Gender Reveal

Tuck catches up with organizer Jerika Che (they/them). Topics include:

• Creating an abolitionism-inspired trans summer camp
• What's up with all the gender-segregated trans picnics?
• Advice for creating your own trans community events
• Learning to successfully collaborate with co-organizers
• Plus: Xenogenders, Transoween, and Warrior Cats?

This Week in Gender: The Girls & Gays Movie Corner (lol)

Find Jerika's events at seattletransjoy.com and @seattletransjoy.

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today's messages were from Joce Ryder/Gentlethem and the podcast Cruising.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: Queer Candle Co (promo code: GENDER10) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck chats with author KT Hoffman (he/him) about trans romance novels, egg & cheddar gender, egg behavior, and not being Assigned Mariners At Birth.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of bagel recipes, real-life baseball romance (in our dreams), local queer softball leagues, formative gay YA novels, and which marginalized group will get to play professional baseball first (lol).

The Prospects is available now wherever books are sold! Find KT Hoffman at kthoffmanwrites.com and @squashgoblin.

Ozzy and Tuck chat with with Yin Q (they/them). Topics include:

• How parenting changed Yin's relationship to gender and kink
• What queer people still need to learn about kink and consent
• How the Red Canary Song documentary honors its subjects' privacy and agency
• Decriminalizing sex work — and then taking the "work" part out of it
• Plus: Spiritual sexuality, the kink-o-meter, and parent-child top surgery?

This Week in Gender: A Trans Day of Snack update!

Find Yin @redcanarysong @kinkoutevents and @yinq13ritual. Yin also recommends the book Thriving in Sex Work by Lola Davina as a resource.

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Happy (almost) Trans Day of Snack! We're explaining this weekend's mutual aid campaign (including FREE SNACKS for trans people in 26 US states) and sharing part two of our chat with Shuli Branson.

Sign up to receive your snack and/or financial aid at bit.ly/tdos24. View our list of trans resources at bit.ly/tdos24links. Spread the word!

Our full chat with Shuli is available here. (Part one is available here.)

Find Shuli at sjbranson.com and @shulibranson. Practical Anarchism is available from Pluto Press. Support The Breakup Theory on Patreon.

Get 25% off the Surviving the Future paperback or e-book with the coupon code GENDERREVEAL at pmpress.org this weekend.

Donate to our mutual aid/snack fund via PayPal or Venmo. (Put "TDoS" in the subject line plz.) Please donate to families fleeing Gaza at linktr.ee/fundsforgaza.

Our Trans Day of Snack merch is available through March 31 at bit.ly/gendermerch.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: "Hensteeth" & "Road to Petersby" by Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck chats with with writer Jamie Lauren Keiles (he/him). Topics include:

• Writing a nonbinary history book that eschews common trans identity rhetoric
• Reporting on phallo and blowjob jokes for the New York Times Magazine
• Why Jamie will never run another Most Transgender Name Competition
• Why everyone in the trans community is annoying in different beautiful ways :) :) :)
• Plus: "Fake bi to real bi," best novelty license plates, and Chaz Bono shopping in Miami?

This Week in Gender: There's new work by Andrea Long Chu, Beans Velocci, Paisley Currah and Judith Butler… but we instead quote Sawyer Kemp, Lola Pellegrino and Foz Meadows.

Find Jamie at jamielaurenkeiles.com and on Instagram and Twitter.

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show. Today's message was from Southpaw Cafe.

We've got limited-edition Trans Day of Snack 2024 merch on sale this month, with proceeds benefiting our mutual aid fund.

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Tuck and Ozzy chat with Liz Fong-Jones (she/her). Topics include:

• Creating a Coworker Solidarity Fund to support worker organizing and potential strikes
• Organizing your Google colleagues so hard that you crash Google Docs
• Being realistic about your security threats (e.g., is it safe to organize in Google Docs?)
• Ways that (trans & cis) tech workers can support trans people
• Plus: How the Joy Luck Club (not that one) saved her life

This Week in Gender: Listen to Hang Up.

Find Liz at lizthegrey.com and on cohost.

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show. Today's message was from Wren Dove Lark.

We've got limited-edition Trans Day of Snack 2024 merch on sale this month, with proceeds benefiting our mutual aid fund.

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Tuck shares last year's conversation with Nigerian fashion designer and activist Fola Francis (she/her/they). Topics include:

• Dodging a blacklist to walk in Lagos Fashion Week
• Advice for other people living under anti-LGBTQ laws
• "Queerness has always been very African"
• Hosting several of Lagos's first balls
• Plus: Nigerian healthcare, Dolls Activities, and And Just Like That…

This Week in Gender: Remembering Fola.

A full episode transcript is available at genderpodcast.com/listen.

You can find archives of Fola's life at @folafrancis and @thefolafrancis.

We've got Trans Day of Snack merch for a limited time over at bit.ly/gendermerch.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: "Taoudella" by Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck chats with linguist Ariana Steele (they/them). Topics include:

• Studying ways that Black nonbinary people degender themselves via language
• Developing a "chill vs loud" nonbinary fashion taxonomy
• How Ariana's autism and gender relate to each other…
• …and how all this ties into their mixed identity and Aquarius-Pisces cusp
• Plus: Britney Spears, the "gay lisp," and doing ethnographies in the club

This Week in Gender: Get ready for Trans Day of Snack 2024!

Find Ariana at arianasteele.com.

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show. Today's message was from MappingTransJoy.org.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: "Beignet" & "Capering" by Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: ShopEnby.com (code: GenderReveal) and DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Tuck chats with artist and experience designer Shing Yin Khor (they/them). Topics include:

• The memoirist's dilemma: narcissism vs turning other people into Content™
• "The long human tradition of grabbing some clay and making a little guy"
• Shifting your approach to activism in order to (hopefully!) avoid burnout
• Transitioning out of gender entirely?
• Plus: Burning Man hot takes, Paul Bunyan's BDE and the Muffler Man renaissance

This Week in Gender: Krys Malcolm Belc reviews Caitlyn Jenner's memoir.

Find Shing at shingkhor.com, on Patreon, and @sawdustbear. Read "I Do Not Want to Write Today" on Catapult.

Suggested Gaza support: @fundsforgaza & MECA

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show. Today's message was from Alex Nolos.

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Tuck chats with writer Lucy Sante (she/her). Topics include:

• Why Lucy finally transitioned after avoiding it for nearly 60 years
• Why the worst trans memoirs are like pre-cooked bacon
• What does it mean to identify as a bohemian?
• Reading about the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries in the newspaper as a high school student
• Plus: Trans lit recs; vibe shifts at the Strand; and how Harry Potter ruined a visit to a Portuguese bookstore

This Week in Gender: Cecilia at St. Patrick's. (Full video on YouTube. Read more in Vogue. More photos via Time. Here's a recap of the aftermath. Most importantly, donate to the Legacy Fund!)

Find Lucy at lucysante.com. I Heard Her Call My Name is available now.

Other texts referenced:

• Low Life by Lucy Sante
• Nevada by Imogen Binnie
• Andrea Long Chu (generally)
• Can the Monster Speak? by Paul Preciado
• I Want What I Want by Geoff Brown
• April Ashley's Odyssey by Duncan Fallowell & April Ashley
• Apologia Pro Vita Sua by John Henry Newman
• Confessions by Jean-Jacques Rousseau
• An Anecdoted Topography of Chance by Daniel Spoerri
• A Sorrow Beyond Dreams by Peter Handke
• Maybe the People Would Be the Times by Lucy Sante
• "Commerce" by Lucy Sante (link)

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show. Today's message was from Tiny Parade Coaching.

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