyerking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5ZIOh5b6kNo3KYojIA8vKw?si=3c05a5e3d17f4aee

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#divorce #emotionalwellbeing #emotions #mindfulness #meditation #physicalactivity #journaling #supportsystem #therapy #familylaw #rachelking #gavelsdownvoicesup

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Today, we're diving deep into the legal drama surrounding the estate of the legendary Tony Bennett. From multi-million dollar properties and royalties to complex family dynamics, the Bennett estate has it all.

In this episode, we explore:

• The vast and intricate components of the Bennett estate, including properties, royalties, and investments
• The family feud that erupted after Tony Bennett's passing, pitting his daughters against their brother
• The legal responsibilities of fiduciaries and the common pitfalls they face
• How transparency and communication can prevent or resolve estate disputes
• Real-life examples and practical advice on navigating estate conflicts

From the courtroom to your living room, Rachel King brings you insights that matter, challenging you to think differently about family law and inheritance disputes. Whether you're dealing with a modest estate or a celebrity-sized fortune, the lessons in this episode are invaluable.

Ready to change the dialogue? Tune in now to uncover the legal intricacies and emotional complexities of the Bennett estate and learn how to protect your own legacy.

00:00:00 Introduction to Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:01:00 The Bennett Estate: A Legacy of Wealth and Drama

00:05:30 Family Dynamics and Legal Responsibilities

00:10:45 The Lawsuit: Daughters vs. Brother

00:20:00 Transparency and Communication in Estate Management

00:25:30 Real-Life Case Studies and Practical Advice

00:35:00 The Cost of Legal Battles and Finding Resolutions

00:45:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelawyerking

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#estateplanning #familylaw #inheritancedisputes #tonybennett #legaladvice #podcast #celebritynews #wealthmanagement #rachelking #gavelsdownvoicesup

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Divorce. It can reset your entire financial situation, but it doesn't have to define your financial future. In fact, if handled correctly, it can provide financial freedom. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I dive into the complexities of financial independence post-divorce. From understanding the division of assets and debts to finding employment, here are invaluable insights to help you navigate the financial challenges of divorce and emerge stronger on the other side.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

- The importance of financial independence and how to achieve it

- Strategies for managing and allocating debts to protect your credit

- How to evaluate and divide assets for long-term financial health

- The critical role of employment in securing financial stability

- Real-life stories illustrating the impact of financial decisions during divorce

Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the midst of it, or rebuilding your life afterwards, this episode offers practical advice and encouragement to help you secure a financially independent future.

00:00:00 Introduction to Financial Independence Post-Divorce

00:01:20 The Financial Impact of Divorce

00:05:45 Importance of Employment in Achieving Financial Independence

00:10:30 Managing and Allocating Debts

00:18:00 Real-Life Case Studies on Debt Allocation

00:25:15 The Role of Assets in Long-Term Financial Health

00:35:00 Evaluating Depreciating vs. Appreciating Assets

00:40:45 The Value of Retirement Benefits

00:50:00 Steps to Take for Financial Independence

00:55:30 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelawyerking

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

#divorce #financialindependence #familylaw #debtmanagement #assetdivision #employment #financialfreedom #rachelking #gavelsdownvoicesup #podcast #legaladvice #entrepreneurs #smallbusinessowners #podcast #legalpodcast

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Divorce is never easy, but when children are involved, it’s a whole new ballgame. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I break down everything you need to know about navigating divorce as a parent. From understanding the differences between legal and physical custody, to dealing with child support and visitation schedules, I’m here to help you approach these difficult topics with clarity and confidence.

I also share practical tips on how to manage co-parenting, avoid common legal pitfalls, and—most importantly—prioritize your children’s well-being throughout the process. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or preparing for one, this episode will equip you with the knowledge and insights you need to move forward with grace.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. The difference between legal and physical custody

2. How visitation schedules work and why both parents should be involved

3. The basics of child support and how it’s calculated in California

4. Tips on maintaining your child’s stability and emotional health during divorce

5. Why therapy, legal advice, and a support system are essential tools in your journey

Tune in, subscribe, and take the first step towards a healthier, more peaceful divorce process—for you and your children.

00:00 Introduction: Navigating Divorce as a Parent

01:53 Understanding Custody: Legal and Physical

08:30 Visitation Explained: Time with Your Child

14:23 Child Support: Financial Responsibilities

22:26 Real-Life Divorce Stories: Best and Worst Cases

29:22 Tips for Navigating Divorce: Therapy, Legal Advice, and Support

31:06 Conclusion: Impact of Divorce on Children

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelawyerking

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

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Welcome to another engaging episode of "Gavels Down, Voices Up." I'm Rachel King, and today we're diving into real stories from the courtroom—my most memorable cases that have left a lasting impression and taught me invaluable lessons in law.

In this episode, I open up my case files and share incredible moments that have not only shaped my career as an attorney but could also help you avoid making similar mistakes in your own legal battles. From shocking eviction notices to the pitfalls of joint Amazon accounts, and navigating false allegations, each story offers a treasure trove of insights.

We’ll cover:

- The eviction of a dementia patient: How a family feud nearly left a mother homeless and the lesson in property disputes.

- Drug allegations during a divorce: The unexpected twist of shared Amazon accounts and the importance of financial independence.

- DUI and custody battle: The repercussions of ignoring legal advice during a sensitive period.

- Strategic lies and their fallout: Real-life examples of clients lying and the subsequent legal consequences.

- Judicial fairness and maintaining credibility: How courts view allegations, especially in sensitive cases like child custody.

Key Takeaways:

1. Honesty with Your Attorney is Crucial: Concealing information can backfire in multiple ways.

2. Follow Legal Advice Diligently: Ignoring advice can lead to severe repercussions.

3. Immediate Separation of Joint Accounts in Divorce**: Prevent your financial information from being used against you.

4. Documentation and Evidence are Key: Solid evidence significantly influences court decisions.

5. Judicial Fairness and Credibility: False allegations can damage your case and credibility.

6. Impact of Strategic Lies: Operating with integrity is essential for a favorable outcome.

00:00 Introduction to Memorable Courtroom Stories

01:04 Welcome to Gavels Down, Voices Up

01:38 Diving into Unbelievable Cases

03:00 Case 1: The Eviction Notice

07:14 Case 2: The Amazon Drug Test

10:42 Case 3: The DUI Disaster

14:06 Sponsor Break

14:58 Case 4: Client Lies and Hidden Assets

21:45 Case 5: False Allegations in Custody Battles

28:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelawyerking

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

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#FamilyLaw #CourtroomDrama #LegalInsights #RachelKing #GavelsDownVoicesUp #CustodyBattles #DivorceCases #AttorneyAdvice #KingLawFirm #LegalLessons #CourtroomStories

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I'm back with another juicy episode about a famous former Hollywood couple. Remember Brangelina? Well, Brad and Angelina are still locked in a messy legal battle years after their split. This time it's over their French winery, Château Miraval. In this ep, we peel back the curtain to look at how high-profile divorces with big money at stake can turn ugly. I share my take on Brange's never-ending fight over the winery and why it's gone so off the rails. We talk about the complex interplay of personal and professional lives, strategies for resolving disputes, and most importantly - the impact it has on the kids. I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences with high-conflict divorces or managing shared assets after splitting up.

At the end of the day, I try to encourage people to make level-headed decisions and not let emotions take over, even when there's a lot at stake. Stay tuned for some real talk!

In this episode, you will be able to:

1. Understand the complexities of high-stakes divorce cases in the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie winery dispute.

2. Gain insights into the legal and emotional implications of high profile celebrity divorces and their impact on assets.

3. Explore the emotional and legal impact of divorce on celebrity families, shedding light on unique challenges and strategies.

4. Navigate the legal battles over marital property with expert strategies and insights for a successful resolution.

5. Discover effective strategies for resolving high-stakes divorce cases, empowering you to make informed decisions and manage emotions effectively.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:04 - Introduction to the Podcast

00:01:32 - High-Profile Legal Issues

00:05:11 - Emotions and Legal Battles

00:09:57 - Impact on Family and Children

00:15:45 - The Impact of Laws on Decision Making

00:16:09 - Celebrity Battle

00:16:28 - Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:16:28 - Keep Engaging

00:16:28 - Conclusion

Learn more about Rachel King and her work:

Website: https://www.rachelkingattorney.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelawyerking/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.king.96343

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

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